A friend has been dating this guy for a while now,months actually,they've had few misundertandings,recently she had an accident while on a bike,called him and he promised calling bAck after she told him,he called hours later to ask where she was,after telling him he said he just got home and will call later,then it started raining,she was thinking of how to get home after the leg was treated and thot of calling him but decided against it,on the average she sees like 20missed calls from him but on this day she saw just 2 after getting home in the rain,she wAs angry and voiced out her pain just for her to hear him say sorry I was busy. He claims 2 love her but is never there when she needs him And its always sorry,he thinks only about himself in all situations,what should she do? Uptil now he hasn't asked how she managed to get herself treated ,this is the 2nd of such

she had a minor bike accident and the first thinq she thouqht was to call the quy. to come do what?! settle the bills. for all she doesn`t know, the quy was probably busy.

on the
average she sees like 20missed calls from
him but on this day she saw just 2 after
getting home in the rain

Ur friend is just looking for problem, she's wants the guy to do what? just because she had a minor accident?

If I was the girl in question I would be hella pissed too, why didn't she just call any of her friends to give her a ride back home or do whatever she needed?

He didn't even offer to do sh1t, he better have a darn good reason for his attitude!
I can't even lie, that would be the last time I would call him when sh1t happens or even to pick a pin from the floor for me.
Busy my a*ss!

The accident was a minor one. And if he was really busy, then he is not wrong

She actually dislocated her knee and her anger is him not even bothering to show up at all,he has been pestering her for a child,if married eventually would he keep been busy,I rightly mentioned he called to tell her he was home for the day on the accident day,and only said sorry I was busy 2 days later

pasqal09:

Ur friend is just looking for problem, she's wants the guy to do what? just because she had a minor accident?

Have u ever heard of the word care,c'mon if such happened to your sis and u not close and u know she is dating,someone should be there for her

sкчscrαρεr™:
she had a minor bike accident and the first thinq she thouqht was to call the quy. to come do what?! settle the bills. for all she doesn`t know, the quy was probably busy.

pasqal09:

Ur friend is just looking for problem, she's wants the guy to do what? just because she had a minor accident?

A simple act of care from someone(esp from who u love) goes a long way in healing any pain.

bluuu:

A simple act of care from someone(esp from who u love) goes a long way in healing any pain.

Thank you.

Some guys are that way, they claim to love you but they are never there when you need them. Even if he doesn't foot the bills, his presence and a little act of love are more than enough!

Women most times don't just need your money! We need you!

I say get a strong long broom and sweep his azz outta your life.

Nonsense!

Busy men have no time for such. If it ain't serious, why should I leave what I am doing and rush to the hospital? What was she doing on a bike in the first place? Did she get wounded because she was attending to an errand on my behalf? What happened to her relatives and friends? Tell your friend to forget about it joor. Make are understand that there is a difference btw a husband and a boyfriend and a father. They all have different roles in a woman's life. Do not expect a boyfriend to perform the function of a husband.