carmelion: Tyry gifts.it works like magic.

you mean he should start bribing his wife for sex ?

@op!there is nothing wrong wit ur wife at ak.what is going on is this,she wants u to cut down on the sex theme becoz now she is a mother no longer a sphnster.rit now what u need is to start again 4rm the begining i.e u expressing affection,care,a little romance thats all.

Women are damn too mysteriuos, secretive and deceptive at will.

My 49 cents is that you just take a breather, use this time to do other things, laff with her, take her on dates, go for a holiday, make her relax and let her open up more to you that way you guys will be living in the same world and all these issues could be easily resolved.

Sex is only a way of creating a connection with your spouse and there is a limit to what it can do; there is certainly sth buugging her but she can't tell you and that's probably becos you guys are not the open to each other which is so uncommon.

You guys should approach an experienced marriage counsellor to help bridge the poor communication gap; the lack of se.xual interest could be symptomaniac of other bigger ailments in your marraige.

Commit all to the hands of God

SURULERE

eripecs: Try to understand your woman. Most women don't like it on a normal day not to talk of after childbirth. Be patient with her to recover but don't expect the formal lifestyle with her. Don't try an alternative(another woman), its the beginning of early grave.

Stop there! For where?

But seriously speaking, every thread a man has marital issues, the general advice is "BE PATIENT".
Are men supposed to be long-suffering just because they carry a long stick in the middle of their legs?

Some women
wait 2 years before it resets. In the
mean time be patient.

Can any of you women here have this patience ?

Have you gone through the threads where women have been advised??yes,women are even asked to die suffering ,as it is better to die an unhappy Mrs than live a happy Miss.

whateva happend to a good soap and water...and a good KIM K margazine once in a while.dude where did you leave all your teen yrs?