I am in a r/ship with a lady. i am wiling to do anything for her and spend anything with my limit for her/including going the extra mile for her(she earns more than i do but i do not ask her for support cos its not in my xter). she has refused seeing my parents as well as me seeing hers. i have proposed to her she accepted but later said she need another type of engagement ring which she printed out from the net, this i provided for and still she finds fault in it. she doesn't like me introducing her as my fiancee.
i have thought her how to cook,do house chore n other things/she has some contributions towards my person
i know dt i luv her more than she luvs me BUT how much patience do u think i shd hv.(i hv confronted her quietly on these issue but gets no concrete ans as she always chicken out or change d subject)

i have not cheated on her ever since we started but dnt u think its high time i start keeping others??//

You have the answer right in front of u dude. Don't be blinded by useless so called luv.

Seems to me like the babe aint feeling u!

My friend, its like u are dating a higher level girl.
Make more money before talking of control.
she's obviously feelin cool.

Guy think with your brain.

Make sure you collect the rings(s) before you leave her o, abeg!

u got to be kidding me.
in this time an age we still have u type?

izeek:

u got to be kidding me.
in this time an age we still have u type?

seconded

kokoye:

Make sure you collect the rings(s) before you leave her o, abeg!

seconded

Godalone:

Guy think with your brain.

seconded

hardknocks:

My friend, its like u are dating a higher level girl.
Make more money before talking of control.
she's obviously feelin cool.

seconded

nana:

Seems to me like the babe aint feeling u!

seconded

jay bee:

You have the answer right in front of u dude. Don't be blinded by useless so called love.

finally seconded

Thanks for not wasting our time; you asked a question and answered it in one breath!

From the story you gave us the Girl in question does not love you, all she is after his just to drain your pocket, so little advice from me kick her out of your life a girl like that does not deserve someone like you,

There are so many women out there that would love to have a man like you in thier lives. Please i abeg you to kick this woman/golddigger/playa out of your life. She will suck you dry and leave you alone rolled up in a ball crying your eyes out.

@post,
You are thinking that her demand for your ring is a show of affection and belonging. She is thinking that you will not be presentable in her social circle and there is thus no need to set commitments. Women love to show off and compete, she is showing off her jeweled fingers with your money. Her spell is on you, break it off by dating other women. Take all her rings, whether it was bought with your money or not. They now belong to you.