Who is a virgin?
A virgin is any person or thing that has not been defiled? Physically anybody who has not had sexual intercourse is a virgin. But in christiandom, a virgin is any person that has not defiled him or herself with any sin. It doesn't only mean one who had not fornicate, If you have not physically had sex with anybody but you commit lust, masturbate, or romance, you are not a virgin.
A primary virgin is öne who has never had sex at all (whose hymen is intact in the case of a women),
while
A secondary virgin is one who had unfortunately or mistakenly had sex before but realize his/her mistake and has stopd it.
Which ever you belong to, you are a virgin and can still keep your virginity. Doing so, you shall recieve the blessing of been a virgin, which are long life, happy marriage life in the future, and heaven at last above all. So dn't mess ursef up because fornication destroys both the body and the soul.
Beside, the scar or wound from sexual immorality dn't heal easily and may be a blast to your future. Read prov.6 &7. And Hadith . . . . .
So, Avoid ungodly and immoral words, books, pictures, songs, movies, dressing and all forms of unrighteous like you would avoid FIRE because they only still leads to eternal fire. HELL.