always been a dream of mine when im prolly settled, maybe like 3/4 kids added to my biological kids, large family

i would surely want to adopt after my kids hv gone to university

but i wont do an Angelina Jolie and adopt from different backgrounds

i dont think i like that

Gamine:

i would surely want to adopt after my kids hv gone to university

This is a true life story I know of couples they use to live in canada whom their kids have grown and even finish university later the man move back to nigeria there is this small girl that comes around to help them each time they travel home soon they saw how helpful the girl has been to them they decided to adopt her when the wife came back to live in canada because she has not retired yet the man fell in love with the girl and married her adoption has it's ups and down

I aint adopting another mans headaches. HELLS NO.

@Rubi, married?

abeg o, im adopting babies pls o!!!

Gamine:

@Rubi, married?

abeg o, im adopting babies please o!!!

Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i have studied the trend of this thread.

Like 95% of womenn will say, "I will adopt". My question is have you finished raisng yours that you are going to carry another mans burden??

Dont get me wrong o! If you dont have one of your own and you feel like adopting, more hydraulics to your elbows.

But ask for adopting when you already have your own, Hmm!! I see free house help written all over it.

Give to the poor and needy, Sponsor a motherless babies home, Sponsor a needy child, Scholarship for the orphans all these are good, and I can do, but why go as far as adopting??

Anyways, I'm sure that most men would nott agree to this adoption rubbish.

Esss:

i have studied the trend of this thread.

Like 95% of womenn will say, "I will adopt". My question is have you finished raisng yours that you are going to carry another mans burden??

Dont get me wrong o! If you don't have one of your own and you feel like adopting, more hydraulics to your elbows.

But ask for adopting when you already have your own, Hmm!! I see free house help written all over it.

Give to the poor and needy, Sponsor a motherless babies home, Sponsor a needy child, Scholarship for the orphans all these are good, and I can do, but why go as far as adopting??

Anyways, I'm sure that most men would nott agree to this adoption rubbish.

God bless you for that nice input!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Esss:

i have studied the trend of this thread.

Like 95% of womenn will say, "I will adopt". My question is have you finished raisng yours that you are going to carry another mans burden??

Dont get me wrong o! If you don't have one of your own and you feel like adopting, more hydraulics to your elbows.

But ask for adopting when you already have your own, Hmm!! I see free house help written all over it.

Give to the poor and needy, Sponsor a motherless babies home, Sponsor a needy child, Scholarship for the orphans all these are good, and I can do, but why go as far as adopting??

Anyways, I'm sure that most men would nott agree to this adoption rubbish.

and that is precisely why a lot of rich people in nigeria with a family of less than 5 live in a 20 room mansion and watch kids living under the bridge without helping them out,my elder sister adopted 2 kids from naija and i know in spite of the system breakdown they do very thorough checks and you cant adopt if you ll be using them for househelps.

nigeria will change dramatically if an average nigerian can remove this mind set of " i cant adop or foster kids" as bad as white people are,they adopt africans,and adopt generally and even foster kids

I love this thread here but almost everyone is thinking of doing that in the future.
I'm actually thinking of doing it now.Can anyone provide names and contact of places to adopt children around the Port Harcourt area of Naija.
So many children out there need to be loved.

@ post

I intend to adopt most of my children.

yes

@ topic nope

I'm not married, but I intend to adopt soon. Will adopt every three years after that. And have one or two biological uns when I'm married. A kid's a kid.

sure, nigerians kids only, dont believe in brangelina adoption crap,

I ve always wanted 2 adopt kids.
I want 2 help d best i can, I jst want to go to any of the motherless babies home here and take a child at least.
Bt my fiance does not want dat, He said i could tek kia of d kids without adopting them.
His reason is dat there might arise a problem in future among d chlidren. Asin biological and adopted
Any way i hope to try and get him 2 agree wit me wen we r married.

yes no biggies!

i'm really thinking of adopting sometime in future, i dont think i have

a number yet 3 maybe 4, i'd love to have a big family, its really fun to have

them around , little angels , and some little terrors too lol ha ha

Esss:

I aint adopting another mans headaches. HELLS NO.

well thats your choice but i'd like to , if the child is an orphan it would be amazing to know that i've given someone a new lease of life, to show them love and care and donating money will not buy this. These kids deserve happiness and a family too and if I can give them that why not?

would really love to.i think its a way to give myself to people that i am not directly or blood realted to and love them as my own.

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No, I wish I could.

I am definitely going to adopt a child.

I have gotten so close to the four kids staying with me that I have adopted them with my heart . I even told my brother that I am going to be responsible for their books and uniforms (as long as I am working).

Peace

I would love to adopt kids. There are so many in Nigeria, why go all da way to Kenya?

I was born an only child. When I was about 10 years old, my dad suggested to my my to adopt and she refused. Now, almost more than 12yrs later, my mum decided it was worh a trial.

Just about three weeks ago, I got my self a baby brother (a month old now) and he is the cutest baby ever.

Any regrets? we should have done it a lot sooner!

[size=13pt]Adopt Kids that is a NO NO
I can't stand those little brat
very annoying thing
even this one child am planning to have in the future
is difficult for me not to talk of adopting 1 more
I can donate to the motherless home to help those kids out [/size]

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I wont be adopting kids. I like helping to finance things for other children when I can but I dont think I'd like an official adoption. It will make me feel like a hypocrite pretending to be the father of someone who's not my child.

I wont mind the child being adopted in the sense of living with us and all that but I dont like the idea of the child being legally mine.

Typical answer from someone that is dumb !

JustGood:

I wont be adopting kids. I like helping to finance things for other children when I can but I don't think I'D like an official adoption. It will make me feel like a hypocrite pretending to be the father of someone who's not my child.
I wont mind the child being adopted in the sense of living with us and all that but I don't like the idea of the child being legally mine.

[size=28pt]Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do[/size]

SimiBrasil:

Typical answer from someone that is dumb !

You no dumb? why all brazilians no want you if you no dumb?
you think say I be mumu wey una fit force to do something as dem brainwash you daily? Fool who doesn't even know anything. The whole of your life is dictated to you by what you read in whatever junk newspaper you find on the street.

Cayon:

[size=28pt]Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do[/size]

It would be nice if you can tell what is there to forgive