Hello my fellow niaralanders, There is this girl (a very close friend of mine) that I am madly inlove with and each time I talk about relationship she ignores the idea and rather chose to be a good friend than going into relationship with me. There is nothing I don't do for her as a guy would do for the one he loves so much and the same is applicable to her even my friends do think we are dating, but the truth is there is nothing going on between me and her. Her reason is she won't like to dive into a relationship that would shatter in a matter of time. I don't know what else to do to her to believe me, please I need your advices. Thanks

d greatest relationship's started off as frndship...jus kip showin her u care....she'll reconsider

Why ruin a perfectly good friendship...

Be consistent. she is testing you.if you pass d test, she will agree with you.so continue doing those good things to her & hope for her positive response. note that some good ladies dont appreciate being rushed into relationship.
**my sincere contribution**

Kip doing gud boi nd gud fwend..anoda guy will come nd woo her nd she will fall for the guy....bros my own contribution stop showin her luv nd affection...play wit her like u play wid oda galz..nd I bet u she gon lik u 4 dat

Guy forget this one minded girls advising u to keep up wif her,just STOP!! You have been strictly kept in friend zone for life.. Just go for another girl n stop wasting your great time on a girl who Only knew u existed when she needs something... Nigerian Girls are really materialistic in nature, only 5% them are well sophisticated... You don't need a pastor to tell you that she's getting it else where n ur services re not needed

My guy run away frm dat gal cos u ve been friendzoned, trust me anoda guy will come and bleep dat gal why u are still dere showing love to her. friend zoning is a normal tin now for gals,

Come on bro relax.....who laf last laf best........u go cool down if she come agree u go come sufa am is dis nt wat u xpectn u can try d next availAble native doctor

Babiloko: d greatest relationship's started off as frndship...jus kip showin her u care....she'll reconsider

end time tinz

NEROSKY: Guy forget this one minded girls advising u to keep up wif her,just STOP!! You have been strictly kept in friend zone for life.. Just go for another girl n stop wasting your great time on a girl who Only knew u existed when she needs something... Nigerian Girls are really materialistic in nature, only 5% them are well sophisticated... You don't need a pastor to tell you that she's getting it else where n ur services re not needed

You obviously missed the bit where the op said;

otijah: There is nothing I don't do for her as a guy would do for the one he loves so much and the same is applicable to her.

Babiloko: d greatest relationship's started off as frndship...jus kip showin her u care....she'll reconsider

I agree but its best u burn the wood and take the consequences cos u will blame urself if she finds a new. She will tell u then that u guys weren't dating. Get the words from her mouth and get her to accept it.

SniperInADiaper: Why ruin a perfectly good friendship...

Its not about ruing a good friendship. The guy wants to date. So either they both agree they are dating or they both agree they just want to be friends. Then it can work, not one person is hoping and the other person is taking it in stride.

awistle: My guy run away frm dat gal cos u ve been friendzoned, trust me anoda guy will come and bleep dat gal why u are still dere showing love to her. friend zoning is a normal tin now for gals,

Fweeeend Zone.......that's good! Ma guy as this pesin rightly said look for anoda girl as a back---up

otijah: There is nothing I don't do for her as a guy would do for the one he loves so much and the same is applicable to her.

wit dis statement i think u shuld stop bugging her with words and let ur actions proceed and yield fruits. Dating my bestfriend wz d best tin dat eva happend nd words didnt help.

Princeparix: wit dis statement i think u shuld stop bugging her with words and let ur actions proceed and yield fruits. Dating my bestfriend wz d best tin dat eva happend nd words didnt help.

thanks brov

El Guapo: You're locked up in her friend zone and would have ya advances turned down until you strategize your moves.

Think of doing things that'd make her long for you - Just think [not to go pocketpicking for her].

Weird Strategies like impressing other gals, avoiding her company and calls, texting her on occassionally basis and not calling at all etc, might just help u out.

I can see why 'she' preferred you to me, you are a real el capone in daticology.

@OP, in doing all these strategies which also worked for me, DO NOT go to the extreme. Inasmuch as you avoid her company but whenever by chance you two meet, give her the warmest hug and carry on as if nothing happen then suddenly break away on the excuse of doing something important (dont look back).
Nothing draws a woman close to a man like jealousy, impress other girls even to her face she will start craving for your attention.
Plan very rare meeting with her at secluded places, make sure the sitting arrangement is tight and allows for skin touch.
If it doesnt work, then let go, get yourself a better girl.

ITbomb:
I can see why 'she' preferred you to me, you are a real el capone in daticology.

@OP, in doing all these strategies which also worked for me, DO NOT go to the extreme. Inasmuch as you avoid her company but whenever by chance you two meet, give her the warmest hug and carry on as if nothing happen then suddenly break away on the excuse of doing something important (dont look back).
Nothing draws a woman close to a man like jealousy, impress other girls even to her face she will start craving for your attention.
Plan very rare meeting with her at secluded places, make sure the sitting arrangement is tight and allows for skin touch.
If it doesnt work, then let go, get yourself a better girl.

that's the next thing am about doing now, I just pray I works that way.

otijah: that's the next thing am about doing now, I just pray I works that way.

Goodluck Son, I will always mention you in my prayers

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otijah: that's the next thing am about doing now, I just pray I works that way.

It always works only if u play the cards right. If u don't, it will just backfire on ur face.

ITbomb:

@OP, in doing all these strategies which also worked for me, DO NOT go to the extreme. Inasmuch as you avoid her company but whenever by chance you two meet, give her the warmest hug and carry on as if nothing happen then suddenly break away on the excuse of doing something important (dont look back).
Nothing draws a woman close to a man like jealousy, impress other girls even to her face she will start craving for your attention.
Plan very rare meeting with her at secluded places, make sure the sitting arrangement is tight and allows for skin touch.
If it doesnt work, then let go, get yourself a better girl.

Chai! this guy is my brother.

@op. I sense you compliment her alot, you seek every opportunity to be with her, you do her favours alot, you smile alot when you are with her when you shouldn't, you don't have a no on ur mouth when she wants to go somewhere with her or do things for her


Do you want a way out so she begins to see you as a boyfriend to be intimate with?

drnoel:
It always works only if u play the cards right. If u don't, it will just backfire on ur face.

And what this statement means is that u shudnt play the cards hoping dat she will actually get jealous and come rushing into ur arms.
Its a 50/50 thing. So play ur cards and take ur mind off her reactions. If she falls in-line, good for her,but if she doesn't, then Good riddance!!!.

I say this because, don't fall flat immediately for her if it works or start begging her if it doesn't, 'cos either way u will still lose. U knw why?

because she will know that ur suppose withdrawal from her and flirting with others girls was planned/staged to make her Jealous.

#Goodluck without Clueless Joe Son#

Op, ur a learner, ur already giving her wat u ought to give when u both r in a relationship, so wat else can u offer during the relationship? Send her to ur frnd zone and watch her beg for ur attention.

wait am comin

Guy,ur frndzone no get part2 oo...



Some 2wks ago was when my eyes were finally opened for me to know i've been zoned,We've been frnds for over a year and some months,i made my intention known to her frm the second week we met,but she kept posting me as if be post office....


Chai!!! I suffered in silence oo,and i kept hoping she would come around one day and change her mindset,worst still,she visits me at home.. Once i bring up the topic,she'll find a way to change it.... my frnds even thought we were dating,i call her on a daily basis sef,just to raise up hopes

One night,I slept and made up my mind never to call her again,na so me just bone her since then oo.... and i escaped frndzone for life...

moral of d story,gtfo that zone.... another would surely come ur way...
[center]My 2cents tho..[/center]

geezyk: Guy,ur frndzone no get part2 oo...



Some 2wks ago was when my eyes were finally opened for me to know i've been zoned,We've been frnds for over a year and some months,i made my intention known to her frm the second week we met,but she kept posting me as if be post office....


Chai!!! I suffered in silence oo,and i kept hoping she would come around one day and change her mindset,worst still,she visits me at home.. Once i bring up the topic,she'll find a way to change it.... my frnds even thought we were dating,i call her on a daily basis sef,just to raise up hopes

One night,I slept and made up my mind never to call her again,na so me just bone her since then oo.... and i escaped frndzone for life...

moral of d story,gtfo that zone.... another would surely come ur way...
[center]My 2cents tho..[/center]

u are getting me high on decision making

Ok

geezyk:
Guy,ur frndzone no get part2 oo...



Some 2wks ago was when my eyes were finally opened for me to know i've been zoned,We've been frnds for over a year and some months,i made my intention known to her frm the second week we met,but she kept posting me as if be post office....


Chai!!! I suffered in silence oo,and i kept hoping she would come around one day and change her mindset,worst still,she visits me at home.. Once i bring up the topic,she'll find a way to change it.... my frnds even thought we were dating,i call her on a daily basis sef,just to raise up hopes

One night,I slept and made up my mind never to call her again,na so me just bone her since then oo.... and i escaped frndzone for life...

moral of d story,gtfo that zone.... another would surely come ur way...
[center]My 2cents tho..[/center]

ok

Ok

Cabsso:
wait am comin

ok