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Question For People In Love by UjSizzle(f): 12:09pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
This is for those in love or who have been in love with someone. I'm just curious Do you ever find yourself thinking even for a minute of someone else while you're in a relationship? And i mean 'impure thoughts' and not really wanting to have a relationship with them. Do you feel guilt(like you're cheating) whenever this happens? Or is it absolutely normal for this to happen? P.S I understand this can be tricky esp if you have a relationship with a nairalander, but i still need your responses...plzzzzzzzz *puppy face* |
Re: Question For People In Love by Caracta(f): 12:23pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
uj_sizzle: This is for those in love or who have been in love with someone. I'm just curious I think about hundreds of people but not for a relationship with them. I'm too deep in love to think straight Do you feel guilt(like you're cheating) whenever this happens? No Or is it absolutely normal for this to happen? If you ask me, na who I go ask? |
Re: Question For People In Love by HumbledbYGrace(f): 12:24pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
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Re: Question For People In Love by UjSizzle(f): 12:26pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
Caracta:Maybe not for a relationship with them...just err certain 'impure thoughts' |
Re: Question For People In Love by Nobody: 12:27pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
It should be normal I think. What is abnormal there, is what you decide to do with those thoughts. 1 Like |
Re: Question For People In Love by Monicasque(f): 12:48pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
i try by almeans to control such thoughts even though they do come but when he has made me upset i give myself permission to have allllll sorts of nasty thoughts. i gues its how some of us deal with certain things |
Re: Question For People In Love by Nobody: 1:07pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
When am in a relationship' I give it my all I don't have the time to think bout what's in another man's trousers,tbh other guys becomes unattractive to me. 6 Likes |
Re: Question For People In Love by Gabrielsylar(m): 1:18pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
D question is not clear |
Re: Question For People In Love by Funmyberry(f): 1:30pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
Pls advice me . I have been in a relationship for 2yrs plus now. Nd my Bf has neva introduce to his family members, even we re both planning to get married to each other. Bt my fear is dt he always want me to say sorry to him all the time. Pls shud i go for dis kind of person. Pls... Thanks |
Re: Question For People In Love by Nobody: 1:33pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
spongeback: When am in a relationship' I give it my all I don't have the time to think bout what's in another man's trousers,tbh other guys becomes unattractive to me. Ewo, ihe love na-eme! |
Re: Question For People In Love by Nobody: 1:49pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
I dnt thnk of other guys at all |
Re: Question For People In Love by Nobody: 1:55pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
uj_sizzle: This is for those in love or who have been in love with someone. I'm just curious@bolded, Na who we go ask? Do you ever find yourself thinking even for a minute of someone else while you're in a relationship? And i mean 'impure thoughts' and not really wanting to have a relationship with them.I used to. Nowadays, I don't "find" myself doing so. I don't know how I got my sexuality more in hand, maybe I'm just growing old sha. What happens now is that I could see a girl and it would strike me that she is real hot and might be interesting in bed but I never do anything about it and always forget the thought as soon as I take my eyes off her which happens pretty fast too. Do you feel guilt(like you're cheating) whenever this happens?I used to. Or is it absolutely normal for this to happen?For me, it is. But I think it depends on personality, age/experience and sex drive. P.S I understand this can be tricky esp if you have a relationship with a nairalander, but i still need your responses...plzzzzzzzz *puppy face*Se only for curiousity ni? 1 Like |
Re: Question For People In Love by homesteady(m): 1:56pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
I think its normal! Especially if you see someone more handsome/pretty, richer, lovely and caring than your partner! |
Re: Question For People In Love by Danhumprey: 2:35pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
OP,are you not dating Or are you preserving yourself for a certain "future husband" I thought you were dating a certain Prince Charming. |
Re: Question For People In Love by lottoe(m): 2:57pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
Funmyberry: Pls advice me . I have been in a relationship for 2yrs plus now. Nd my Bf has neva introduce to his family members, even we re both planning to get married to each other. Bt my fear is dt he always want me to say sorry to him all the time. Pls shud i go for dis kind of person. Pls... ThanksI will advise you take a little caution before embarking into marriage, as a guy, all I can say is ur Bf doesn't love you,and it seems you are the one trying to make ur relationship work. I advise , you pray God give you your bone of bone and flesh of flesh. The secrets is,a guy that really love you will let you meet his family, and also apologizes when he his wrong. Just my 2cent 1 Like |
Re: Question For People In Love by Nobody: 3:05pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
There's a difference between thinking and carrying out your thoughts. |
Re: Question For People In Love by Nobody: 3:13pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
uj_sizzle: This is for those in love or who have been in love with someone. I'm just curiousWe are humans and that is bound to happen. It happens a lot but I have learnt to think about what I am thinking about ... so before the thought goes impure, I kick it out. It is absolutely normal for it to happen but abnormal when you start giving it too much thought... Its no sin to think about the impure really, but it is sin staying within the bounds of the impure thoughts.
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Re: Question For People In Love by HezronLorraine(m): 3:48pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
I don't think of anyone else.Probably because I don't seem to get vibes from someone else as awesome as my partner.But I've come in contact with people who have thoughts towards someone else and not their partner when they're together.There shouldn't be a sense of guilt just that it's normal to be human.Only thing is it isn't appropriate to continually give into such thoughts.it can be likened to cheating.As time flies,you need to find ways of getting rid of the thoughts,the more you hang on them,there are chances you'll lose the passion and love for your partner. |
Re: Question For People In Love by UjSizzle(f): 3:59pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
Danhumprey: OP,are you not dating Or are you preserving yourself for a certain "future husband" I thought you were dating a certain Prince Charming.What has this got to do with my question? |
Re: Question For People In Love by UjSizzle(f): 4:28pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
Ihedinobi:Life's a lot easier when you take people's words at face value. Thanks for your input tho |
Re: Question For People In Love by UjSizzle(f): 4:30pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
sexkillz: There's a difference between thinking and carrying out your thoughts.Abeg answer my question if you want to and stop playing smartass. I'm very much aware of the difference young man |
Re: Question For People In Love by Nobody: 4:32pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
uj_sizzle: |
Re: Question For People In Love by Nobody: 4:35pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
uj_sizzle:Yup, I know I just like teasing sometimes. |
Re: Question For People In Love by Danhumprey: 5:08pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
uj_sizzle:That was just an innocent observation and a joke,but you took it way too personal. Hian! Sorry for encrossing on you thread. |
Re: Question For People In Love by ATMC(f): 6:08pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
Funmyberry: Pls advice me . I have been in a relationship for 2yrs plus now. Nd my Bf has neva introduce to his family members, even we re both planning to get married to each other. Bt my fear is dt he always want me to say sorry to him all the time. Pls shud i go for dis kind of person. Pls... Thankshe may be decieving yhu...take a break |
Re: Question For People In Love by ATMC(f): 6:14pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
thinking is the normal function of the mind so if i think of another though in a relationship...i move on *its just a thought!* my mind is working! shikena...will i make a matter out of it? no i wont...i'm human |
Re: Question For People In Love by UjSizzle(f): 6:41pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
Danhumprey: That was just an innocent observation and a joke,but you took it way too personal.I asked an innocent question too. Ok, sorry for misunderstanding you and making you misunderstand me |
Re: Question For People In Love by Briareos(m): 6:59pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
uj_sizzle: This is for those in love or who have been in love with someone. I'm just curious YES, like all the time. Its not my fault Scarlet Johannson is soooooo gorgeous. |
Re: Question For People In Love by UjSizzle(f): 7:12pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
Briareos:lmao |
Re: Question For People In Love by JbravoAdodger(m): 7:20pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
And they say guys cheat more...smh |
Re: Question For People In Love by jntyjnty007(f): 7:33pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
Hezron Lorraine: I don't think of anyone else.Probably because I don't seem to get vibes from someone else as awesome as my partner.But I've come in contact with people who have thoughts towards someone else and not their partner when they're together.There shouldn't be a sense of guilt just that it's normal to be human.Only thing is it isn't appropriate to continually give into such thoughts.it can be likened to cheating.As time flies,you need to find ways of getting rid of the thoughts,the more you hang on them,there are chances you'll lose the passion and love for your partner. Well said. 1 Like |
Re: Question For People In Love by Danhumprey: 7:59pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
uj_sizzle:Fine. If you say so. No hard feelings. Are we good? |
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