i guess every lady dreams of that day she wear that lovely gown and walk down the isle with d guy of her dreams to be joined together, it can truly be wonderful. but without it, does it mean u can't be truly fulfiled in the eyes of the society? no matter a woman's achievement and class would she always be a step behind if she's not married?

yeah, i ask because my folks are on my case and i aint really keen rite now.

sadly, am on my way out of another relationship!

arianne:

i guess every lady dreams of that day she wear that lovely gown and walk down the isle with d guy of her dreams

lies.

to be joined together, it can truly be wonderful.

or it can unquenchable pain in the ass

but without it, does it mean u can't be truly fulfiled in the eyes of the society?

what's your definition of fulfillment?  ask oprah, she'll tell you she doesn't need a guy to be fulfilled.

no matter a woman's achievement and class would she always be a step behind if she's not married?

again, no.

yeah, i ask because my folks are on my case and i aint really keen rite now.

sadly, am on my way out of another relationship!

try me.

Free Radical!

@Arianne.

Marriage as you know was established by God
and yes, it is very fulfilling.

But its best to burn now than to get burnt in marriage

You know it isnt something to rush into

Gamine:

Free Radical!

@Arianne.

Marriage as you know was established by God
and yes, it is very fulfilling.

But its best to burn now than to get burnt in marriage

You know it isnt something to rush into

burn with me. let's burn together.

LOL.

@gamine- xactly my fear. i knw i cant stand the pressures of marriage rite now and i dont wanna get in only to be lookin for the back door. its a big step and i avnt met anyone to assure me its a step worth taking with him. unfortunately , my folks just keep marking the calander telling me am gonna be 26 soon.

@ch3coo- sorry darl, u gonna have to burn alone on this one. regarding oprah, u would be suprised most pple view her as successful but not necessarily fulfiled.

26?

my sister just got married at 27.

if you let your folks get to you, it will only turn out bad.

They arent the ones going into the union.

Plss oh, na ur life.

arianne:

@gamine- xactly my fear. i knw i can't stand the pressures of marriage rite now and i don't want to get in only to be lookin for the back door. its a big step and i avnt met anyone to assure me its a step worth taking with him. unfortunately , my folks just keep marking the calander telling me am going to be 26 soon.

@ch3coo- sorry darl, u going to have to burn alone on this one. regarding oprah, u would be suprised most people view her as successful but not necessarily fulfiled.

is anyone ever fulfilled?  But umm my point is, she doesn't need a guy to be fulfilled.

Gamine:

LOL.

Gamine.  Your lol is not exactly the answer to my proposal. Together we can enjoy the sensations of nocturnal activities.

C'mon Free

Fulfill me

you dont' want it

@ poster

Unless these so called relatives all have happy marriages, which I doubt i don't see any reason why they should pressurize you!

Dearie, better tell your folks how you feel about marriage at the moment. After the wedding ceremony it's only you and your husband that will go home. Whatever happens afterwards is your own cheese cake. No pressure at 25, pls

But folks, marriage is to be dreaded na. . . .

It has and will always require a little prodding

Gamine:

26?

my sister just got married at 27.

if you let your folks get to you, it will only turn out bad.

They arent the ones going into the union.

Plss oh, na your life.

27, 28, 29, 30, 31, we are counting

@ Gamine

Ow long can u wait? if ur not hooked can u plsssssss wait for me

@ poster

kip ur head up gurl, Gods time is near
I wil soon propose to u

You are suffering from attention spam

Wait did you say 25?   your life is over.  your eggs are being recycled at a swift pace.

CH3COO:

Wait did you say 25? your life is over. your eggs are being recycled at a swift pace.

Shut up, demented being!

are you here to stink up the place or to contribute to the topic?
_{quit stalking me}

@topic

of course it is every young girl's dream to be married to "prince charming"and be whisked off to a life of love and passion. But marriage is a big step in life. it is not something worth rushing into. in some sense yes, especially in the states, a woman isn't seen accomplished if she never marries. But me i would loved to be one day married to the man of my dreams but if life doesn't deal me that card, then i just have to learn to live with it. it would be hard but i'll live.

onyinye2:

@topic

[b]of course it is every young girl's dream to be married to "prince charming"[/b]and be whisked off to a life of love and passion. But marriage is a big step in life. it is not something worth rushing into. in some sense yes, especially in the states, a woman isn't seen accomplished if she never marries. But me i would loved to be one day married to the man of my dreams but if life doesn't deal me that card, then i just have to learn to live with it. it would be hard but i'll live.

Those are babies who still read fairy tales. A grown up lady should know better than to wait for a prince charming riding a white horse!

michelin89:

Those are babies who still read fairy tales. A grown up lady should know better than to wait for a prince charming riding a white horse!

lol. onyinye is an idealist don't mind her.

@michelin

i said and i quote "young girl's dream". come on now. lets use our thinking caps tonight.

I want a Charming guy in a White Jet sha.

onyinye2:

@michelin

i said and i quote "young girl's dream". come on now. lets use our thinking caps tonight.

Someone who still uses terms like "dream man" shouldn't even mention anything that refers to being logical.

What makes you different from those girls when you have also build an image of an ideal man you'd like to get married to?

PS: Sorry i won't come on. Right now I can only go and do that washing up, take a shower and go to bed!

onyinye2:

@michelin

i said and i quote "young girl's dream". come on now. lets use our thinking caps tonight.

yes please let's do.  as if we haven't learned enough about faulty generalizations.

holler gamine.

O.oo

Do u hv the goods?

forget the goods gamine. i have to come you with true love.

ok lets see it.

abeg phone me make i get your address i go come show you.

i dont have credit na