my guy is dead serious about marriage come next year.but he is younger than me by 6months.he is afraid i may go for a better guy cos of his family standard so is uncomfortable.we are both educated and working.

6 months age difference is SO WHAT! Age is just NUMBERS! Go ahead marry him. . .ignore his parent's old fashioned tribe way he must follow.

This is 2008. . .not 1800s!!!

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Whats wrong with marrying one's age mate?
The last time i check, age is just a number.
You better marry the dude before u are left stranded . . . . . .

age is just what number?
A lady of 21 dating a guy of 21 is doomed if she marries him because he will never grow up to her level in the marriage except he's blessed with the rare gift of maturity.
However, if a lady of 21 is dating a guy of 24, then she's marrying someone she can connect with who is not as juvenile as the men her age.
When it comes to men - age is no number. It's a measurement of maturity in MOST cases.

i soooo

disagree with you j-girl

@ J-girl,

Don't make me break your bones.

Age is a number.
There are 50 yr-olds out there acting like 11 and there are 21 year-olds who act like 40.
It depends on maturity, exposure, experience and all that kizzack.
When i was 17, i could have married a 30 year-old chic. . . . . .cos i was that steaming!!!!

j-girl:

age is just what number?
A lady of 21 dating a guy of 21 is doomed if she marries him because he will never grow up to her level in the marriage except he's blessed with the rare gift of maturity.
However, if a lady of 21 is dating a guy of 24, then she's marrying someone she can connect with who is not as juvenile as the men her age.
When it comes to men - age is no number. It's a measurement of maturity in MOST cases.

What a load of tosh.

When it comes to men - age is no number. It's a measurement of maturity in MOST cases.

Gotta agree.

Jackal:

@ J-girl,

Don't make me break your bones.

Age is a number.
There are 50 yr-olds out there acting like 11 and there are 21 year-olds who act like 40.
It depends on maturity, exposure, experience and all that kizzack.
When i was 17, i could have married a 30 year-old chic. . . . . .because i was that steaming!!!!

Like i said - it's a matter of maturity.
In the case of amy, her boyfriend is matured because he's ready to settle?
If you were that steaming at 17, what's stopping you from marrying now?
When men are ready to settle, they stop playing games and start acting like adults. They know what they want, they go for it and then they know how to handle their women. Most guys are still busy looking to score at the age of 30. Marriage is no where near their mind - It's actually sad.

4 Him:

What a load of tosh.

ummmmm. . . . . . ? load of tosh?

stillwater:

Gotta agree.

Watch the men argue for this like crazy

stillwater:

Gotta agree.

Wait until you are mature enough to agree.

j-girl:

Like i said - it's a matter of maturity.
In the case of amy, her boyfriend is matured because he's ready to settle?
If you were that steaming at 17, what's stopping you from marrying now?
When men are ready to settle, they stop playing games and start acting like adults. They know what they want, they go for it and then they know how to handle their women. Most guys are still busy looking to score at the age of 30. Marriage is no where near their mind - It's actually sad.

The only thing stopping me now is people are begging me to slow down cos i am so AHEAD of ma time.
Most guys will continue to search and search because the quality out there is becoming scarce.
One trip to UNILAG on a friday evening will tell u the story. . . . . .What we have these days are whores not women.
A friend of mine told me in 2006 that he would prefer going to a village to choose a bride than marry a Uni graduate in Nigeria.
Jay, thats a food for thunk. . . . . . . .When women clean up their acts, men will be more responsible.

@ Stillwater,

The return of the man-eater.

Jackal:

The only thing stopping me now is people are begging me to slow down because i am so AHEAD of ma time.
Most guys will continue to search and search because the quality out there is becoming scarce.
One trip to UNILAG on a friday evening will tell u the story. . . . . .What we have these days are whores not women.
A friend of mine told me in 2006 that he would prefer going to a village to choose a bride than marry a Uni graduate in Nigeria.
Jay, thats a food for thunk. . . . . . . .When women clean up their acts, men will be more responsible.

Why would you listen to people? Do other people feel the way you feel so matured?
We have women - the only thing is that guys make themselves available to whores and not women.
They see a woman in scandalous outfits and all they think about is getting laid.
They don't think about whether she's good enough to be taken home to mama.
They don't think about the girl sitting next to her in a modest outfit. All they do is go after the LovePeddler-like one.

When men learn to clean up the idea of the women they want, they will find the quality out there.

4 Him:

Wait until you are mature enough to agree.

What the heck? I'm downright matured enough to have a point of view .

Jackal:

@ Stillwater,

The return of the man-eater.

Please I eat edible products not half baked goods .

stillwater:

What the heck? I'm downright matured enough to have a point of view .

doesnt always follow. 5 yr olds have a point of view too no?

j-girl:

Why would you listen to people? Do other people feel the way you feel so matured?
We have women - the only thing is that guys make themselves available to whores and not women.
They see a woman in scandalous outfits and all they think about is getting laid.
They don't think about whether she's good enough to be taken home to mama.
They don't think about the girl sitting next to her in a modest outfit. All they do is go after the LovePeddler-like one.

When men learn to clean up the idea of the women they want, they will find the quality out there.

You are not getting the point.
Guys don't make emselves available to whores. . . . . .Women are the ones wearing this horrible masks.
Whores when they go out, well-brought up women when they are at home or anywhere near their parents.
So u see, it depends where a woman meets a babe. All those sisters u see in Churches on sundays are something else when u see elsewhere.

@ Stillwater,

The only thing u can eat is cookies n insects.

Jackal:


You are not getting the point.
Guys don't make emselves available to whores. . . . . .Women are the ones wearing this horrible masks.
Whores when they go out, well-brought up women when they are at home or anywhere near their parents.
So u see, it depends where a woman meets a babe. All those sisters u see in Churches on sundays are something else when u see elsewhere.

@ Stillwater,

The only thing u can eat is cookies n insects.

Guys make themselves to anything available in skirts. If they are married, rings and phones and tossed in the trunk of the car.
Guys know when women are pretending now! how hard is it to tell that the holy sister you saw in mass last week is a stripper?
My own is that when guys are mature enough, they begin to recognize the good women that they can possibly marry. Their inner senses are opened up to be able to spot bad and good. The immature ones marry the deceptive ones.

4 Him:

doesnt always follow. 5 yr olds have a point of view too no?

. . .and sometimes five yr olds do talk sense than supposed adults.

Jackal:


@ Stillwater,

The only thing u can eat is cookies n insects.

The masquerade thrashing is still working on you, I guess.

@ Stillwater,

Are u the masquerade?
I spared it the last time i saw it in ma dream. . . . . I won't be merciful this time around.

@ J-girl,

I need to speak to your parents.
Dirrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrty South has derailed u extensively.

stillwater:

. . .and sometimes five yr olds do talk sense than supposed adults.

i agree. So perhaps u'd be thinking of marrying a 5 yr old now no?

Jackal:

@ J-girl,

I need to speak to your parents.
Dirrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrty South has derailed u extensively.

My parents love the good girl they have now. They know i'll never be the type to go for immature boys.
At my age, if you are dating me and can't marry me - bye bye to you.
Mature thoughts lead to thoughts of marriage. . . . . . . How many guys do you see on NL who are married and yet, acting immature? Very very few. . .
Guys who are not desperate but ready to pack it all in for one woman - are usually happier

4 Him:

i agree. So perhaps u'd be thinking of marrying a 5 yr old now no?

I'm not a paedophile.

Jackal:

@ Stillwater,

Are u the masquerade?
I spared it the last time i saw it in ma dream. . . . . I won't be merciful this time around.

No I'm not . But upsetting the masquerade would only send you six feet under.

j-girl:


My parents love the good girl they have now. They know i'll never be the type to go for immature boys.
At my age, if you are dating me and can't marry me - bye bye to you.
Mature thoughts lead to thoughts of marriage. . . . . . . How many guys do you see on Nairaland who are married and yet, acting immature? Very very few. . .
Guys who are not desperate but ready to pack it all in for one woman - are usually happier

So u are saying single men are generally immature?
May God help you.

stillwater:



No I'm not . But upsetting the masquerade would only send you six feet under.

Keep having your pipe dreams.
Le Chacal is half man-half amazing.