12 Reasons To Marry Or Not Marry Him or Her

If you are of the female gender, read it in a way it appeals to your gender.

Marry Her:
1. If She's of d same faith...If not, don't try to convert her, so you don't end up being converted. Don't help your God

2. If she's faithful...if not, she might make life miserable for you and at the end, file for divorce...which God hates.

3. If she loves God...If not, she cannot truly love you because it takes the love of God to truly love one another.

4. If she's physically attractive to u...if not, you may cheat on her or disrespect her and that will be unhealthy for your children as well.

5. If she's sexually attractive to u...if not, you may starve her of sex...pushing her to those who will find her attractive...and you may not be able to live with the nemesis.

6. If you can tolerate her weaknesses...if not, you will be the nagging one. Tolerance is one of the greatest virtues in relationship. You will see her different sides almost always, so get ready. She's a case study, not a finished experiment...so keep grooming your bride till death do you part.

7. If you can let go of other girls because of her...if not, you will be keeping appointments with anything under skirt. The most beautiful ones are not yet born...when you think your partner is beautiful, you will find out that she cannot stand that of some...but you don't need to care about them. One alone is enough project.

8. If she can cope with you in tough times...if not, she won't be there to encourage you when all chips are down...she won't be there to give you the push you need to get back on track....her iron will not sharpen your iron...instead it will dull it the more.

9. If she meets biblical standard for a believer...if not, you may need to be patient and let God complete the work He has started in her...for instance, she should have quit smoking, drinking, night crawling, and so on.

10. If you like, love and in love with her...if not, when you are angry, it may result in abuse...that's what you do to people you don't like when in a rship. When familiarity sets in and you are not sizzling in love again...the love(agape or of God) will sustain it. When you are in love...you just want the work day to be over so you could be with your better-half.

11. If God says she's the one...if not, ctr+alt+del(break away) from the rship with wisdom. If God does not approve of it, it won't work out. If God approve of it, don't rush into marriage...ensure you are matured (spiritually, financially, emotionally, socially).

12. If her parents and your parents give their consent...if not, wait prayerfully to get their support...even if your parents wishes are ungodly...let your spiritual or family elders talk to them while you trust God for His intervention.

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