OK i really need help here

I have been dating my girl for more than three years now, and i love her so much.
But the problem is am very very sexually active, but she doesn't like sex.and in the
three years of d relationship i don't think we've had it up to 15 times Grin. sure
and right now am loosing control more like am getting pissed off. and to worsen the matter
am tall and very handsome, am not bragging but some girls are bold enough to even woo me
for themselves(am a musician and also easy going),even when they know that i have a girl.
The worst part is even when i choose to cheat i will be very very uncomfortable doing it,
and most time i feel a lot of regret.i have tried talking to her about the issue but at the end of the day
nothing changes, she likes to be cuddled and treated like a queen. i don't have a problem with that
and i must say that am confident that she is not cheating. she is really a good girl but she lacks sexual expression.
what do i do? i need help fast, cos am loosing it. Oops.

I'm not sure how one can make your girlfriend like sex. I mean, who doesn't like sex?

The shocking truth is that the most common reason for female frigidity is that their men are not the great lovers they imagine themselves to be.

As an egg cannot burst into life unless it is kept warm, and plants can flower only under the right conditions, so a normal woman can reach the pinnacle of sexual passion and abandonment only if she feels loved, valued, secure, relaxed and physically refreshed.

Hombre, it seems u are not doing the right things at the right time.

@ Radiant,

Euro 08 is on. . . . . . which horse are u backing? Croatia?

@Xerxes
hahaha
thats funny but this is not about sexual satisfaction, and talking about doing the right thing
i will tell you that we (my girl and I) are the envy among our peers as in talking about how
a relationship is supposed to be and directly and also indirectly people are voicing out the issue
of our getting married, which is not far fetched, but i think its her religious believe( born again) and the way
she was raised that is causing the wahala.
you have to cajole her and really work heard for her to even think about it, but once she is tunned up
she is ok. but thats a lot of stress all the time.

Goodluck, amigo.
Wait till u are married to her then . . . . maybe she would relax by then.

don't really think that there is much you can do, sorry dear

Maybe you should make her watch Porn Movies.

@poster,

sorry to hear that,

maybe she's not attracted to you.
fetch her a lesbian

~Xerxes~:

@ Radiant,

Euro 08 is on. . . . . . which horse are u backing? Croatia?

Got to go with my Mafias, Italy.

Radiant:

Got to go with my Mafias, Italy.

Great!!!!! So its Portugal for me, Italy for u then.

fetch her a lesbian
@ Airforce 1


hahahaha

m.vv


i can do just that, i just need a permision and also get to see the girl in question to carry out my operation.

how  will  you know that  the lady  is barren or productive  without survey ?

M.Vuchy:

@Xerxes
hahaha
thats funny but this is not about sexual satisfaction, and talking about doing the right thing
i will tell you that we (my girl and I) are the envy among our peers as in talking about how
a relationship is supposed to be and directly and also indirectly people are voicing out the issue
of our getting married, which is not far fetched, but i think its her religious believe( born again) and the way
she was raised that is causing the wahala.
you have to cajole her and really work heard for her to even think about it, but once she is tunned up
she is ok. but thats a lot of stress all the time.

You are not doing the right things in and out of bed. Something is wrong somewhere.
Work on it!!!

Jackal, how d'u understand all these people?

Radiant:

Jackal, how d'u understand all these people?

I am half man half amazing.

I see.

its either your looks are misleading you, no b fine boy woman go chop. you must know hw to touch her on the right spot, at the right time, in the right place, in the right way,

but if you have done everything, and you think its the born again thing, then make her denounce christ, i bet this will allow the devil sow seed of fornication in her and by the time u know it, you are running and complaining she is becoming a prostitute

@ frank 3:16
shoo which one be look?, abeg no be look matter.

but if you have done everything, and you think its the born again thing, then make her denounce christ

Na the born again thing jare but i no fit let am denounce christ O!.

@ Airforce 1

i just need a permision and also get to see the girl in question to carry out my operation.

you wan see the girl, which one you dey
if na like that i know complian again. .

Speaking from personal experience:

i did not like having sex with my exhusband at all. he was doing his job as a husband in and out of the bedroom. I am a very highly sexual person but was not so with him. I knew i had to have sex every three days so i counted down the days between acts of sex. I pretended to enjoy it and found ways to make it over quickly.

I would look at what you are doing or not doing that is turning this woman off to you. If he ever would have asked me, come to think of it he did, i lied. I was not who i am today. Today if he was to ask i would tell him it was 3 inches on the hard and you were not a man outside of the bedroom.

Just cuz other women want you does not mean that she does. We need our men to be men both in the bedroom and out of it.

JMO

The problem might be how she seels about premarital sex. My fear for you is that trying to coerce her into "not feeling guilty" about premarital sex now might actually work against your post marital sexual life. It's really a dicey situation there.

Why don't you work with her so that you guys can wait till she's ready. There's nothing like making love to a woman that is ready. it's pure heaven on earth.

She might also have a deeper respect for you if you respect her wishes.

You can let me know (from this thread) if you want me to expantiate on anything I've said.

Any woman that doesnt enjoy quality sex is either not into u or not normal.

Work the rest out

@ topic ,

you are definitely doing everything wrong, i know a lot of religious girls who do not wish to have sex but when they are with the right people they keep on asking why they cant resist these guys.

you definitely have not succeeded in making her surrender her sexual life to you, when you do the only option she has not to have sex is to stay away from seeing you, because am confident you dont plan from day break, that TODAY , you must have sex, but when in the mood and a condusive environment, HOW MAN GO DO NA?

i suspect you are rushing things a bit and that can kill the mood, on certain occasions there are girls you need to spend as much as 4hours with to put them in the right mood. men are more mechanical you know.

i wish you luck.

Take a retreat and reassess your self. purge your self of sexual indulgence

@ poster
Lose it make person for hear word. Haba, na only you get penis?

@ michelin
hahaha

@topic

the main issue is that she normally feels guilty afterwards. therefore she trys not to indulge.