HMM!!! it is a long story.....
there is this very wonderful,caring,nice girl friend of mine.we live together.i must say,she is a caring person who loves to look out for others.we are very close and we tell each other things.the real gist now is,she has a boyfriend she has been dating and things are not really going smooth now for the both of them.
in the beginning,they were so much in love.i really admired their love,the way she always talked about him and the rest of it,you know the way we girls talk when we are in love.they were always calling,chatting,seeing each other and the rest of it.he works and is paid well.as in,the pay is above 100k,if it is true o,that was what i was told.UNTIL,
one day,the guy came to the house to visit her,i just got in from work and normal,i greeted them and gave them space.after he left that day,she told me ,he was coming to stay in the house with us for a while.why/what about his own house? i asked.she told me he was having some issues and he wants to get a new place and in order not to seem rude,i accepted thinking it was for a short while like in a few days or less than two weeks.you know? they continued their love plays and lovely couples thing.i liked it.it went on for more than 2 weeks, a month,a month and 2 weeks.he was still in the house.i was becoming worried.i kept asking when he would leave,she didn't know cos our expectations were quite the same according to his words.she didn't expect him to stay that long.he was becoming unbearable and we didn't know how to tell him directly.he is proud person,and he get quiet when am around,the worst was,when it was time to contribute money for food stuffs,light,gas and other things necessary in the house.sometimes,he would act like he doesn't know it is finished or he would give excuses about his ATM,delay in payment of salary, he is broke or he is having loan issues.as our guest,we would exclude him and do them ourselves or sometimes,he would contribute but the worst-est is,he doesn't do anything in the house at all.his own is go to work,come back, eat,watch a movie,make the longest calls and sleep.he even borrows money from her to go to work claiming he would pay back when he fixes his ATM card ish."liar of the universe.i dislike him so much"one day my friend was ill,i had to go to work.i did the dish and a few things i could,and because i was running late,i had to rush off,that day he was to go to the office in the afternoon.my friend stood up to do the rest of the house chores that there was.i told her to leave it,when i come back,i will do it expecting his brain to say,don't worry,I'll do it.she still continued and said don't worry,i know you'd be tired by then.go,i'll just do it but all he did was sit on the couch,operate on his system as usual and the next thing that came off his mouth was "hmm,if you faint and die,life will go on o.i hope you know" and he started laughing.i was shocked,she ignored him.after i left thinking he would assist her after all,she called and said he still didn't help her out.he has altitude,gosh!! sometimes he would flame up on issues that wasn't worth shouting or keep mute when a question is asked.she confronted him and expressed how she felt but he didn't change.she started complaining she was tired and that she needed space.but he wouldn't leave claiming he is still in love with her and he promises to change.this is the 3rd month now and she is fed up.i am fed up too.she doesn't really love him like before and if she forgives him,it means he would stay more.ladies and gentlemen,i don't wanna involve myself too much and look like a bad friend.i have said the best i can.what do you think should happen? do you think it is normal and if you were in her shoes,would you encourage her to take him back?

My can of coke n pop corn again... Btw without getting involved in their rltship since u pay part of d house rent u hv a right in saying how long a guest can stay. u should make ur point clear dat u are not meddling in their rltship bt d guy has got to go. It's her bizness if she takes him bk, bt he can't stay any longer

Plz whatz dis tory about the only word I saw was ATM....kindly summarize

Interesting story.

Arosa: Interesting story.

it is not just about how interesting it is but i wanna know what you think and feel should be done

lipsyliscious: My can of coke n pop corn again... Btw without getting involved in their rltship since u pay part of d house rent u hv a right in saying how long a guest can stay. u should make ur point clear dat u are not meddling in their rltship bt d guy has got to go. It's her bizness if she takes him bk, bt he can't stay any longer

right?? nicely said

My dear lemmi give you something important, no matter what happend, never say anything to spoil d guy around your frnd. Girls brain can be white wash. He might white wash her brain, and while in a section in their love play, she will tell him everything you said (frm experience) and u guys will become enemies. If she has fallen out of love as you said, why can't she tell him to leav? I can imagine, My girl is sick and I will open my mouth to say 'u knw if you die, life will go on'. That guy doesn't luv her. He is even suppose to pay for most of the things cause I can imagine myself contributing money while am with my girl and her frnds while I earn enuf. D guy is using u pple's head. She brot him in, she is d only one that can send him packing.

Yoruba ppl will say, akii so sibe ki a ku si be, say what neeeds to be said, it wont kill u. U tell ur girlfriend u r not comfortable living wit a guy for so long(dont make out dat its specifically d boyfriend u av sometin against), so she has to tell him to go, give her week or two, if she doznt broach d subject, its time for u to do d dirty work urself. D guy is just swindling u both. I av met a few of dem, dey r nice in d beginning, dey will spend like 25percent, den tell u dey need help, BF u know dey have drained 200percent out of u, and u will be thinkin, nooo, he was very nice when he was capable, its a typical conman's scheme. And pls dont subscribe to she is d one dat can send him packing, its ur room too, u paid to be comfortable, if i were his gelfrend i'd have booted him out on dat nasty comment he made.

Send the guy packing, though nicely...whether they come back together isn't ur biz, just make sure the guy leaves. ..AND, never talk bad of the guy with d gal cos when they are bk together, she's going to tell d guy everything, then u become an enemy

Your girlfriend is lost in her labyrinthine fantasies. Perhaps the sex takes her to paradise and nothing else seems to matter. All that gist of you and her being in sync in thoughts is wishy-washy. Wait until she gets pregnant, you'll be the one to offer to move out for them

This is a clear case of fraud. Call the police!

how do u know he is even working? not everyone that dresses up and leave the house in the morning that goes to work o.

Its ur house too. if you are fed up, show him the door

Naija guys....smh!abeg throw d guy out!!!

Full koboko control at work.

Where is tai2 wen u need him, ur theory is in full fledge practical here.

Serzly, u had me laffing wit dis comment, but mite turn out to be true, if d op's roommate's bf wind d gel up small, d next move will be for dem to frustrate d op so dat she can leave d apartment for dem. because it seems op's roommate is cock-whipped

fluid26: Your girlfriend is lost in her labyrinthine fantasies. Perhaps the sex takes her to paradise and nothing else seems to matter. All that gist of you and her being in sync in thoughts is wishy-washy. Wait until she gets pregnant, you'll be the one to offer to move out for them

This is a clear case of fraud. Call the police!

Galads: My dear lemmi give you something important, no matter what happend, never say anything to spoil d guy around your frnd. Girls brain can be white wash. He might white wash her brain, and while in a section in their love play, she will tell him everything you said (frm experience) and u guys will become enemies. If she has fallen out of love as you said, why can't she tell him to leav? I can imagine, My girl is sick and I will open my mouth to say 'u knw if you die, life will go on'. That guy doesn't luv her. He is even suppose to pay for most of the things cause I can imagine myself contributing money while am with my girl and her frnds while I earn enuf. D guy is using u pple's head. She brot him in, she is d only one that can send him packing.

abi? thats what am trying to avoid.thats why i dont say anything when she complains to me and my brain? never.i only contribute food for my own stomach my dear.thank you and nicely said.

didicold: Yoruba ppl will say, akii so sibe ki a ku si be, say what neeeds to be said, it wont kill u. U tell ur girlfriend u r not comfortable living wit a guy for so long(dont make out dat its specifically d boyfriend u av sometin against), so she has to tell him to go, give her week or two, if she doznt broach d subject, its time for u to do d dirty work urself. D guy is just swindling u both. I av met a few of dem, dey r nice in d beginning, dey will spend like 25percent, den tell u dey need help, BF u know dey have drained 200percent out of u, and u will be thinkin, nooo, he was very nice when he was capable, its a typical conman's scheme. And pls dont subscribe to she is d one dat can send him packing, its ur room too, u paid to be comfortable, if i were his gelfrend i'd have booted him out on dat nasty comment he made.

the part where you said "he was nice when he was capable" is very true...according to her,she has been telling me since that he said he would leave soon.i have told her that by the half of the month,he should pls leave or i'd put him out myself and i mean it.

gree-die:
how do u know he is even working? not everyone that dresses up and leave the house in the morning that goes to work o.

Its ur house too. if you are fed up, show him the door

abi,ask me oo.i already gave her a countdown. with a straight face

fluid26: Your girlfriend is lost in her labyrinthine fantasies. Perhaps the sex takes her to paradise and nothing else seems to matter. All that gist of you and her being in sync in thoughts is wishy-washy. Wait until she gets pregnant, you'll be the one to offer to move out for them

This is a clear case of fraud. Call the police!

Gbam!
Don't say badt things about your friends guy but u still nidd to help her to think straight.hez mostly likely a fraud. Help her, help yourself And gt that man out of the house

You av †̥o undstd this:

*D guy has lost his job(dts if he had any)

*He's decievin both you n ur friend

*If you are not careful,he's going †̥o make you leave the house

*then he wil deal with your friend

So Act Fast and Help your friend too

thareta:


Gbam!
Don't say badt things about your friends guy but u still nidd to help her to think straight.hez mostly likely a fraud. Help her, help yourself And gt that man out of the house

right??

Titiluvly: You av †̥o undstd this:

*D guy has lost his job(dts if he had any)

*He's decievin both you n ur friend

*If you are not careful,he's going †̥o make you leave the house

*then he wil deal with your friend

So Act Fast and Help your friend too

i sure will

Let us look at this story from another angle. Madam OP no vex o, na ordinary analysis o. Ehen.

I feel the OP is the girl in question. There is no room mate. It's a ruse to divert attention and mask the story, just in case the dudeman has tentacles on NL. Parts of the story may have been doctored for privacy or out of shame. That's understandable though.

If this is true, it clearly explains the great difficulty she's having in kicking him out. She's fighting the battle alone and needs 'liver' to evict him. Who knows, she probably receives some 'down down Ys' and 'forward forward Xs' from him.

Anywhichway, I believe much has been said already. Whether the OP is the girl or the roomie, she knows what to do.

1. What type of apartment do u stay? A room, self cont or flat?
2. Who owns d apartment?
3. @op, do u av a bf?
....ans d above 1st

The guy nor get male friends? I hate guys that rely on women for anytin.

fluid26: Let us look at this story from another angle. Madam OP no vex o, na ordinary analysis o. Ehen.

I feel the OP is the girl in question. There is no room mate. It's a ruse to divert attention and mask the story, just in case the dudeman has tentacles on NL. Parts of the story may have been doctored for privacy or out of shame. That's understandable though.

If this is true, it clearly explains the great difficulty she's having in kicking him out. She's fighting the battle alone and needs 'liver' to evict him. Who knows, she probably receives some 'down down Ys' and 'forward forward Xs' from him.

Anywhichway, I believe much has been said already. Whether the OP is the girl or the roomie, she knows what to do.

me ke!! if i was the one,i'd say its me,its no biggies..

Exponental: 1. What type of apartment do u stay? A room, self cont or flat?
2. Who owns d apartment?
3. @op, do u av a bf?
....ans d above 1st

self cont

You have to show him the door in a very polite manner since you pay part of the rent. Whatever your friend chooses to do with him is nan'yabizness. It would be very wrong to have a say in their relationship ish, just talk about the house and face your front.

What kind of a responsible guy does that? he nor get shame ni?
You are even kind enough to have accommodated him for 3 months. I can't take it o. Hian!

ms_pee: You have to show him the door in a very polite manner since you pay part of the rent. Whatever your friend chooses to do with him is nan'yabizness. It would be very wrong to have a say in their relationship ish, just talk about the house and face your front.

What kind of a responsible guy does that? he nor get shame ni?
You are even kind enough to have accommodated him for 3 months. I can't take it o. Hian!

hmmm,babe.i have shown him the front door already.i embarrassed him seriously. do you know i caught him trying to peep at me take my clothes off for a bath. i didn't care what ma friend had to say.i flinged his things outside without looking back.it wasn't a small thing o.

Titiluvly: You av †̥o undstd this:

*D guy has lost his job(dts if he had any)

*He's decievin both you n ur friend

*If you are not careful,he's going †̥o make you leave the house

*then he wil deal with your friend

So Act Fast and Help your friend too

*He may also be "TESTING" your friend,you know all these nollywood love test as in a guy pretending to be broke and so on.

ms_pee: You have to show him the door in a very polite manner since you pay part of the rent. Whatever your friend chooses to do with him is nan'yabizness. It would be very wrong to have a say in their relationship ish, just talk about the house and face your front.

What kind of a responsible guy does that? he nor get shame ni?
You are even kind enough to have accommodated him for 3 months. I can't take it o. Hian!

....and that kind guy go like fvck well well,tufia,some guys dey lack shame.

Young po413:


*He may also be "TESTING" your friend,you know all these nollywood love test as in a guy pretending to be broke and so on.

he can go to nollywood and do the acting cos moi,i dnt care anymore at all,at all

ceelinarsings:


hmmm,babe.i have shown him the front door already.i embarrassed him seriously. do you know i caught him trying to peep at me take my clothes off for a bath. i didn't care what ma friend had to say.i flinged his things outside without looking back.it wasn't a small thing o.