Let me just go straight to the point.........

There's this girl I met through my cousin when he took her and her friend to swim,been that they were two i was invited to keep the other chick company during the outing,

But the truth is that I was unable to connect with the other girl but could noticed that I like the main chick because there was this chemistry between us that I couldn't understand, we just flow and believe she could notice it too, but there was nothing I could do.

I didn't see her until she went back to school,
So I could not tell her anything, all I could do was to call her once in a while.
I ask my cousin if they were dating and he said no, so I told him how I felt about the girl and he said no problem that I can ask her out but I know that he has slept with the girl and that was all he wanted.

thanks ASUU, she's at home now..........

Pls should I make my intention known to her or I should forget it,

I'm confused, I like her

dude as long as you wouldnt feel bad deep down that your cousin slept with her...ask her out but you have to be careful ow you go about it (you have to show her that you are sincere) cause she might think u also came for her because of what you stand to gain from her or that you and your cousin are probably messing around with her...all the best

Your cousin and the girl ...are they just friends now? It's interesting things aren't awkward between them now. It must be they both agreed to sleep together, so it wasn't like he used her and dumped her; she also wanted it too. If he had used her, it's likely she wouldn't want anything to do with him again, but that doesn't seem to be the case because they still hang out. She could [still] have feelings for him. You should tell her how you feel about her and hear her out.

What else are you waiting for?

Your cousin has told you in plain words that they are not dating, gave the go ahead, why can't you make your move or is it that you're lilly livered and can't woo the girl?. If you have feelings for her, then tell her about how you feel. It's simple as ABC

Just go ahead and tell her you fell
But let her see your sincerity.....

Good luck

Thank y'all for your advise...............
She invited me to their church by 4pm today.
I will let her how I feel about her today

190-the-clown:
that word can VEX me

"CHEMISTRY"

What the phuck is chemistry instead of you to just go straight 2 the bush and say u'wanna phuck her

u dey decieve yourself with the word chemistry"

Your matter dey High court

oniru

The court has spoken!!!

Omolola1: As long as you are not bothered your cousin slept with her and she is not a cheap w.hore, make your intentions known.