Okija juju: Like my Igbo peeps would say... Nna MEN!!!!!

emmysenior: Irony of life; Some are looking for faithful spouses that love em more than they love him/her...

Whilst others are/have used and dumped their future wives/husbands as mere sex objects or mugus or magas as the case may be.

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Me: Madam! Abeg give me a plate of hot poundy... plus hot egusi mixed with ogbono soup..., put two turkey, two goat meats, two kpomo...

Come sama am with cold malta guiness...

Madam: customerrrrrrrr....

Rita41: dats Y I say date a man whom you r sure is a genuine God fearing guy!he wud nva do dat to u!

pharuk: +++++ Desperately clicking on thread, searching for pictures to summarize the whole story++++++++

+++++ Sad to see none, refuse to like page, long hiss, close page and then moves to the next thread+++++

woodcook: I think is high time the legistators pass a law concerning long term relationship. In Uganda for instance if you live with your girl friend for four years automatically she becomes your wife legally. hahhaa. I am sure this will at least save Nigerian men from been cooked alive.

Alikaxon: mehn... Girls these days are so desperate to marry; guyz be very careful with them. They wil hide dia xracta, by gift 4 ur mum just to convince her, but wen dy get in, only God knows. Wait a minute... Is it by force 4 a guy 2 marry u? He dated u for 4 yrs, agreed, he promised to marry, agreed, but he now changed his mind nd say he woun't marry u again, is it by force? Or y dn't u go on strike like ASUU? F.G. promised nd failed dem, did dy poor hot oil on F.G? No! Ur kind of strike would hav been to stay away 4rm him until he is ready to negociate, or if he is nt ready to negotiate, den u strike n liv him 4ever. How can u say he used nd dumped u? U used him too: u waisted his sperm, energy nd even money, perhaps. Oh! I see, it was bcox of ur pugnacious attitude dat made him to live u 4 good.

switch360: women are useless and heartless.

esn1: Sad. Men please never give a promise when you wouldn't fulfill. There's so much violence in our country now. If you want to opt out of a relationship, let it b mutual, with understanding from both parties.

dplomaticVal: wht she did ws a kinda revenge,the naughty dude might av polluted her pu*sy wit condemned spʒrm

switch360: women are useless and heartless.

esn1: Sad. Men please never give a promise when you wouldn't fulfill. There's so much violence in our country now. If you want to opt out of a relationship, let it b mutual, with understanding from both parties.

Theblessed: [b][size=16pt]Well that's what our culture brings - a culture where women are meant to believe that they had to be someones property to feel fulfilled in their role as women, is cursed.

Just as men, women are gifted and that gift can not only be expressed in marriage alone - it can be expressed without being married as well.

The mentality in our culture is that "Thou must marry at all cost in order to be respected and be fulfilled" and that's a lie.


Marriage is not compulsory! Again, it is choice! You choose to marry or not to marry - no palaver!


But in our country Nigeria, it is a big PALAVER if a woman did not marry, there is a big hooohaaa and ask, why should it be!

When men are not married no one pressurizes them, abuses them, dis-inherits them or even kill them.

Just look around you would see many Nigerian men who are not married - just check, you would see plenty of them walking the streets and deceiving vulnerable women.

But when it comes to a woman, just wait for the pressure, abuses and name-callings from family, friends and society at large - again, marriage is not compulsory.

This cruelty inflicted on this guy by his girl-friend is all the hall-mark of family and societal pressures put on the singles and unmarried in this country as well as Nigerian men themselves, taken advantage of this cultural evil to dis-honour a vulnerable Nigeria women, seeking to be married at all cost because of societal pressure.

The after-math of it all is nothing but - cruelty and wickedness, as this one!!!

Yes, I can appreciate what went through this lady's mind when she took up this wicked action.

Promise and fail, promise and fail is a broken contract - whether written and signed on paper or verbal or implied - 'agreement is agreement' - 'a contract is a contract' and should be honored.

She went into this relationship with the hope they will get married eventually and so, she invested 'everything she had into this love relationship' and what was her reward?

Disappointment and abandonment plus years wasted waiting for it to happen, it never did - hey a woman's time is too short to be wasted by a player!


Well, he got what he deserved - no sympathy!


At least other players have learnt never to lead a woman on to believe, you will marry her after all!

For those players out there, if you hadn't learn from this, maybe, you will learn in your grave.

My advice is, be upfront - tell a girl that you're not marriageable, and that you are not looking to be married in the next 20 or so years, period. After all, there are many fishes in the sea she could hook up with, if in hurry.

So, if they are in a hurry, they can begin to look for their black goat when it is not too late for them - at least you'd warned her.

Otherwise, keep deceiving vulnerable Nigerian women, you will learn just as this one had learnt with his skin pulled-off and melted away in a hot oil. !

Till the day he dies, he will never forget this experience or this lady - trust me! [/size][/b]