adexsimply: Why not? introverts are either melancholic or phlegmatic

I know. The witty/humorous ones are more phlegmatic than they are melancholy(if at all they that trait too).

So so descriptive of me but i try to overcome it by pretending τ̅☺ be an extrovert. Imagine being tired of smiling and making small talk when all u wanna do is read a novel or surf the net.

I am really an Introvert.....all these points are really a part of me

8 and 10 got me....smiles

Only no 1 applies to me.So I guess I'm more of an extrovert than intovert

Vanneni: Coz you're sooooo noisy and troublesome here. You're finally out of ban. When did you gat released?

August 29th

I am guilty of ALL the OP wrote, I wish I Can change though but...

chokl8candie: 1. That feeling of dread that washes over you when the phone rings and you're not mentally prepared to chat.

2. When people pressure you to be more social, whether you like it or not.

3. When you carry a book to a public place so no one will bug you, but other people take that as a conversation starter.

4. When people make you feel weird for wanting to do things by yourself.

5. When you have to deal with that one friend who ALWAYS wants to hang out, and you ALWAYS have to say this: sorry, not today

6. Trying to be extra outgoing when you flirt so your crush doesn't think your boring.

7.when deep down you realy wish you had alot of friends but you just cant pick up the courage to make the 1st move

8.you never speak unless your spoken to and you are never the first to buzz on whatsapp,bbm,facebook or any social network

9. When you hear, "Are you OK?" or "Why are you so quiet?" for the umpteenth time.

10.when a question is asked in class and your palms start sweating with anxiety and secretly hoping you dont get called to answer,not because you dont know but you just dont want to answer.

11. You hate when soo much attention is being paid to you especially amongs a group

12. When people stop inviting you places because you keep canceling plans.

13. When u start getting distressed at a party because you feel left out and your date doesn't want to leave early.

14. When your friend wants to invite more people over, and you don't want to sound like a dick by saying no. but your secretly dreading it inside


15. When you dont have a problem being indoors reading a good novel or surfing the net for aa week when everyone else thinks its boring

16. When you know No 1-15 is true nd post in on NL

Am such an introvert..i really wonder how am gonna woo my wife..mosttimes i shy away from the company of ladies/lady...cos i cant just get d talk goin and that's what they want.

When did it become a crime to be an introvert. I just find it difficult to fathom why so many threads are now about Introvert. I love myself like that.

With the exception of no 6 and 7, i can relate to everything else esp no 1.

Shugamania:

No 15.

It's a lie

Being an introvert depends on the situation, and also introverts pretend alot, it's their nature, one thing I like about my being an introvert is the ability to avoid problems and think rational, acting like you are more older than you actually is. I can be outspoken if the situation calls for it. I port easily from my shell to the world it has always been like that for me, I try to maintain the balance always.

Abu Mikey: August 29th

Don't be giving face joor! Was only concerned about you.

I am an Introvert, what you mentioned is best description of an introvert. I approved this 100%. I love your thread.

All defines the type of person I am.

chuksme: I am an Introvert, what you mentioned is best description of an introvert. I approved this 100%. I love your thread.

thanx hun

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thats jst me

ciphoenix:

It's a lie

U should wonder why am always online.
If not for work, i'ld be here 24/7

Whaaaat Is dz rily wot introverts go thru? PROUDLY EXTROVERT pulease!

liu_kang:

My favorite outdoor activity: Going back inside

Same here bruv

Vanneni: Don't be giving face joor! Was only concerned about you.

lol
What's good nau

Vanneni: You're not melancholy then. You're phlegmatic.

My dear, you don't know me... That piece up there described me in-to-to... Sorry to burst your bubbles, before you knew anything about temperaments and eneagram, I already held seminars on those... Not tryna insult you or something please, just wanna let you know I know myself to the latter...

I don't wanna start explaining certain things to you ti make you understand you can be a melancholy and still be able to crack jokes and all that... Do you know when a melancholy tends to emanate from it's shell, it does so like the super-extrovert? That is the sanguine.... Do you know that?

15. When you dont have a problem being indoors reading a good novel or surfing the net for aa week when everyone else thinks its boring [/quote]av actually done dis before......

The most vociferous people on Nairaland are introverts in real life.

chokl8candie:
really??
My bad. i just joined NL a few hours ago and i thot it wud b nice to share my personality with everyone else. Had no idea there have bn other threads lyk dis on dis forum. Sorry

hey u don't need to apologise why the apology in the first place if anybody thinks he/she is tired of this topic why not just save urself the trouble by just ignoring the post.

No 7 speeeaaks more to me.

dmcdad:
My dear, you don't know me... That piece up there described me in-to-to... Sorry to burst your bubbles, before you knew anything about temperaments and eneagram, I already held seminars on those... Not tryna insult you or something please, just wanna let you know I know myself to the latter...

I don't wanna start explaining certain things to you ti make you understand you can be a melancholy and still be able to crack jokes and all that... Do you know when a melancholy tends to emanate from it's shell, it does so like the super-extrovert? That is the sanguine.... Do you know that?

so what exactly are u trying to prove huh? What's ya point?

I am an introvert and a shy person, but I get very lively when I'm in contact with things that excite me, like sports,games and book. Outside those, I can be boring, except I'm around people that I enjoy their company. There was a time I used to wish I was the funkie type of person, but that would only cause some emotional pains. But now, I have learnt to accept and live with who I am, because honestly one can hardly change it. Now I am a very happy person, even if I come to this world again, I wish to come as an introvert. And lastly I wish to marry an introvert, but keep extroverts as friends.

dmcdad:
My dear, you don't know me... That piece up there described me in-to-to... Sorry to burst your bubbles, before you knew anything about temperaments and eneagram, I already held seminars on those... Not tryna insult you or something please, just wanna let you know I know myself to the latter...

I don't wanna start explaining certain things to you ti make you understand you can be a melancholy and still be able to crack jokes and all that... Do you know when a melancholy tends to emanate from it's shell, it does so like the super-extrovert? That is the sanguine.... Do you know that?

I totally understand coz I have some melancholic traits. I'll take it that your bright days come often then. Good for you.

Abu Mikey: lol
What's good nau

I'm exploring newer grounds of my freedom. Yay!