I see the same thing all the time; have for 20 years
now so it's not a recent thing.
Just today I had to go to the mall (gag) since I had
to get some new clothes for work. As I was going
from one store to another and dodging all of the
people trying to sell me useless novelties, I noticed this one couple, probably around my age. He
looked like the typical thug you would see on COPS
screaming "what'd I do?" She was this absolutely
gorgeous looking woman, the exact opposite of
this guy who has probably spent most of his life in
and out of jail/prison. He was about 6'2 or so; she couldn't have been more than 5'1 and 100lbs
soaking wet.
They stopped for a moment when she wanted to
look @ something in a store window. Obviously he
didn't, and told her to "f***ing come on." When she
hesitated, he grabbed her by the arm, with enough force that I'm surprised it didn't pull her arm from
the socket. You could tell by the look on her face
that she was in pain.
However, what does she do? She follows him like
an obedient dog, holding her arm and trying not to
show how much it was hurting. Before they were out of earshot, he called her a "whiny b*tch."
Now, why in the hell would a woman want to be
with a man like this? I have no doubt he has and
will do much worse to her.
If you abuse women, verbally or physically, you will
always have women throwing yourself @ you. If you treat a woman with respect (as we should treat
everyone), they wouldn't pour water on you if you
were on fire.
I just have to laugh whenever women whine about
never being able to meet a "good/nice/decent
guy" and yet at the same time, they go from one loser to another. The whole thing is a sad
commentary on the state of the world.
Even women in church are no better. Out of a group
of 50 people (roughly split evenly between men
and women) when I first began attending my
current church, 17 of the women have gotten married. Of those, 14 are divorced or in the process
of it. The reason for all but 2? Abuse and/or
infidelity. I cannot speak for the other 3 married
ones because they don't live here anymore.
Of the ones getting divorced, if you met the guys
they married, you'd be shocked. None went to church, several had criminal records, and again,
you'd expect to see them on COPS.
So me and two of my friends decided we'd try a
little experiment. Of the women who are divorced
from the loser, each one of us would ask them out,
even if just to go to the movies, have coffee, etc. All of them had been whining about now wanting a
"nice man."
Now, took us about 6 months to finish this little test
and what was the result? Nothing. Not one of them
would go out with us. Some just politely declined
because they weren't ready (that's understandable), but most flat out refused; and
most of them are now dating the same type of scum
as before.
I hate to say women are stupid, but they clearly are
incapable of learning from their mistakes.
Something in their brains, either genetic or learned, makes them want nothing but "bad boys" and
they're willing to live with the abuse it will bring.

As a psychologist,i have come to realize that it is actually irresponsible to be a nice guy(bitter truth)

*waiting for your bombs*