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Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by doyin13(m): 3:09am On Jun 30, 2008
@poster

You are a hoops fan shocked shocked shocked

Eiya. . . .Guy my bad. Don't mind me jare. I jus like looking for trouble

I don't hate Northerners oo. In fact three of them have been to my house before.

@topic

nothing do you at all. . . , At the rate me am going, I might still be big pimping at 60
Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by Hannibal: 3:09am On Jun 30, 2008
davidylan:

same goes for most men. BUT to put the physical before romance is a sure sign you're not going to last. You mean to say the initial thought that comes to your mind when you first saw her was how to lay her?

No. . . . . .Do u have such a dirty mind??

The woman has to be pleasing/appealing to the eye before ma brain tells me to forge ahead.
That is the physical aspect i am talking about not sex. . . .

Everything has to be put in place.
Her vital statistics must check out and fall in the range of what i want.
Is that sex?
Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by onyinye2(f): 3:11am On Jun 30, 2008
@doyin

have fun pimping. but mind you dat a love-vendor need love too.
Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by doyin13(m): 3:14am On Jun 30, 2008
well young lady. . . .I must be the exception

All this love business no dey escape my immune system at all.

Some say I jus need to grow up. Me I say, why rein in the nets
when Cod full sea.
Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by onyinye2(f): 3:16am On Jun 30, 2008
@ all the males involved in this thread

your time will come. just wait until you find your ONE TRUE SOUL MATE and see what im saying. she will be every thing you ever wanted in a woman. and she will prove my point that romance is truly the wholesome goodness to the heart and soul.
Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by Mesmerize(f): 3:17am On Jun 30, 2008
Doyin,
stop confusing 5 minute banging with love jor. .

If love no dey escape your immune system, tell me, what's your marital status?
Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by Mesmerize(f): 3:18am On Jun 30, 2008
onyinye2:

@ all the males involved in this thread

your time will come. just wait until you find your ONE TRUE SOUL MATE and see what im saying. she will be every thing you ever wanted in a woman. and she will prove my point that romance is truly the wholesome goodness to the heart and soul.
the ideal of soulmate is a joke.
if people are still living through this fairy tale , then we'll continue to have more spinsters and single parents.
Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by eldee(m): 3:25am On Jun 30, 2008
onyinye2:

Prom? ? ? oka. who said a roadside mechanic can't be attractive??
You see . . . were you not the same advocate of 'connection' and 'soulmate'?
Now, u're only out for the 'physically attractive' one

You're even contradicting all your arguments
Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by onyinye2(f): 3:28am On Jun 30, 2008
@eldee

i never said i was just out for guys of physical attractiveness. you asked about a roadside mechanic as if they are all ugly.
if a guy is physically attractive then great. but im looking for that spiritual and emotionally connection to really determine things.
Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by Nobody: 3:34am On Jun 30, 2008
Mesmerize:

the ideal of soulmate is a joke.
if people are still living through this fairy tale , then we'll continue to have more spinsters and single parents.

Lmao!!!!!!!!! cheesy
Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by onyinye2(f): 3:35am On Jun 30, 2008
IS ROMANCE JUST A WORD IN THE DICTIONARY FOR YOU PEOPLE? ? ?
Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by debosky(m): 3:38am On Jun 30, 2008
so what happened to all the people marrying and divorcing? they never came to the point of 'one true soulmate'? cheesy

Maybe those unfortunate peeps had 3 soul mates instead of one. cheesy grin grin

this is why the bible says we need canes to drive foolishness from the heart of children. tongue grin
Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by NegroNtns(m): 3:39am On Jun 30, 2008
lol @ Hannibal,,  vital statistics is the bottom line of everything else.  Thats the gateway!
Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by eldee(m): 3:40am On Jun 30, 2008
onyinye2:

IS ROMANCE JUST A WORD IN THE DICTIONARY FOR YOU PEOPLE? ? ?
Romance is a an emotional attachment you start building between yourselves
It's not some exothermic reaction that starts with a spark, it's a choice to make it work
Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by Hannibal: 3:41am On Jun 30, 2008
onyinye2:

@eldee

i never said i was just out for guys of physical attractiveness. you asked about a roadside mechanic as if they are all ugly.
if a guy is physically attractive then great. but im looking for that spiritual and emotionally connection to really determine things.

I agree with you.

What you are trying to say is u want more than the physical attraction . . . . . .
It means you will not marry Tyson Beckford if he is not spiritually and emotionally connected to you.
At the same time, you will not marry an albino even if he is spiritually and emotionally connected to u.
In other words, all these things must be present for u to marry. . . .  but u must agree one comes first:PHYSICAL ATTRACTION.
Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by NegroNtns(m): 3:41am On Jun 30, 2008
rotflmao, debo quit, please!!
Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by Hannibal: 3:44am On Jun 30, 2008
Negro_Ntns:

lol @ Hannibal,, vital statistics is the bottom line of everything else. Thats the gateway!

Vital statistics is very very important. . . . . .
Who needs an unbalanced woman in his home??
One has to think about the kids, innit?? cheesy grin
Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by onyinye2(f): 3:45am On Jun 30, 2008
debosky:

so what happened to all the people marrying and divorcing? they never came to the point of 'one true soulmate'? cheesy

Maybe those unfortunate peeps had 3 soul mates instead of one. cheesy grin grin

this is why the bible says we need canes to drive foolishness from the heart of children. tongue grin

very funny tongue but you will see what im saying. the woman you discover is for you will change you. so get to use to being a love sick puppy.
Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by Hannibal: 3:47am On Jun 30, 2008
onyinye2:

very funny tongue but you will see what im saying. the woman you discover is for you will change you. so get to use to being a love sick puppy.

Love sick puppy? grin grin grin
I have to be bewitched or jazzed to get to that point.
Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by Nobody: 3:56am On Jun 30, 2008
debosky:

this is why the bible says we need canes to drive foolishness from the heart of children. tongue grin

i have onyinye's cane here.
Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by onyinye2(f): 3:58am On Jun 30, 2008
davidylan:

i have onyinye's cane here.

thats so funny when i have fist with your name on it right here too. cheesy
Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by debosky(m): 4:03am On Jun 30, 2008
davidylan:

i have onyinye's cane here.
onyinye2:

thats so funny when i have fist with your name on it right here too. cheesy

do I detect the magical 'soul mate' connection here? cheesy
Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by onyinye2(f): 4:05am On Jun 30, 2008
debosky:

do I detect the magical 'soul mate' connection here? cheesy

if this is true then a witch doctor must be amongst us. tongue
Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by Nobody: 4:08am On Jun 30, 2008
debosky:

do I detect the magical 'soul mate' connection here? cheesy

who knows? grin
Onyinye what say you?
Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by onyinye2(f): 4:11am On Jun 30, 2008
you my soul mate?? how could this be when we have nothing in common.
Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by Nobody: 4:20am On Jun 30, 2008
onyinye2:

you my soul mate?? how could this be when we have nothing in common.

We argue like stubborn mules, now that's a start! What say you again?
Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by onyinye2(f): 4:23am On Jun 30, 2008
im not stubborn at all. im open to everyone's opinion. tongue what say me?? hmmm dont really know. as you said we like to argue alot. im not sure how that would really work out.
Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by Nobody: 4:25am On Jun 30, 2008
onyinye2:

im not stubborn at all. im open to everyone's opinion. tongue what say me?? hmmm don't really know. as you said we like to argue alot. im not sure how that would really work out.

now we're getting somewhere. smiley
Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by Dakore(f): 4:29am On Jun 30, 2008
@made in 9ja, do you have a serious girlfriend?

marriage won't magically appear at your doorstep.
work toward getting a serious relationship with a girl first, then think about engagement, then think about planning marriage.
there are steps to everything. lol

I see you just ended your "thugging" stage. your next stage will be to find "someone" aka a girlfriend.
Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by onyinye2(f): 4:29am On Jun 30, 2008
but i must ask david, can you really deal with a girl like me?? i know im not the easiest person to agree with. but im telling you straight up i like to put my two cents in to everything. i was taught a dollar is betta then 98 cents. so are you really up for the challenge??
Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by Nobody: 4:32am On Jun 30, 2008
onyinye2:

but i must ask david, can you really deal with a girl like me?? i know im not the easiest person to agree with. but im telling you straight up i like to put my two cents in to everything. i was taught a dollar is betta then 98 cents. so are you really up for the challenge??

is that what you call a "challenge"? nothing phases david smiley
Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by onyinye2(f): 4:34am On Jun 30, 2008
oh i see. you think you can tame this lioness?? others have tried and failed. how do i know you want end up like them??

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