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hi people of the naira land i need your advice on this matter,
I WANT TO STEP INTO ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP NOW WHAT ARE THE THINGS I SHOULD BEWERE OF AND WHAT SHOULD I DO FOR THE GIRL AM TALKING ABOUT IMMEDIATELY SEX WITH HER SHOULD I DO THAT SO THAT THIS WOULD NOT BE LIKE THE FIRST GIRL OKAY

Y is sex da first thing on ur mind ehn?

Y is sex da first thing on ur mind ehn?

Y is sex da first thing on ur mind ehn?

Y is sex da first thing on ur mind ehn?

Y is sex da first thing on ur mind ehn?

D'baby, I'm sure he got the question the first time.

Oops, am so sry, didnt mean to send it more than once! Twas some error.
Sup genial

I'm cool, D'baby. How 'bout you?

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this is incredible

i will say keep on praying to God.don't jump into anything. i did not understand some stuffs u wrote i think becos it was too long and i did not have the patient to read it carefully. word of advice patient is the best virtue. you can only get married once. if his sis cld behave that way towards u how wld the rest of his family behave?
what you need at this point in time is God's direction and wisdom. Ask God to give you this things. i shld believe that we are serving the same God. the God i know is not failure. He gives unto the needy. you really need directions.

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So,I began to ask my pastor, who is 26 years old,for advice.He didn't have much to say,he has been over me since I gave my life to Christ and has been like a father to me. I couldn't tell if he was jealous of the fact that I wasn't coming to him for every little thing anymore or was he not saying anything because of the respect for the lady,the guys sister. So anyway,the summer came up and I began to have big,big doubts.I started to avoid both him and his sister.I love his sister so much and I hated to avoid her,but I felt trapped by her presence.We went from praying together everyday to not praying together at all.She told me that the only reason she liked me was because of my Zeal for God and that without that I don't seem to stand out. I felt hurt but I understood where she was coming from.

why wld u think ur pastor was over u? and can u explain what u mean by "he has been over me since I gave my life to Christ and has been like a father to me. I couldn't tell if he was jealous of the fact that I wasn't coming to him for every little thing anymore or was he not saying anything because of the respect for the lady"


Did u mean that the dude lives in the UK but his visa has expired and he is looking for a way ti migrate to the US. the only way he ca do that is to impregnate and get married to u. if ur answer is yes you don't need advice from anyone you need to run away from that Family.

TaniCarr, I really should tell you what deceision to make but I'd say pls do not marry a man You really do no know. There are many fraudsters everywhere even in churches.
I heard of one girl here in Naija who was introduced by one decaoness in her church to her brother who lived in the UK. The brother came to visit her in Nigeria and every single time he came to see her her had a bible or a book written by Benny Hinn. She married him, moved to the UK to leave with him and then discovered he was a credit card fraudster. He madse her life a misery and now she is back in Nigeria HUSBANDLESS and the man is married to another woman introduced to him by the same 'deconess'.
Tani Dear, Our GOD is not a GOD of confusion. Do not let age make u anxoius to be married. Take your time, be careful.
I would definitely pray for you today.
I worried on your behalf and wish u well.

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good lawd, lol

ill advise u, dont get decieved by anyone,

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i wont lie, i couldnt go thru ur post cos it was so long and then my eyes were somehow ,

where is the guy now? and where are u going to meet him

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well u aint sure if hes tryn to decieve u right?, why go for something u aint sure of, why go for a journey u are scared of embarking on, ill just say u shuld follow ur heart, and of cos i'll keep u in prayers, but think twice b4 u make ur move

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wow thats really nice, well just be careful though, God is always there, i hope things work out well for u, by Gods grace everything would turn out good, AMEN, ill keep u in my prayers, and hope to hear wonderful news from u wen u get back, feel free to share with us, like i often say, life is full of risks, u cant move on without taking this risks, good luck sis

truely you have been a blessing to me and I thank God for you. You have a friend in me for life and I love you as my sister in the Lord.

aww so sweet.lo thanks