A collection of thousands and millions of moments shared with someone you care about sums up a RELATIONSHIP.

As often said, out of sight isn't out of mind. Which means you can still share love and good moments with someone who is millions of miles away.

A friend once told me "if it hurts then it isn't love" and "If it feels like work, then love doesn't exist there either"

Distant relationship: A relationship where images in ones memory becomes a reality, that you can feel once you're emotionally connected. A relationship where proximity doesn't affect ones emotional feelings toward another. It comes with huge challenges and trials ranging from honesty, trust and reliability issues.

It's only natural that such challenges will arise in such a relationship because human beings by default have the capability of scripting, producing, directing and publishing of unreal events in their memories and then uses their MINDS to justify the illusions into an unrealistic REALITY.

4 Key Strategy To Overcome These Barriers:

1: Type Of Friends

If you're in a distant relationship and majority of your friends are single guys/ladies or people with an unstable love life then be rest assured you will run into trust issues with your partner in one way or another.

How does that happen?

The human mind is never idle, it works on multiple information within split of seconds and since you rover in an environ where people have nothing but all negativity about love and relationship, sooner or later your mind will have to start processing what's been fed to it and there it goes. In other words having like minds and people who believe in your course around when in such relationship will be a big boost to you.

2: Positive Mindset

There are just certain things you shouldn't give the space to occupy your mind. Take for example; if your partner who probably is millions of miles away from you is eating RICE while on the phone with you, and then ends up telling you it's beans.

How would you know the truth?

Answer: YOU CAN NEVER KNOW.(except you're a magician which of course you're not)

All you get is what they say to you and that's all you've got to believe and live with. The point is, you have got just TWO things and those are TRUST and BELIEVE. They're your greatest weapon. They let you breath positivity. You don't have to fight it rather accept it. That your partner maybe cheating on you is just a thought you created in your mind which you don't have prove of. And the earlier you chase away that monster the better. With such a mind set anyone can survive the challenges posed by distant relationship.

3: Routine Communication

By routine, I mean the type of communication that lets your partner know the things you do even without them been there with you. That gives them an insight of your activities such as when you're leaving for work, having breakfast, lunch, dinner, leaving the office etc. They give the other person a sense of belonging. It's like carrying them along and giving them that utmost assurance of your commitment in the relationship.

If you've skeleton in the cupboard, sincerely keeping a perfect ROUTINE COMMUNICATION will be like work instead of fun. Of course occasionally, by nature the will surely be moments when both parties are busy with other things and communication minimized, but these moments usually don't last for long.

4: Obsession

You don't have to be obsessed, all you owe your partner is love. Obsession is the bastard child on insecurity. And when this builds in, something goes off through the window.

Know what that is? It's TRUST.

How can you succeed with a love one when you don't trust them. And it isn't like they did something wrong rather it's just the fact that you think "when you can't control them, then it means they are bad or doing something bad against you". If you have 100% confidence in yourself and as well believe in who you truly are, obsessing over a love one would never come anywhere close to you and that is exactly what you need to succeed with that distant partner.

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Op,i luv ur write up,bt wat type of distant relationship r u talking abt hr,is it d blind distant relationship,d 1 of "we wud meet eachorda sumday"or d normal distant relationship in wich u knw eachorda bt u r jst far apart??