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Re: Family Relationship by Chigszy(f): 6:37pm On Mar 25, 2005 |
Oh well, I agree that the family relationship is absolutely important. But I think that both husband and wife should manage the family, not only the man. Oh well, traditionally, the husband ought to be the head of the family because the women did not work. But now, that belief is changing: women work too and they contribute equally in the running of the family. So I think the right thing is for both of them to manage the family. There ought to be understanding, and that is achieved if they both work together. |
Re: Family Relationship by Chigszy(f): 2:18am On Mar 29, 2005 |
Ok, first of all, you are entitled to your own opinion. But I mean naturally men are the head of the family, but lately that structure is changing. A woman does not necessary have to depend on a man in order to live and neither does a man have to depend on a woman. Both of them are the provider of their home. I mean people think that house keeping is not a job, but it is a full time job! I mean it will really be cool if we could get a man to exchange with a woman just for a day or two, and then they would let us know what they thought about it. Women that stay at home have a full time job and they even tend to work longer hours than the men do. So they are equally entittled to raise the kids together and hold the family together with the husband. |
Re: Family Relationship by Seun(m): 5:35pm On Apr 09, 2005 |
ukperegbu Solomon:(Emphasis mine) Instructions to be obeyed! Come on, this is the 21st century. Where have you been for the past 200 years? Now I truly understand the meaning of the word 'hilarious'! So please register asap and let's counsel you! 1 Like |
Re: Family Relationship by Ra(f): 10:53pm On Apr 09, 2005 |
Gone are the days when men shouted out instructions and women jump to do their bid. These days, men simply add the word 'sweetie' and women still run to carry out their wishes. Let's face it really, it's a man's world. Yes, women are helping out in the finances of the house now more than ever, but that by no means diminishes the man’s authority. In an ideal marriage however, the husband does not laud his authority over the wife. If there is mutual respect, I should think both parties are well aware of their duties and carry them out as at when due. What women are to men are helpers. If men are without us they become almost clueless. We both (the two sexes) cannot do without the other. As the head of the house, the man is enamoured with huge responsibilities such as security for his family, financial provision and he is also the voice of wisdom most of the time. Nothing diminishes a man's respect faster than constantly shacking his responsibilities as the head of the family. If the head of the house remains faithful to these duties, there is absolutely no question of the wife's and indeed the children's respect for him. In a nutshell, each party has a vital role to play in the family. Close knitted families are more often than not bound by love, respect and credibility. I speak very largely from experience, to the glory of God. |
Re: Family Relationship by Seun(m): 3:40pm On Apr 11, 2005 |
Well, I'm glad that I get to be the head of the family by default. Isn't that wonderful? I don't even have to contest for the position! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Family Relationship by Ra(f): 11:00am On Apr 17, 2005 |
While not having to contest for the position, men however MUST maintain the position. Now that is a lifetime job. So, why make you contest for it when you spend your life defending it? |
Re: Family Relationship by solo2(m): 2:47pm On Apr 17, 2005 |
Well when I said that the man has the resposibility to manage the family, I did not means the man should be issueing out instructions without the agreement of both parties, that the man and the wife. the man always has the last say in any matter in the house, he will listen to every one idea before giving out the last order. No wife or woman with respect can issue instructions to the husband and believe me if any which means there is problem somewhere in that house. |
Re: Family Relationship by Motee(f): 4:57pm On Sep 29, 2005 |
I think a family relationship should be a thing like when the man is not around and a decision has to be taken, whatever options the wife decides to take should relates to whatever the husband would have preferred best for them. The Bible says the TWO shall become ONE. |
Re: Family Relationship by mide2(f): 7:24pm On Jan 01, 2006 |
solo2:I tot we were talking about a family here and not a camp of soilders.....haba...whats with the instruction stuff. No one gives instruction, rather we all, including the kids give opinion and delibrate and the parents now agree on the issue. Giving instructions sounds more like a boss to her secretary or smthg like tha. |
Re: Family Relationship by SkinnyDude(m): 10:18pm On Jan 15, 2015 |
yes, it is. it's very important |
Re: Family Relationship by Nobody: 12:33am On Jan 16, 2015 |
Make I follow buy land here |
Re: Family Relationship by babakb: 9:27pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
Yes, if your wife contributes money to the family then you are giving her a share in your authority, but I can't feed, cloth, house, school, health and fvck and not expect absolute obedience from my wife. Call me old fashioned I don't care. |
Re: Family Relationship by credid(m): 12:00pm On Feb 15, 2019 |
omo 14 years no be beans |
Re: Family Relationship by Bornu1stSon(m): 9:53pm On Jan 27, 2021 |
16 no be beans o. Let me buy land |
Re: Family Relationship by Bornu1stSon(m): 9:55pm On Jan 27, 2021 |
Seun: And now you are in future Hope married life is going well? |
Re: Family Relationship by Nobody: 10:32pm On Jan 27, 2021 |
I done book space. When Nairaland was meant for a suppose. Now na warfront! 1 Like |
Re: Family Relationship by illicit(m): 10:46pm On Jan 27, 2021 |
Re: Family Relationship by MANNABBQGRILLS: 10:55pm On Jan 27, 2021 |
16 Years Ago! Alhamdulillah 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Family Relationship by Nobody: 11:02pm On Jan 27, 2021 |
Lol @ the guy above. Una follow this guy come into past |
Re: Family Relationship by Nobody: 11:15pm On Jan 27, 2021 |
Make I hear say I nor buy land for here. |
Re: Family Relationship by Nobody: 11:53pm On Jan 27, 2021 |
My time machine isn't working, how do I go back?? But,am I the only one who can't really figure out what's going on here?? |
Re: Family Relationship by assistant: 12:32am On Jan 28, 2021 |
Omo 16 years old post no be beans Front page worthy |
Re: Family Relationship by Ifabernard(m): 12:47am On Jan 28, 2021 |
Re: Family Relationship by Mikester: 12:48am On Jan 28, 2021 |
Seun:Good day Sir, please change my moniker to Michael. I love my birth name and I will be glad if you can do this for me. Please consider my request |
Re: Family Relationship by Cholls(m): 1:08am On Jan 28, 2021 |
My brother what a journey! |
Re: Family Relationship by NobleSeed(m): 1:49am On Jan 28, 2021 |
But waiting come make Seun and the rest folks no come finish the discussion again now? I can bet with the new service cheifs most mod on this platform don't know about this post been the first post on nairaland. Na to dey band the bandables them sabi research them no go do. @last child you try smal. but we no go too supprise if na seun still dey behind the Monica shal, cause even nairaland no balance. |
Re: Family Relationship by Enudapan: 4:27am On Jan 28, 2021 |
Nah eh! No qualms This is so sophisticated |
Re: Family Relationship by ikorodureporta: 6:55am On Jan 28, 2021 |
They deleted d first ones |
Re: Family Relationship by Shortyyy(f): 7:24am On Jan 28, 2021 |
I'm sure he is the op. Posting and replying himself. |
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