Differences Between Dating A girl and A woman,

A boy is attracted to girls. A man is attracted to
women. Now, this has nothing to do with the
actual age of a person. I'm referring to
maturity, life vision and stage of life. In fact,
some people regardless of their age, will never
really grow up. Also, this isn't to say that a
woman won't ever have "girlish" or immature
tendencies or vice versa. This post refers to
one's maturity and most points would also apply
if you switch the genders as well. If you are a
boy, then expect that you will attract only girls.
However, if you are a man (independent, knows
your worth and value, has a strong moral
compass, is considerate and an able
communicator and doesn't let insecurity
dominate your psyche), then you should be
dating a woman. And if you can't spot the
difference just yet, here are some pointers:
1. A girl throws tantrums. When displeased,
upset or angry, she reacts just as she did as a
child when she didn't get her way with her
parents. This often consists of screaming,
pouting, giving the silent treatment, being
passive aggressive and/or punishing. A woman
still feels the emotions of being upset/
displeased, but has cultivated the skill of
responding versus reacting. She comes to the
table as an adult, and communicates clearly
what is bothering her.
2. A girl perceives herself as a princess and
believes people should treat her like so. She is
entitled and feels that she is owed and therefore
expects more than she appreciates. A woman,
has standards (what she holds herself to) not
expectations (what she projects on to others).
3. A girl uses her physical beauty as her
currency and basis of value. A girl may be so
used to feeling validated through her looks and
sexuality, that she uses this as her primary tool
to get what she wants in life. A woman, knows
her worth is beyond her physicality. A woman
bases her value on her intelligence, her
strength, her integrity, her values, her
contributions, her humanity.
4. A girl banks on a man to be her financial
strategy. A woman plans to be financially
independent -- she banks on... herself. And if
she so happens to enter a relationship dynamic
where it makes sense for her partner to be the
primary breadwinner, it's considered a bonus,
not the expected life line.
5. A girl sees the world from a place of lack and
scarcity. She competes and will even tear down
another in order to secure resources or a mate.
A woman helps other women. She knows that
there's plenty enough to go around and takes
the high road of integrity to get what she wants.
6. A girl cannot be bothered with anything
domestic and is proud of the fact that she
cannot cook or clean. A woman understands that
being domestic is not a duty, but understands
that it is one way of taking care of herself and
others. She also understands that in the event
she wants to create a family, having a person in
the household who can contribute domestically
is important.
7. "A girl wants attention, a woman wants
respect. A girl wants to be adored by many. A
woman wants to be adored by one."
8. A girl does not respect her body. She has not
yet understood that her body and heart are
sacred, and that it's important to be mindful of
how she treats it and who she shares it with.
9. A woman takes the time to reflect on the type
of human she wants to be, the example she
wants to leave and the vision for her life. She
has put thought into her values and what she
stands for. A girl has not established her moral
compass or values and consequently, is often
inconsistent.
10. A girl has a checklist that prioritizes
superficial qualities above anything else. Here is
an example of how this checklist may look: Hot,
popular, wears skinny jeans, over six feet tall,
rich.. This is the checklist of what a woman may
look for: High integrity, intelligent, kind, good
communicator, emotionally available...
Now, a lot of these differences require taking
the time to know someone to figure out if the
apple of your eye is indeed a mature woman, or
someone with an immature mindset. However,
one of the quickest filters that you can notice
from the beginning is this:
11. A girl plays games. A woman doesn't.

Thumbs up Op

* Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a
guy to call and make plans. ...
- Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell
the guy to get in where he fits in.
*Girls want to control the man in their life.
- Grown women know that if he’s truly hers, he doesn’t
need controlling.
*Girls pick quarrels with you for not calling them.
- Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn’t.
*Girls try to put a man ‘on lock’ by using sex mental
games.
- Grown women know that it’s mind blowing sex that
makes a man want to ‘lock’ you down.
*Girls are afraid to be alone.
- Grown women revel in it – using it as a time for
personal growth.
*Girls ignore the good guys.
- Grown women ignore the bad guys.
*Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough
for their man.
- Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good
enough for any man.
*Girls try to monopolize all their man’s time (i.e don’t
want him hanging with his friends).
- Grown women realize that a lil’ bit of space makes the
‘together time’ even more special - and goes to have
fun with her own friends!
*Girls think a guy crying is weak.
- Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.
*Girls want to be spoiled and ‘tell’ their man so.
- Grown women ‘show’ him and make him comfortable
enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his
‘manhood’.
*Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
- Grown women know that - that was just one man.
*Girls fall in love, chase aimlessly after the object of
their affection, ignoring all ‘signs’.
- Grown women know that sometimes the one you love,
doesn’t always love you back - and move on, without
bitterness.
*Girls will read this and get an attitude.
- Grown women will read this and share it with other
Grown women!!
Watch this…so predictable…LOL..
*A boy will read this and use it to bash girls, or as a
reason to dump the girl he is currently dating.
- A Grown man will read this, nod his head, smile, think
of why he loves his GROWN woman…and text or call
her just to say “I love you for being you.”

I realli love this! Pls Mod FP. So motivating..