Buh too much money increases femnism tendencies....I want my wife to be financially independent.
However, I wuldnt want here to over do and neglect her primary duties at home.....men are to work hard enof to fend for dia family...wives can complement. Yea!

slimmy05: Nice one. Tell them so they'll stop depending.

Who is depending on u, we don't hav tym for such anymore cos we r not ready to lick any ones feet. So get that into your head.........

sкчscrαρεr™:
ßeiηg fiηancially iη∂epen∂ent is oηe thiηg, ßeiηg fiηancially seηsible is αησther thiηg. . . most la∂ies woυld rather spend money on make-ups and other inconsistential ornaments rather than invest in a business or support the family. to some married women, the man's money is everybody's money while their money is for them alone. it's funny how a financially stable woman still expects her husband to always give her pocket money daily.


some of the women that exhibit there attribute owns big shops, supermarket etc.. also, these businesses were opened by the husbands.

the question is...


"what do they use the money they earn for?"


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a guy will send his girlfriend airtime of N500 and she will still flash the guy to say 'thank you.'


we all talk about gender equality, yet you ask your girlfriend out on a tryst and she will come along with her friends without your fore-knowledge, demands above your capacity and puts you in trouble. the annoying part is the way she'll ask you to settle the bills like you own her money.

funny enough, you board a shuttle with your girl and when you guys alight from the bus she expects you to clear the bills.


the list goes on and on. . . we keep asking ourselves, what do ladies do with the money they earn, it's high time girls learn to be financially independent. reason is when they do so, men will respect them more, she won't look like a burden to him, and he won't take you for granted et all!!

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All izz well

♍A̶̲̥̅ dear ladies r becoming wise dis days so its a matter of tym everythn will fall into place. Let's keep on waitn n ho
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nayef:

Actually, it's not true. A financially independent woman has a higher tendency to sleep around. Statistically proven!

i don't know abt ur statistics,but what you said is right, a financially independent woman has a higher tendency to sleep around.
I have so more than five live examples and experiences...i know a top official,a woman, in a bank now that sleeps around!
#btw,i fully support it that a woman should be oky financially!

I totally support Women being financially independent. Ever since my dad passed on, i have been saddled with the responsibility of doing everything for my family, had my mum been financially independent, Life would have been somewhat easier... it hurts me sometimes to have worked for abt 4 yrs and i have nothing to show for my self.

Please if u are a woman reading this... If u are married please live life as though your husband is no more. if u are single, turst me it does add to your credentials of being marriageable. haven experienced it myself, i would not make the mistake my dad made. As a rule of thumb i dont even date gurls that are not working or business savvy

Smile4mee01: I totally support Women being financially independent. Ever since my dad passed on, i have been saddled with the responsibility of doing everything for my family, had my mum been financially independent, Life would have been somewhat easier... it hurts me sometimes to have worked for abt 4 yrs and i have nothing to show for my self.

Wow....this is so sad.
I hope everything turns out alright for you soonest.

Smile4mee01: I totally support Women being financially independent. Ever since my dad passed on, i have been saddled with the responsibility of doing everything for my family, had my mum been financially independent, Life would have been somewhat easier... it hurts me sometimes to have worked for abt 4 yrs and i have nothing to show for my self.

Please if u are a woman reading this... If u are married please live life as though your husband is no more. if u are single, turst me it does add to your credentials of being marriageable. haven experienced it myself, i would not make the mistake my dad made. As a rule of thumb i dont even date gurls that are not working or business savvy

You are wise enough to learn from your parents' mistakes. If everyone did it, we would have developed further faster. My best wishes to you and God bless you!

Mintayo:
i don't know abt ur statistics,but what you said is right, a financially independent woman has a higher tendency to sleep around.
I have so more than five live examples and experiences...i know a top official,a woman, in a bank now that sleeps around!
#btw,i fully support it that a woman should be oky financially!

Why do you people keep repeating this lie? Independent women do not have tendency to sleep around please and a promiscuous woman will be promiscuous whether or not she is independent.
Stop trying to tarnish the image of women who are working hard to make something of their lives okay?

Nice one there, tnx op for write-up. Women needs to be stable financially

nayef: Let's not kid ourselves, on average..the more financially independent women become, the higher their insolence. Its good for women and the society in all ramifications. But, it reduces men's leverage on women terribly!

What leverage do you want to have over a female u call ur wife?. Just pray to find a lady with a GOOD CHARACTER and not a feminist.

Plumkin: No one talks bout dependent men, yet they exist

That's the trend these days. Men now look up to their wives. They even hoard their earnings. Do a little research and see for yourselves!

When a woman is financially ok she settles emergencies in the absence of oga at the top.A woman is a home.My husband will always say a man is the head of the fam but a woman is the head of the home.Remember the home is where the heart is.

"too much financial independence results in feministic tendencies", "women should be financially independent so that they can be respected"

damned if u do, dammed if u don't. guys which way na? lol......

@topic; women! you're a lot more than just a pretty face and a nice *ass. you've got potential (plenty) and u should explore all of it. life is a whole lot more than getting an education and clinging to a man as a life support thereon.

however, with financial independence just like every other status in life, comes dignity, respect and humility. if u respect yourself, u'll never disrespect other people (unreasonably) talk more your "better half".

Gold-digging has been a cankerworm to the success of relationships and marriages.

This should spell an end to aristotle, runs and gold-digging.

Amin ase

mymz:
"too much financial independence results in feministic tendencies", "women should be financially independent so that they can be respected"

damned if u do, dammed if u don't. guys which way na? lol......

@topic; women! you're a lot more than just a pretty face and a nice *ass. you've got potential (plenty) and u should explore all of it. life is a whole lot more than getting an education and clinging to a man as a life support thereon.

however, with financial independence just like every other status in life, comes dignity, respect and humility. if u respect yourself, u'll never disrespect other people (unreasonably) talk more your "better half".

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...... The other side of the coin. A man has ego. Any man who derives joy collecting money without providing for his lady is LAZY . when a woman is financially independent, the power shifts from the man to the woman becoz he can't meet her need . She's not feeling the man he said he is. she's doing everything for herself, why won't she take decisions.. She's her own man. Be careful of what you guys ask for..........

cheche98: ...... The other side of the coin. A man has ego. Any man who derives joy collecting money without providing for his lady is LAZY . when a woman is financially independent, the power shifts from the man to the woman becoz he can't meet her need . She's not feeling the man he said he is. she's doing everything for herself, why won't she take decisions.. She's her own man. Be careful of what you guys ask for..........

Just because a man goes for a financially independent lady, doesnt mean he is lazy and broke

Just because I have my own doesn't mean he is not a man and can't give me anything else than money.

cheche98: ...... The other side of the coin. A man has ego. Any man who derives joy collecting money without providing for his lady is LAZY . when a woman is financially independent, the power shifts from the man to the woman becoz he can't meet her need . She's not feeling the man he said he is. she's doing everything for herself, why won't she take decisions.. She's her own man. Be careful of what you guys ask for..........

na wa for girls o. So money go make girl disrespect guy?. Make she make her own decision na, na me get her mind b4?. I jst dey notice say many Naija girls dn carry this whole "receive money" from guys hand for head. It's all good

carefreewannabe:

Just because a man goes for a financially independent lady, doesnt mean he is lazy and broke

Just because I have my own doesn't mean he is not a man and can't give me anything else than money.

Help me tell her o. Dm think say na only money. I notice say if girl dey earn more than guy, she go still expect d guy to dey give her cash. I jst tire for Naija girls

cheche98: ...... The other side of the coin. A man has ego. Any man who derives joy collecting money without providing for his lady is LAZY . when a woman is financially independent, the power shifts from the man to the woman becoz he can't meet her need . She's not feeling the man he said he is. she's doing everything for herself, why won't she take decisions.. She's her own man. Be careful of what you guys ask for..........

I can't imagine myself collecting money from my gf without providing for her the finest things of life. Let alone being financially dependent on my wife. Men who do that are social pariahs and should be thrown out of society.

carefreewannabe:

Just because a man goes for a financially independent lady, doesnt mean he is lazy and broke

Just because I have my own doesn't mean he is not a man and can't give me anything else than money.

Methink once you're financially independent you don't need to hang the spectre of your financial responsibilities around his neck. Since you've your money i don't think there is anything else you need than to complement his earnings when it comes to household expenses.

Thats the fact. Nice one. Kudos

kolado: Methink once you're financially independent you don't need to hang the spectre of your financial responsibilities around his neck. Since you've your money i don't think there is anything else you need than to complement his earnings when it comes to household expenses.

But why should your wife bear your name when you are no longer providing money for her?

De Beauvoir:

But why should your wife bear your name when you are no longer providing money for her?

why shouldn't she bear my name when I did the necessary things to get her?. I paid for her hand in marriage and after bringing her to my house u still expect her to bear her father's name?. Na wa o. We give up

passionate88: why shouldn't she bear my name when I did the necessary things to get her?. I paid for her hand in marriage and after bringing her to my house u still expect her to bear her father's name?. Na wa o. We give up

But you know that paying bride price is not in the Bible.
It's not a christian thing to do and it's origins is in pagan religions.
Bearing of husbands' names is also not in the Bible

De Beauvoir:

But you know that paying bride price is not in the Bible.
It's not a christian thing to do and it's origins is in pagan religions.
Bearing of husbands' names is also not in the Bible

wow. Nigerian girls knw hw to quote Bible when the want. Then show me in d Bible where the bride wore white to her wedding?. When Jesus turned water into wine in the Bible, what did the master of ceremony say to the groom?

cheche98: ...... The other side of the coin. A man has ego. Any man who derives joy collecting money without providing for his lady is LAZY . when a woman is financially independent, the power shifts from the man to the woman becoz he can't meet her need . She's not feeling the man he said he is. she's doing everything for herself, why won't she take decisions.. She's her own man. Be careful of what you guys ask for..........

You have valid point there @bold

De Beauvoir:

But why should your wife bear your name when you are no longer providing money for her?

but he paid the bride price right...?

according to islamic marriage a wife doesn't have to bear his husband name she has to keep her father's name.

tintingz: but he paid the bride price right...?

according to islamic marriage a wife doesn't have to bear his husband name she has to keep her father's name.

is it practiced?.

tintingz: but he paid the bride price right...?

according to islamic marriage a wife doesn't have to bear his husband name she has to keep her father's name.

So? Who asked you?
Abeg alfa carry your Rihadus Saliheen comot for here, this place is not ya madrassa

De Beauvoir:

But you know that paying bride price is not in the Bible.
It's not a christian thing to do and it's origins is in pagan religions.
Bearing of husbands' names is also not in the Bible

Lol, bride price not in the bible...go read your bible well madame.