Emperoh:

Nubian
I think u are second in Love Muguness to the 'Lai-Lai' guy. His story was also funny
After you comes HR.Hotness.

But one thing we all should know about this is that
Just like guys who give money to babes, we tend to call this stupidity
But its one of the Characteristics of Love.
SELFLESSNESS!!!
The ability to give up your personal comfort for the other. If i give you everything i have, its not because i am foolish or a mugu but because, a part of my is sad and unhappy to see you needing something that I may or may not afford. That means that joy begets joy.
I have gone hungry for her to eat
I have braved the sun, rain and risked my life just to be with her

But lets be wary of the negative things we do because of love.
It does not support such. You will be better off spending the whole month teaching her arithmetic
than riskeing being jailed for Mal-Practice while writing the exam for her or hiring someone to do so
you have ended up giving her a short term reprieve but o the long run, u have not solved the problem because the person is still a dunce

We all have one stupid act or the other we have done but it behoves us to do so intelligently and with personal conviction

I can remember stealing a roll of foreign soap & undies from the box my mum just returned with from London just to impress her.
This is foolish and stupid and love doen't support such. It would have been better if i had told my mum as such and if i was already going out with that particular girl

But all in all, i realise that the people u actually slave for may sometimes not realise what u went through to do what u did for them
and even if they do, the aren't touched one bit.

Ana emelu nwanyi, o na emelu onye di ya nma.

Ana emelu nwanyi, o na emelu onye di ya nma.

jkpretty:

what does this mean?

enque:

its a term generaly used to describe ungrateful ladies.

Richguys:

so many mugus in the land

me i hav never fall mugu i don't think i will ever fall one. i am too sharp for our female folk

lonelypal:

TOO SHARP?, LOL u might even be the latest, u can never tell, watch out bro

NubianQ:

The money is gone oh!

spikedcylinder:

H.R, i voted for you.

Emperoh:

hey folks, jkpretty,
I hope the term is not an assault on female folk. It also applies to the men folk
It wasn't intended
Forgive me if it does

No one can claim to be fool proof to ANY form of 'stupidity'. Unless You have never experienced Love
As long as u have, no jupiter will stop u from doing some of such things
i am presently going through a phase that had such sacrifice and to make it worse, i have invested heavily emotionally.
Even when i know that i stand a 0.5% chance of getting her to be with for the rest of my life, i still go out of my way to do some really selfless stuffs
But just like Nubia said, I never regret. Its a phase and i pray to come across the person wwho deserves it.

Selflessness is a strong Xteristic of Love. God dey.

As for those claiming sharp/smartness, keep 'enjoying'. But unless u will be 'celibataire', just wait for the phase.
For the Ladies, it usually comes with first Love as for the guys, Its not stage at all. It can happen anytime
Be on guard. Its a duty we all owe Love.

Emperoh:

hey folks, jkpretty,
I hope the term is not an assault on female folk. It also applies to the men folk
It wasn't intended
Forgive me if it does

Emperoh:


As for those claiming sharp/smartness, keep 'enjoying'. But unless u will be 'celibataire', just wait for the phase.
For the Ladies, it usually comes with first Love as for the guys, Its not stage at all. It can happen anytime
Be on guard. Its a duty we all owe Love.

ijaygal:

na wa o, no be small thing person don go through all in the name of finding true love. as for me sha, my gist too hot that if i begin put am down, na wahala. but make i talk am small:

1. i have had to borrow money to buy him things on his birthday to please him still he went out with another babe to celebrate it.

2. there was a time he travelled, i had to wait for him in the airport to welcome him only for me to spend 9hrs without him showing up. when i called him he told me he changed plans. still i forgave and stayed in d r/ship.

3. they were times i was robbed while coming back from his place at night.

4. is it the ceaseless beatings? still i stayed thinking that it was love.

5. i have had to steal my mum's food stuff to cook for him evn money when he was broke.

6. abi na the way e dey treat me infront of his friends?

7. i even help am the look for job (the waka lagos the submit CVs).

8. abi na the unfaithfulness part? enough babes in his house.

then ONE DAY after a hot beating from him, i told myself "NO MORE, ENOUGH IS ENOUGH". to his suprise, i walked out of the relationship for good and never looked back. he thot i was joking!!! by the time it was like 3 months and he hadn't heard from me, he knew i meant biz.
now i'm married to a guy that knows what it really and truely means to love a woman. and life cldn't be better,

there was a time i saw my ex at a busstop and i gave him a lift with my babies behind the car, he cldn't believe it was this same girl he treated like shit that was now very far ahead of him in life. some times, i do ask myself what i was thinking then.

so, yes we did alot of shits in the past but its the ability to realise we need to move out of that r/ship and move on that matters. because these guys we dey break head for no dey appreciate am. i believe a true r/ship is one u don't struggle or break your head to make it work. things will just flow naturally,

ijaygal:

na wa o, no be small thing person don go through all in the name of finding true love. as for me sha, my gist too hot that if i begin put am down, na wahala. but make i talk am small:

1. i have had to borrow money to buy him things on his birthday to please him still he went out with another babe to celebrate it.

2. there was a time he travelled, i had to wait for him in the airport to welcome him only for me to spend 9hrs without him showing up. when i called him he told me he changed plans. still i forgave and stayed in d r/ship.

3. they were times i was robbed while coming back from his place at night.

4. is it the ceaseless beatings? still i stayed thinking that it was love.

5. i have had to steal my mum's food stuff to cook for him evn money when he was broke.

6. abi na the way e dey treat me infront of his friends?

7. i even help am the look for job (the waka lagos the submit CVs).

8. abi na the unfaithfulness part? enough babes in his house.

then ONE DAY after a hot beating from him, i told myself "NO MORE, ENOUGH IS ENOUGH". to his suprise, i walked out of the relationship for good and never looked back. he thot i was joking!!! by the time it was like 3 months and he hadn't heard from me, he knew i meant biz.
now i'm married to a guy that knows what it really and truely means to love a woman. and life cldn't be better,

there was a time i saw my ex at a busstop and i gave him a lift with my babies behind the car, he cldn't believe it was this same girl he treated like shit that was now very far ahead of him in life. some times, i do ask myself what i was thinking then.

so, yes we did alot of shits in the past but its the ability to realise we need to move out of that r/ship and move on that matters. because these guys we dey break head for no dey appreciate am. i believe a true r/ship is one u don't struggle or break your head to make it work. things will just flow naturally,

abikelat:

i f**ked a guy on the bear floor. i no be mumusha

Richguys:

You don't mean. "on the bear floor" tell us why u should not be crown the queen of MUMU's

HR.hotness:

LOL. . thats just mean