Thi is anoda reason why its smart to keep ur feelings and emotions to urslf until u hv a clear read on his love for you.why is this crucial?bc whenever a woman takes the lead in a relationship,whether it is doing the caling,sugesting a date or professing love,the deviltakes ur gud intentions and turns them into wrong impressions lol.. Suddenly ,an impulsive move of gud will on ur part is interpretd as u closing in on him or chasing him.all doz cute cards,surprises,thougjtful gifts bcom a vise that threatens to squeez the lyf out of the interest he has in u.this trigers panic in hs hrt and he begins to fight for space in order to grab some control of the rlationshp.he needs to sort through hs feelings for u wtout ur help.umm I jst tink dz is d bst template to handle men..dnt jst hurry girl.u re a gud thing remember? So relax and let him take d lead

noma beeee: Thi is anoda reason why its smart to keep ur feelings and emotions to urslf until u hv a clear read on his love for you.why is this crucial?bc whenever a woman takes the lead in a relationship,whether it is doing the caling,sugesting a date or professing love,the deviltakes ur gud intentions and turns them into wrong impressions lol.. Suddenly ,an impulsive move of gud will on ur part is interpretd as u closing in on him or chasing him.all doz cute cards,surprises,thougjtful gifts bcom a vise that threatens to squeez the lyf out of the interest he has in u.this trigers panic in hs hrt and he begins to fight for space in order to grab some control of the rlationshp.he needs to sort through hs feelings for u wtout ur help.umm I jst tink dz is d bst template to handle men..dnt jst hurry girl.u re a gud thing remember? So relax and let him take d lead

Sorry, but i cannot agree with u, you know that guys pass through the same thing. They shower you with gifts,acts of kindness and mercy with no strings attached but u reject them coldly. U play with their emotion and only love yourselves and you eventually break their heart.
No one is saying go asking guys out or making the moves carelessly. But hidding your feelings,holding back and refusing to initiate anything is unfair. If u don't trust him enough to ask him out,plan a date, or surprise him pleasantly then u don't love him in the first place.
Then if he doesn' t appreciate you or your good will, my friend find a more deserving guy. And am sure he 'll regret his ingratitude. Ingrates only value what they have lost. Love should be two sided not one sided.

usermane:
Sorry, but i cannot agree with u, you know that guys pass through the same thing. They shower you with gifts,acts of kindness and mercy with no strings attached but u reject them coldly. U play with their emotion and only love yourselves and you eventually break their heart.
No one is saying go asking guys out or making the moves carelessly. But hidding your feelings,holding back and refusing to initiate anything is unfair. If u don't trust him enough to ask him out,plan a date, or surprise him pleasantly then u don't love him in the first place.
Then if he doesn' t appreciate you or your good will, my friend find a more deserving guy. And am sure he 'll regret his ingratitude. Ingrates only value what they have lost. Love should be two sided not one sided.

are u kidding me?plan a date or surprise him?wah?re u buying hs love.I stil nt agree wt u.allow d man do his thing hs own way.it earns more respect

noma beeee: are u kidding me?plan a date or surprise him?wah?re u buying hs love.I stil nt agree wt u.allow d man do his thing hs own way.it earns more respect

Ok then, u have ignored my entire post, but i do hope someone else find it useful some days. You can play by whatever rule that is acceptable to you. In life however, if u don't give much then don't expect much.

Too much stress in Nigerian relationships, I've noticed. Too much role-playing. Too much tales of who should do this or who is meant to do that.

Why cant two people accept the fact that they like each other and move on with their lives? What's all the drama for?

lomaxx: Too much stress in Nigerian relationships, I've noticed. Too much role-playing. Too much tales of who should do this or who is meant to do that.

Why cant two people accept the fact that they like each other and move on with their lives? What's all the drama for?

noma beeee: are u kidding me?plan a date or surprise him?wah?re u buying hs love.I stil nt agree wt u.allow d man do his thing hs own way.it earns more respect

Only a man with inferiority complex acts this way.

lomaxx: Too much stress in Nigerian relationships, I've noticed. Too much role-playing. Too much tales of who should do this or who is meant to do that.

Why cant two people accept the fact that they like each other and move on with their lives? What's all the drama for?

to much stress in nigerian relationships..no.too much role playing,yes..dia'v got to be that.its a heart u wil be dealing with not a stone two people acpt the fact that they like each other and move on with their lives huh?do u think its as easy as that?

lomaxx: Too much stress in Nigerian relationships, I've noticed. Too much role-playing. Too much tales of who should do this or who is meant to do that.

Why cant two people accept the fact that they like each other and move on with their lives? What's all the drama for?

i tire o.thats why i dont want no nigerian male drama in my life.to avoid thrash like this,ill rather play all the roles myself and to myself.spend my emotions on me,spend my money on me,take myself on a treat,spend my time on me.simple and short.my life is not hard.all this unecessary drama issh is not my thing at all

My sis enjoy ur life jo.wen u get 2 30 yrs old nd ur face don full wit pimples nd rinkles u wuld stop all dis child play.besides who told u dat love shuld b 1 sided.d guy shuld b d 1 killin himself everyday sha no wonder 80000 women protested at zamfara state complainin of scarcity of husband

gunners160: My sis enjoy ur life jo.wen u get 2 30 yrs old nd ur face don full wit pimples nd rinkles u wuld stop all dis child play.besides who told u dat love shuld b 1 sided.d guy shuld b d 1 killin himself everyday sha no wonder 80000 women protested at zamfara state complainin of scarcity of husband

u re sick

usermane:
Sorry, but i cannot agree with u, you know that guys pass through the same thing. They shower you with gifts,acts of kindness and mercy with no strings attached but u reject them coldly. U play with their emotion and only love yourselves and you eventually break their heart.
No one is saying go asking guys out or making the moves carelessly. But hidding your feelings,holding back and refusing to initiate anything is unfair. If u don't trust him enough to ask him out,plan a date, or surprise him pleasantly then u don't love him in the first place.
Then if he doesn' t appreciate you or your good will, my friend find a more deserving guy. And am sure he 'll regret his ingratitude. Ingrates only value what they have lost. Love should be two sided not one sided.

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Women should wake up. The world has evolved. They had better evolve with it or else they'll remain single.