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Signs That Shows A Shy Guylikes You? by Nobody: 9:33am On Aug 16, 2013
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Some men are very overt in their
approach and you will know when they
mean business. Then there are the shy
guys who are extremely conscious of
their feelings for you but they won’t let
out directly. If you are interested in a
shy guy and you want to know if he is as
interested in you, then you will have to
observe for subtle signs that indicate he
likes you.
Many girls who have love interest in a
man they know to be shy have these

How do shy guys act around
a girl they like?

How to know if a shy guy
likes you?

And how to deal with shy
guys?

In this article we seek to answer
these questions in the best possible
manner.

Signs a Shy Guy Likes You:

All shy guys are faced with one dilemma
– to let know or to not let know – when it
comes to their love interest. They
usually never let you know directly
unless you indicate your interest first
and they don’t catch on to your hints
very quickly so you have to be direct.
Here are some signs that a shy guy likes
you.

1.He Avoids Direct Eye Contact:

If a shy guy is in love with you, he’s
gonna talk through his eyes but not
directly. Shy guys stare if they like you,
that’s a fact, but they are quick to avoid
your eye contact if you gaze in their
direction.
They just can’t maintain eye contact for
more than a second and they will either
look down or sideways. He would stare
almost unconsciously at you but when he
sees you looking at him he will become
very self conscious and avert his glace.
He might give you a polite smile if you
catch him staring but he will look away
while doing so.

2.He Blushes When You Talk to Him:

You can see a pink flush on his cheeks if
you flirt with him or get close to him or
even if you just have a casual
conversation. Shy guys are overly
sensitive and self conscious, he’s been
thinking or even obsessing about you in
his mind and when you talk to him his
natural shyness causes him to blush.

3.He Becomes Self Conscious When
You are Around:

If you see him touching up his hair,
scratching his face, twirling his fingers or
getting fidgety whenever you are
around, it would indicate that he has
become very self conscious in your
presence. This is definite sign of a shy
guy liking you.

4.He Stammers While Talking to You:

How to know if a shy guy likes you? Just
talk to him and you will know. Just start a
casual conversation and see how he
reacts to you. If he stammers back a
reply, while looking all around the room
but at you, then you know he has an
intense crush going.

5.He Gets Your Number from Your
Friends and Calls You Up:

It is quite natural for a shy guy to never
ask your number directly. If he’s going
crazy in his love for you, he might
muster the courage to get your number
from your friends, or from some other
source, and call you up on some pretext
(usually a pretty lame one). He might
even chat with you on a messaging
utility like facebook, twitter, msn or
yahoo because it’s easier for him than a
direct interaction initially.

6.He is Very Sensitive to Your Touch:

If you happen to touch him playfully, or
just casually, he might respond as if a he
got an electric shock. You will see his
face go all pink, he might suddenly move
away or just get overly self-conscious. It
just shows your touch means a lot to
him.

7.He Offers to Help You With Your
Work:

This might be one way he will try to
approach you. He will offer to help you
with your work or offer to drop you
home. This is a big step for a shy guy
and you should take it as a definite sign
that he likes you and is in love with you.
So these are the common signs when a
shy guy likes you. It might be a little
frustrating to see that he is not being
direct in expressing his interest but this
is how shy guys act around a girl they
like.
Re: Signs That Shows A Shy Guylikes You? by xynerise: 9:50am On Aug 16, 2013
You mean sissy?

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Re: Signs That Shows A Shy Guylikes You? by passionate88: 12:33pm On Aug 16, 2013
Na wa o, so black men dey blush?, which hair dm go touch?, if him dey shy for girl which mind him go take approach her frnd?. Young man sogidem!

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Re: Signs That Shows A Shy Guylikes You? by Nobody: 12:52pm On Aug 16, 2013
Look @you ooo "so black men they blush"? What's the diiff between black and white? So you don't cherish black your black nature right... And moreover everyone do blush when you see person wey you like... I go be like yeeeee!!! Omo se babe oooo
Re: Signs That Shows A Shy Guylikes You? by Lamasta(m): 1:39pm On Aug 16, 2013
What is SHY?
Re: Signs That Shows A Shy Guylikes You? by Mac517(m): 2:22pm On Aug 16, 2013
Evrytin abt shy guys is True bcuz am 1. Nice One
Re: Signs That Shows A Shy Guylikes You? by Nomski0(f): 2:28pm On Aug 16, 2013
@Op, you're absolutely right......i love shy guys, especially now that they're slowly going in to extinction. They are usually very sensitive.

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Re: Signs That Shows A Shy Guylikes You? by Nobody: 2:41pm On Aug 16, 2013
There is always a deeper level of any 'shy' man. Expect an p0rn or RPG obsession tongue
Re: Signs That Shows A Shy Guylikes You? by passionate88: 2:58pm On Aug 16, 2013
Mac517: Evrytin abt shy guys is True bcuz am 1. Nice One
I dnt blush, I no dey touch my head wn I dey talk to girl wey I like.
Re: Signs That Shows A Shy Guylikes You? by Nobody: 3:28pm On Aug 16, 2013
Now the truth of the fact why I brought up this topic is dat... I am a victim. I mean I am a very shy guy.. Always but I am not gentle thou one thing I use to feel about women I really admire is dat

I am really nervous around
women
I'll break this down further below, but
the central problem is that I'm just
really anxious, scared, and inhibited
around women. Almost all men get
somewhat nervous when they have to
ask girl out, or kiss her, or even talk to
her for the first time. But when a guy is
really shy his nervousness is at a level
where it usually prevents him from doing
any of those things. It's legitimately
strong, not something where we can
just take a deep breath and push
through it. Sometimes this nervousness
shows up as the physical symptoms of
anxiety. At other times it's more of a
powerful, paralyzing hesitation. Like i
know how i want to act, but an
invisible force field is preventing me
from doing so.
Re: Signs That Shows A Shy Guylikes You? by Nobody: 3:30pm On Aug 16, 2013
Flytefalls: There is always a deeper level of any 'shy' man. Expect an p0rn or RPG obsession tongue
. You are right but not all thou!
Re: Signs That Shows A Shy Guylikes You? by Nobody: 3:31pm On Aug 16, 2013
Nomski0: @Op, you're absolutely right......i love shy guys, especially now that they're slowly going in to extinction. They are usually very sensitive.
. You are right
Re: Signs That Shows A Shy Guylikes You? by Nobody: 3:37pm On Aug 16, 2013
Lamasta: What is SHY?
. Having or showing nervousness or
timidity in the company of other people
Which happens to everyone thou might not be on the same....
Re: Signs That Shows A Shy Guylikes You? by Nobody: 3:58pm On Aug 16, 2013
oliver badoo: Now the truth of the fact why I brought up this topic is dat... I am a victim. I mean I am a very shy guy.. Always but I am not gentle thou one thing I use to feel about women I really admire is dat

I am really nervous around
women
I'll break this down further below, but
the central problem is that I'm just
really anxious, scared, and inhibited
around women. Almost all men get
somewhat nervous when they have to
ask girl out, or kiss her, or even talk to
her for the first time. But when a guy is
really shy his nervousness is at a level
where it usually prevents him from doing
any of those things. It's legitimately
strong, not something where we can
just take a deep breath and push
through it. Sometimes this nervousness
shows up as the physical symptoms of
anxiety. At other times it's more of a
powerful, paralyzing hesitation. Like i
know how i want to act, but an
invisible force field is preventing me
from doing so.
I wonder where your anxieties stem from. Breaking things down should help for you, continue. This is surmountable, I success everyday smiley
Re: Signs That Shows A Shy Guylikes You? by Nobody: 4:02pm On Aug 16, 2013
Flytefalls:
I wonder where your anxieties stem from. Breaking things down should help for you, continue. This is surmountable, I success everyday smiley
hmmm
Re: Signs That Shows A Shy Guylikes You? by Nobody: 4:04pm On Aug 16, 2013
oliver badoo: hmmm
That was supposed to be "I see success everyday" tongue.

Seriously though, anxieties are workable smiley

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Re: Signs That Shows A Shy Guylikes You? by Nobody: 4:15pm On Aug 16, 2013
Flytefalls:
That was supposed to be "I see success everyday" tongue.

Seriously though, anxieties are workable smiley
give me a lil tips on dat
Re: Signs That Shows A Shy Guylikes You? by Nobody: 4:32pm On Aug 16, 2013
oliver badoo: give me a lil tips on dat
Define your own anxieties and how these constrict you. Where do your boundaries lie? For example, can you talk to girls who you aren't romantically interested in? Set small realistic goals for yourself. You have nothing to lose by trying to push yourself, but let it be realistic and situational. A hungry person waiting for the bus in the rain is less likely to respond positively to your friendly "hello" than a bored colleague on a tea break. Anything inherently unnatural to you can become easier with practice, always!

^Stuff like that can help, but resources for self-help are plentiful. Start with google smiley

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Re: Signs That Shows A Shy Guylikes You? by Coolie89(m): 4:37pm On Aug 16, 2013
@op u mean a late bloomer,or a nerd.
Re: Signs That Shows A Shy Guylikes You? by Nobody: 4:40pm On Aug 16, 2013
Flytefalls:
Define your own anxieties and how these constrict you. Where do your boundaries lie? For example, can you talk to girls who you aren't romantically interested in? Set small realistic goals for yourself. You have nothing to lose by trying to push yourself, but let it be realistic and situational. A hungry person waiting for the bus in the rain is less likely to respond positively to your friendly "hello" than a bored colleague on a tea break. Anything inherently unnatural to you can become easier with practice, always!

^Stuff like that can help, but resources for self-help are plentiful. Start with google smiley
cool and nice cool....... can i know you? more thou you sounds more interesting i would love to hear more from you.

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Re: Signs That Shows A Shy Guylikes You? by kabayomi(m): 5:10pm On Aug 16, 2013
Nomski0: @Op, you're absolutely right......i love shy guys, especially now that they're slowly going in to extinction. They are usually very sensitive.
Hehehe nomski m shy too any chance??
Re: Signs That Shows A Shy Guylikes You? by sweettease(f): 5:20pm On Aug 16, 2013
Oh! He is totally into me embarassed grin
Re: Signs That Shows A Shy Guylikes You? by dmcdad: 5:45pm On Aug 16, 2013
passionate88: Na wa o, so black men dey blush?, which hair dm go touch?, if him dey shy for girl which mind him go take approach her frnd?. Young man sogidem!
He is right.... I blush alot. I think I am kinda shy, but never timid.
Re: Signs That Shows A Shy Guylikes You? by Nomski0(f): 6:07pm On Aug 16, 2013
kabayomi:
Hehehe nomski m shy too any chance??
grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Signs That Shows A Shy Guylikes You? by Nobody: 6:11pm On Aug 16, 2013
grin@ O.P you wicked ooo... See how you just exposed me hia.... I do exactly everything u said...especially that of collecting number from friends...i get PHD for that one grin

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Re: Signs That Shows A Shy Guylikes You? by Nobody: 6:14pm On Aug 16, 2013
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Re: Signs That Shows A Shy Guylikes You? by rash47(m): 6:17pm On Aug 16, 2013
@flytefalls,war are u? A shrink?I guess. U 're equally dissecting me here.
Re: Signs That Shows A Shy Guylikes You? by Nomski0(f): 6:26pm On Aug 16, 2013
DonCrust:

What do you mean by slowly going into extinction?
I mean that they are rare......aka not common.
Re: Signs That Shows A Shy Guylikes You? by TopSpot: 6:39pm On Aug 16, 2013
you are very correct poster...

most of the points you listed above are typical of a shy guy...

i know this because i'm one...

i dont worry too much t about it cause it's paying off positively... cheesy

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Re: Signs That Shows A Shy Guylikes You? by Ajibam: 6:52pm On Aug 16, 2013
Dat means am shy!!!!
No wonda!!!so das y she neva gree,,,
@op...hw am i going to be an escapade of dese malicious ting
Re: Signs That Shows A Shy Guylikes You? by Nobody: 6:59pm On Aug 16, 2013
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Re: Signs That Shows A Shy Guylikes You? by Nobody: 9:27pm On Aug 16, 2013
Girls don't like shy guys.

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