A collegue of mine was complaigning about her partners nature of throwing things all over the place and calling her to ask if she knows where his stuff is. They are not married oh, don't even live together but he will scatter his stuff all over and be asking her where his things are.
It was so funny to me because my husband is d worsr culprit, he starts scattering his clothes from the sitting room, you will see me picking after him, he will go upstairs to the room I just arranged and scatter d rest on the ground, tp aviod wahala I put out his evening clothes on the bed else he will scatter the wadrope I just arranged, same thing in the mornings, I ask him what he intends to wear in the night and leave it out. Trouble comes when I travel, I will be abroad oh he will call me " honey have you seen my tie?" What tie? " The one I wore 2 days ago" but I was not around two days ago? How am I supposed to see it.
That's why I love it when my mother in law visits, all of a sudden this scattered man transforms into an organised man even doing laundry and helping out in the kitchen, ha like majic, his mom will tell me na me dey leave am, lol, she raised 5 boys and she is tougher than an Army General, my hubby and his brothers are all above 6 feet but the way they dey fear the 5 ft woman ehnn, no be small thing.
How many women dey suffer like me oh?

That's why I love it when my mother in law visits, all of a sudden this scattered man transforms into an organised man even doing laundry and helping out in the kitchen, ha like majic, his mom will tell me na me dey leave am, lol, she raised 5 boys and she is tougher than an Army General, my hubby and his brothers are all above 6 feet but the way they dey fear the 5 ft woman ehnn, no be small thing.
How many women dey suffer like me oh?

You made me laugh very hard oh God ,
If he can be so organised when his mother comes, is he doing it on purpose, to punish you or what? See wahala! Please, ask him why he changes automatically when his mum comes. And what is his response when your mother- in-law boosts of being tough?
Please, try not to see it as suffer oh! if not you may end up losing your mind one day. It is better to have a loving man that disorganise the house than a lazy and unfaithful husband. Take it as a small cross you have to carry till the issue is resolved peacefully between the two of you.

Lol Ferya I don't see it as suffering oh! I use dat term very loosely. I enjoy doing these things for my husband, I can't be as tough as his mom oh, his mom didn't have a choice than to be tough, 5 boys plus her husband 6 would have run her mad. But no matter how tough she was on her boys she practically worshiped her husband, I remember one day I went to the house he had just finished eating and I wanted to clear the plates my father in law told me abeg oh leave the plates oh except you want to quarel with Mama. As for my husband, I don carry am with love. If am not home I miss doing all these small issues for him.

Rofl.

Mine is too calculated and organised that it becomes sinful.

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How many women dey suffer like me oh?

Uhm. . .actually I put things down and briefly forget where I've put them (that's my excuse and I'm sticking to it!)
It's gotten to the point that I don't say anything and just look, but certain people have figure out my M.O. so I get insulted and laughed at.  It hurts. Why should I suffer because I've misplaced something?

Lol Ferya I don't see it as suffering oh! I use dat term very loosely. I enjoy doing these things for my husband, I can't be as tough as his mom oh, his mom didn't have a choice than to be tough, 5 boys plus her husband 6 would have run her mad. But no matter how tough she was on her boys she practically worshiped her husband, I remember one day I went to the house he had just finished eating and I wanted to clear the plates my father in law told me abeg oh leave the plates oh except you want to quarel with Mama. As for my husband, I don carry am with love. If am not home I miss doing all these small issues for him.

Thats it girl! Keep it going

Ify and N101, I no fit laff oh, kai, see 419

Mine scatters everything and everywhere, as if 'scatterage' is his middle name, , before i used to hala, but now, i have given myself rest of mind, before i will suddenly grow old one afternoon, because i dey complain.

hahaha

@ Op
Please can i borrow your mother in law, ?

Everything hubby is looking for is in his wardrobe thats where everything goes into, I cannot stand clutter or disorganisation as my work is all about brainstorming ideas all the time and i need all the energies flowing, my hubby _{bless him} honestly tries to be tidy up but, , so we have an unspoken rule of just fold nicely tie in several wrapper and stuff his wardrobe till weekend when i can sort them out.

So if he is looking for anything even car keys they are in his wardrobe.

By the way I can never share a wardrobe with him.

Hahahhaha, Horny4u, you can't have her oh, she is in very hot demand from her daughter -in- laws. Thank God he built me a walk in closet so I don't have to share one with him. My Mother In law gisted me of one time when the boys were feeling like men and tried to rebel, then she had become a deputy director in her office so she got a maid to help her out
She came home one evening to find her sons plates stacked and unwashed in d kitchen sink, she asked them why and the bold one told her that washing plates is a womans job afterall their Father have gotten her a maid. She asked all of them if they agree with their brother feeling bold they said yes, she didn't talk oh. She stayed with them, gisted, watched news and had night prayers before going to bed. At midnight she went round their rooms and woke them all up, ordered them to carry their mattrasses and sleep outside, since they were now men she said men don't live under daddy and mommys roof, men have their own houses. They begged and begged she no gree oh, their father had no choice than to support her, dats how those boys slept with Mosquitoes dat day, till today, grown men with kids if they go to their moms house they all eat, pack their plates to the kitchen and wash their plates. Lol

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hahaha
I have always believed that women who have so many boys have been seen to be equipped for the job, Big ups to her its not easy bringing up half a man talkless of 5 men,

about her coming over to mine , can i bribe you? lol pulling your legs

Datz why we re[b]MEN[/b] .thnk u 4 undastndng

x

As for me I eventually realized the the fastest way to find my stuffs is to ask my wife. I gave up trying to find them myself a long time ago as I never seem to be able to locate them.

My Hubby is too organize…am the one that scatter, not much though. Specially when I come back from work and rushing to mk dinner. He helps me to arrange my things.

Op you are very funny,I can relate your mother -inlaw to my mum,If you come to my house you can never find a dirty dish in the sink cos my mum made sure that from when were able to do dishes,everyone diid his or her dish immediately after eating,if my mum enters the kitchen even around 2 am(she had this habit of waking up at night just to check if everything was in other,kichen,doors,girls sleeping with bra and pants on etc)and finds a dirty dish in the sink,she comes straight to our room to ask who kept it there and makes sure its done.
Even my dad got used to doing his dishes immediately after meal if no one is around to do it for him,my dad is an organized man but once in a while he misplaces things and my mum used to help him find it with a little frown on her face.

ronkebp:

Mine scatters everything and everywhere, as if 'scatterage' is his middle name,   , before i used to hala, but now, i have given myself rest of mind, before i will suddenly grow old one afternoon, because i dey complain.

i have an aunty with five boys,they are terrorists and know how to scatter things all over the place  at times i don't  like visiting them.

Lol, I like your mom. I think I am going to be like dat with my boys too, want to raise responsible, respectful men. Validator, my husband says the same thing. Lol

Many are unlucky! All those I know are very organized. Look before you leap. Otherwise teach by example!!!

^^^^^^^^ just 5 boys? Then my mom should be seen as a patron. All her boys can do every kind of domestic work to a fault except when we see someone that wants to give us a break.

It's not like that, I luv asking my wife where my stuffs at, at same time looking for it my self coz if she happens to know it eases my task,

And besides we men have a lot to worry about like, Rent, work, wife etc. So we tend to forget things easily

this thread is for the ladies.brb!!!!!slams the door and walks out without looking back.

Scaterring things is fun

Women too pack joo. Na so my mum go arrange and rearrange until she go misplace my dads stuff. She go say they were not properly kept. Na then my daddy go hala, I say make you leave my thing where I keep am. Una over pack joor.

Its very sexy and romantic when my wife discovers the missing one from my pair of sockings when am hurrying to work. It feels lyk she just saved my life and I love her the more.

freecocoa:

Op you are very funny,I can relate your mother -inlaw to my mum,If you come to my house you can never find a dirty dish in the sink cos my mum made sure that from when were able to do dishes,everyone diid his or her dish immediately after eating,if my mum enters the kitchen even around 2 am(she had this habit of waking up at night just to check if everything was in other,kichen,doors,girls sleeping with bra and pants on etc)and finds a dirty dish in the sink,she comes straight to our room to ask who kept it there and makes sure its done.

Many Men are babies dont u know?

Guilty as charged. I know say I dey leave things in places I can't remember. That's why my wife is my wife, my friend, lover and even mother at times sef make I no lie. Kai, women, you people try for us no be small.

On behalf of married men who are guilty as charged! WE SAY THANK YOU OOOOOOO

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A collegue of mine was complaigning about her partners nature of throwing things all over the place and calling her to ask if she knows where his stuff is. They are not married oh, don't even live together but he will scatter his stuff all over and be asking her where his things are.
It was so funny to me because my husband is d worsr culprit, he starts scattering his clothes from the sitting room, you will see me picking after him, he will go upstairs to the room I just arranged and scatter d rest on the ground, tp aviod wahala I put out his evening clothes on the bed else he will scatter the wadrope I just arranged, same thing in the mornings, I ask him what he intends to wear in the night and leave it out. Trouble comes when I travel, I will be abroad oh he will call me " honey have you seen my tie?" What tie? " The one I wore 2 days ago" but I was not around two days ago? How am I supposed to see it.
That's why I love it when my mother in law visits, all of a sudden this scattered man transforms into an organised man even doing laundry and helping out in the kitchen, ha like majic, his mom will tell me na me dey leave am, lol, she raised 5 boys and she is tougher than an Army General, my hubby and his brothers are all above 6 feet but the way they dey fear the 5 ft woman ehnn, no be small thing.
How many women dey suffer like me oh?

Mrs Jarus also undergoes this. You've just described an habit I thought I am the only doing.

Its the reverse in some cases, I am more organised than my spouse.