I found this and think it is worth sharing. The opinions contained therein are not mine and I do not say wether I support them or not !!! They may be foolish thoughts to you but undiluted wisdom to someone else. Read on !!! http://heartiste./the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/

1. Never say ‘I Love You’ first

Women want to feel like they have to overcome obstacles to win a man’s heart. They crave the challenge of capturing the interest of a man who has other women competing for his attention, and eventually prevailing over his grudging reluctance to award his committed exclusivity. The man who gives his emotional world away too easily robs women of the satisfaction of earning his love. Though you may be in love with her, don’t say it before she has said it. Show compassionate restraint for her need to struggle toward yin fulfillment. Inspire her to take the leap for you, and she’ll return the favor a thousand fold.

2. Make her jealous

Flirt with other women in front of her. Do not dissuade other women from flirting with you. Women will never admit this but jealousy excites them. The thought of you turning on another woman will arouse her sexually. No girl wants a man that no other woman wants. The partner who harnesses the gale storm of jealousy controls the direction of the relationship.

3. You shall make your mission, not your woman, your priority

Forget all those romantic clichés of the leading man proclaiming his undying love for the woman who completes him. Despite whatever protestations to the contrary, women do not want to be “The One” or the center of a man’s existence. They in fact want to subordinate themselves to a worthy man’s life purpose, to help him achieve that purpose with their feminine support, and to follow the path he lays out. You must respect a woman’s integrity and not lie to her that she is “your everything”. She is not your everything, and if she is, she will soon not be anymore.

4. Don’t play by her rules

If you allow a woman to make the rules she will resent you with a seething contempt even a rapist cannot inspire. The strongest woman and the most strident feminist wants to be led by, and to submit to, a more powerful man. Polarity is the core of a healthy loving relationship. She does not want the prerogative to walk all over you with her capricious demands and mercurial moods. Her emotions are a hurricane, her soul a saboteur. Think of yourself as a bulwark against her tempest. When she grasps for a pillar to steady herself against the whipping winds or yearns for an authority figure to foil her worst instincts, it is you who has to be there… strong, solid, unshakeable and immovable.

5. Adhere to the golden ratio

Give your woman 2/3 of everything she gives you. For every three calls or texts, give her two back. Three declarations of love earn two in return. Three gifts; two nights out. Give her two displays of affection and stop until she has answered with three more. When she speaks, you reply with fewer words. When she emotes, you emote less. The idea behind the golden ratio is twofold — it establishes your greater value by making her chase you, and it demonstrates that you have the self-restraint to avoid getting swept up in her personal dramas. Refraining from reciprocating everything she does for you in equal measure instills in her the proper attitude of belief in your higher status. In her deepest loins it is what she truly wants.

6. Keep her guessing

True to their inscrutable natures, women ask questions they don’t really want direct answers to. Woe be the man who plays it straight — his fate is the suffering of the beta. Evade, tease, obfuscate. She thrives when she has to imagine what you’re thinking about her, and withers when she knows exactly how you feel. A woman may want financial and family security, but she does not want passion security. In the same manner, when she has displeased you, punish swiftly, but when she has done you right, reward slowly. Reward her good behavior intermittently and unpredictably and she will never tire of working hard to please you.

7. Always keep two in the kitty

Never allow yourself to be a “kept man”. A man with options is a man without need. It builds confidence and encourages boldness with women if there is another woman, a safety net, to catch you in case you slip and risk a breakup, divorce, or a lost prospect, leading to loneliness and a grinding dry spell. A woman knows once she has slept with a man she has abdicated a measure of her power; when she has fallen in love with him she has surrendered nearly all of it. But love is ephemeral and with time she may rediscover her power and threaten to leave you. It is her final trump card. Withdrawing all her love and all her body in an instant will rend your soul if you are faced with contemplating the empty abyss alone. Knowing there is another you can turn to for affection will fortify your will and satisfy your manhood.

8. Say you’re sorry only when absolutely necessary

Do not say you’re sorry for every wrong thing you do. It is a posture of submission that no man should reflexively adopt, no matter how alpha he is. Apologizing increases the demand for more apologies. She will come to expect your contrition, like a cat expects its meal at a set time each day. And then your value will lower in her eyes. Instead, if you have done something wrong, you should acknowledge your guilt in a glancing way without resorting to the actual words “I’m sorry.” Pull the Bill Clinton maneuver and say “Mistakes were made” or tell her you “feel bad” about what you did. You are granted two freebie “I’m sorry”s for the life of your relationship; use them wisely.

9. Connect with her emotions

Set yourself apart from other men and connect with a woman’s emotional landscape. Her mind is an alien world that requires deft navigation to reach your rendevous. Frolic in the surf of emotions rather than the arid desert of logic. Be playful. Employ all your senses. Describe in lush detail scenarios to set her heart afire. Give your feelings freedom to roam. ROAM. Yes, that is a good word. You’re not on a linear path with her. You are ROAMING all over, taking her on an adventure. In this world, there is no need to finish thoughts or draw conclusions. There is only need to EXPERIENCE. You’re grabbing her hand and running with her down an infinite, labyrinthine alleyway with no end, laughing and letting your fingers glide on the cobblestone walls along the way.

10. Ignore her beauty

The man who trains his mind to subdue the reward centers of his brain when reflecting upon a beautiful female face will magically transform his interactions with women. His apprehension and self-consciousness will melt away, paving the path for more honest and self-possessed interactions with the objects of his desire. This is one reason why the greatest lotharios drown in more love than they can handle — through positive experiences with so many beautiful women they lose their awe of beauty and, in turn, their powerlessness under its spell. It will help you acquire the right frame of mind to stop using the words hot, cute, gorgeous, or beautiful to describe girls who turn you on. Instead, say to yourself “she’s interesting” or “she might be worth getting to know”. Never compliment a girl on her looks, especially not a girl you aren’t bleeping. Turn off that part of your brain that wants to put them on pedestals. Further advanced training to reach this state of unawed Zen transcendence is to sleep with many MANY attractive women (try to avoid sleeping with a lot of ugly women if you don’t want to regress). Soon, a Jedi lover you will be.

11. Be irrationally self-confident

No matter what your station in life, stride through the world without apology or excuse. It does not matter if objectively you are not the best man a woman can get; what matters is that you think and act like you are. Women have a dog’s instinct for uncovering weakness in men; don’t make it easy for them. Self-confidence, warranted or not, triggers submissive emotional responses in women. Irrational self-confidence will get you more women than rational defeatism.

12. Maximize your strengths, minimize your weaknesses

In the betterment of ourselves as men we attract women into our orbit. To accomplish this gravitational pull as painlessly and efficiently as possible, you must identify your natural talents and shortcomings and parcel your efforts accordingly. If you are a gifted jokester, don’t waste time and energy trying to raise your status in philosophical debate. If you write well but dance poorly, don’t kill yourself trying to expand your manly influence on the dancefloor. Your goal should be to attract women effortlessly, so play to your strengths no matter what they are; there is a groupie for every male endeavor. Except World of Warcraft.

13. Err on the side of too much boldness, rather than too little

Touching a woman inappropriately on the first date will get you further with her than not touching her at all. Don’t let a woman’s faux indignation at your boldness sway you; they secretly love it when a man aggressively pursues what he wants and makes his sexual intentions known. You don’t have to be an asshole, but if you have no choice, being an inconsiderate asshole beats being a polite beta, every time.

14. Bleep her good

Bleep her like it’s your last bleep. And hers. bleep her so good, so hard, so wantonly, so profligately that she is left a quivering, sparking mass of shaking flesh and sex fluids. Drain her of everything, then drain her some more. Kiss her all over, make love to her all night, and hold her close in the morning. Own her body, own her gratitude, own her love. If you don’t know how, learn to give her squirting orgasms.

15. Maintain your state of control

You are an oak tree. You will not be manipulated by crying, yelling, lying, head games, sexual withdrawal, jealousy ploys, pity plays, shit tests, hot/cold/hot/cold, disappearing acts, or guilt trips. She will rain and thunder all around you and you will shelter her until her storm passes. She will not drag you into her chaos or uproot you. When you have mastery over yourself, you will have mastery over her.

16. Never be afraid to lose her

You must not fear. Fear is the love-killer. Fear is the ego-triumph that brings abject loneliness. You will face your fear. You will permit it to pass over and through you. And when your ego-fear is gone you will turn and face your lover, and only your heart will remain. You will walk away from her when she has violated your integrity, and you will let her walk when her heart is closed to you. She who can destroy you, controls you. Don’t give her that power over yourself. Love yourself before you love her.
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The closer you follow the letter of these commandments, the easier you will find and keep real, true unconditional love and happiness in your life.

^^That is what Sagamumu teaches these young boys in the Romance section

Please deliver them from the bondage of 'forever alone' and stup1dity that Sagamite put them in.

Wu Zetian: ^^That is what Sagamumu teaches these young boys in the Romance section

Please deliver them from the bondage of 'forever alone' and stup1dity that Sagamite put them in.

sadly, i could clearly imagine Saga spewing such nonsense........ what a pile of BS.

MRbrownJAY: NONSENSE OF THE HIGHEST ORDER!!!!!!!!

1. Never say ‘I Love You’ first
if thats what/how you feel, and you think it is the right moment to say it, then by all means SAY IT!!!! only weak and insecure men will follow such rule.

2. Make her jealous
why would anyone go out of their way and daily routine to make someone jealous? why bring such negative vibe to a union? if she is naturally jealous then fair enough, but NO MAN should push for such emotion for personal gratification......especially by flirting with other women! what a poor way to jeopardize something good! make a woman desire you by by simply being YOURSELF, by being better than the other guys she dated, by bringing to her life something so special that she never want to leave your aaassss

4. Don’t play by her rules
what a very selfish and childish statement....... be yourself, know what you desire, and hope to find someone that completes you. if that person happens to bring some VALID points and upgrade into your life/game then TAKE THEM instead of believing that anything that she stands for is wrong.
that is the exact reason why so many men fail in r/ship, because of these foolish rules. if any man believe that all rules set by a woman are wrong, then this narrow minded man should stay single.

5. Adhere to the golden ratio
oh lawd!!!! what insecure low self esteemed guy wrote these rules?!
give your woman anything in your power to make your union work (as soon as you understand that she is the one for you). dont hold back, make it 110%, and if the r/ship doesnt work, then know in your heart that you have given your best to this. all these BS calculations are a waste of time, and certainly a waste of life!

6. Keep her guessing
a r/ship is about 2 people , not one. so let her exactly know what time it is, dont keep anyone you love in the dark about anything that matters to the wellbeing of your r/ship. why put obstacles in your own happiness?! why hurt your own self? duh!!

7. Always keep two in the kitty
the worst rule of them all.... NONSENSE written by a man who has absolutely no respect (or idea) what it takes to respect the person he loves.
if a man wants to keep a few women on the side, then he should equally allow his woman to have a few men on the side.....so that they are on the same level and play the same game.

8. Say you’re sorry only when absolutely necessary
BWAAAAAAAAAAH! a man should say he is sorry when he has done something wrong, and when he means it! how old was the guy who wrote these rules?! no, really!!!!

10. Ignore her beauty
a man should never ignore beauty, especially from their spouse. they should in fact rejoice for such attributes. this is probably the reason why you were first attracted to her and therefore there is no reason to now pretend it is nothing. look around you, BE PROUD of her and show it to her by admiring her beauty. it would be an insult not to compliment a woman on who she is as a person.

15. Maintain your state control
all the emotion written are all part of what women are about. there is no way you can possibly be happy with a woman without going through these emotions and games..... its all part of the attention that women REQUIRE from us men. we are different in that sense, and unless you give a woman the attention she require, you will never truly be with her. yes, some push the bucket but there is nothing wrong with showing a woman that you care. acting like you dont care, like you wont sway or like whatever she does doesnt matter, will only have you fail.

women are not the enemy, as this OP will have men believe. the minute he understands this, is the moment he will have a chance at finding happiness with a woman. anyone who follows all these rules to the letter, will never find true happiness with a woman, and only find a LOW SELF ESTEEMED SERVANT to use as ego boosting pump. better to find love and losing it, then following these rules and never find it because of some macho BS.

You couldn't say it better.
Love shouldn't be jealous,selfish or one sided. When you love someone,you love with your heart,you do not need to go through all test stress just cos you want to keep a woman.
Women are unpredictable and what works for one man may not work for the other when it comes to handling her.

For your information.
1. The views on that post are not mine.
2. I have not indicated wether I agree or disagree with it.
3. I am more interested in the divergent reactions it will generate especially from females.
4. One man's meat is another man's poison.
5. If you read carefully the writers opinions, he does not come across as a misogynist. I feel he is primarily concerned about handling the mercurial nature of female expressions.
6. He may be wrong and so can you.

i pity u...this is purely d opinion of an ugly man with somany insecurity and failed relationship...u now brought it to NL to corrupt innocent souls

[color=#000099][/color]I lovely post,its full of energy

Well what can I say.....

the 16 commandments are not bad in themselves; inasmuch as I believe that women are not the enemy or are they a project to be executed it is important for a man to know how a woman's mind works for his own good and happiness with her!

I understand the reaction of the poster who took his time to disagree on the 16 commandments as they sound so like a cold scheming

I am not calling women kids buh if u have interacted with kids u would know that to make things work u will have to 'act' else u wud not make any progress.

Women love to play; being straightforward and 'sincere' can work against you and leave u wondering where u may have gone wrong

Women love mystery, they love the mystery of your masculinity, supply them with it and all will be well.

Do all these things not like a scheme but an expression of who you are: A Man

I don't believe u should do the following

1. Flirt with other women to show her that other women desire you.....she can know from women who find u attractive based on your person when you are with other women.

2. Giving less:
it is more blessed to give than receive! Men love in a different way that is the fascination, men who love like a woman is repulsive. Once you live out your masculinity in the truest manner your love will sweep her off her feet. You will not be needing to hide your emotions thus leaving a half life.

3. Having a backup
That's crap. Havin back up gfs shows u r a man that rushes into relationships becos u don't think follow due process in making up ur mind.

.4. Say ur sorry
When u mess things up aplogise. Its inhuman not to and a disrespect to the humanity of your woman; men are different from women not superior to them. Saying sorry does not make u look weak if you know what ur doing.

Bottomline is to be the man that God made you to be and every other thing will fall into place

MRbrownJAY: NONSENSE OF THE HIGHEST ORDER!!!!!!!!

1. Never say ‘I Love You’ first
if thats what/how you feel, and you think it is the right moment to say it, then by all means SAY IT!!!! only weak and insecure men will follow such rule.

2. Make her jealous
why would anyone go out of their way and daily routine to make someone jealous? why bring such negative vibe to a union? if she is naturally jealous then fair enough, but NO MAN should push for such emotion for personal gratification......especially by flirting with other women! what a poor way to jeopardize something good! make a woman desire you by by simply being YOURSELF, by being better than the other guys she dated, by bringing to her life something so special that she never want to leave your aaassss

4. Don’t play by her rules
what a very selfish and childish statement....... be yourself, know what you desire, and hope to find someone that completes you. if that person happens to bring some VALID points and upgrade into your life/game then TAKE THEM instead of believing that anything that she stands for is wrong.
that is the exact reason why so many men fail in r/ship, because of these foolish rules. if any man believe that all rules set by a woman are wrong, then this narrow minded man should stay single.

5. Adhere to the golden ratio
oh lawd!!!! what insecure low self esteemed guy wrote these rules?!
give your woman anything in your power to make your union work (as soon as you understand that she is the one for you). dont hold back, make it 110%, and if the r/ship doesnt work, then know in your heart that you have given your best to this. all these BS calculations are a waste of time, and certainly a waste of life!

6. Keep her guessing
a r/ship is about 2 people , not one. so let her exactly know what time it is, dont keep anyone you love in the dark about anything that matters to the wellbeing of your r/ship. why put obstacles in your own happiness?! why hurt your own self? duh!!

7. Always keep two in the kitty
the worst rule of them all.... NONSENSE written by a man who has absolutely no respect (or idea) what it takes to respect the person he loves.
if a man wants to keep a few women on the side, then he should equally allow his woman to have a few men on the side.....so that they are on the same level and play the same game.

8. Say you’re sorry only when absolutely necessary
BWAAAAAAAAAAH! a man should say he is sorry when he has done something wrong, and when he means it! how old was the guy who wrote these rules?! no, really!!!!

10. Ignore her beauty
a man should never ignore beauty, especially from their spouse. they should in fact rejoice for such attributes. this is probably the reason why you were first attracted to her and therefore there is no reason to now pretend it is nothing. look around you, BE PROUD of her and show it to her by admiring her beauty. it would be an insult not to compliment a woman on who she is as a person.

15. Maintain your state control
all the emotion written are all part of what women are about. there is no way you can possibly be happy with a woman without going through these emotions and games..... its all part of the attention that women REQUIRE from us men. we are different in that sense, and unless you give a woman the attention she require, you will never truly be with her. yes, some push the bucket but there is nothing wrong with showing a woman that you care. acting like you dont care, like you wont sway or like whatever she does doesnt matter, will only have you fail.

women are not the enemy, as this OP will have men believe. the minute he understands this, is the moment he will have a chance at finding happiness with a woman. anyone who follows all these rules to the letter, will never find true happiness with a woman, and only find a LOW SELF ESTEEMED SERVANT to use as ego boosting pump. better to find love and losing it, then following these rules and never find it because of some macho BS.

Awwwww........ Am in love with you








The rules listed by the op will only make the guy seem dry, rude, arrogant, selfish, and not romantic. How many gals want that kind of guy?

rubbish post,culd not even read them. Very funny cos some pple will swallow it hook,line nd sinker and start practicing them. Mstcheww

Op must be a teenager or must have been dealing with teenagers.

JESUS CHRIST!!!
I thought rams were used for sallah?
What is this one still doing here?
Lemme just assume you're using reverse psychology, cos this is total BS!!!

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Im also awed at the sight of this post, well it depends on individual but i believe it was somewhat selfish albeit.