my girl n i av been dating 4 some months now, i av marriage plans 4 her, but av jus discoveredd that her mum is down wit kidney n her mum's sister is also down wit kidney,my girl is stil young n looking healthy 4 now(mid twenties) but am afraid she might b down wit kidney later in life, from wat i heard kidney is hereditry ,am really aving second tots on her, wat do u think

Why speculating that your girlfriend will come down with kidney disease? The fact that it is hereditary does not mean every member of the family will have it. Besides love is meant to be unconditional, how would you feel if your girlfriend is also considering leaving you for the same reason, i mean put yourself in her shoes. Prayer conquers all problems, that is if you even pray concerning your relationship and marriage. What if a bigger problem that is not even health related comes up after wedding, what will you do. summarily i dont think its right for you to leave your girlfriend because of this, rather you should pray with her as a sign of genuine love. she needs you now than ever before, do not complicate her emotional trauma! #peace#

You want to get married to someone and you think the biggest problem you'll face is kidney disease? You neva ready to marry o. Just leave her jeje cos u don't truly love her.

Man of little faith!!

I can understand ur concern, d financial implication of a kidney treatment is really scary,like d dialysis n other payment