LOVE and RELATIONSHIP are two
words that has been intertwined
since like forever. Now i'm not
perfect in love but i do know a
thing or two. When you love
someone you can literally do
anything to show your partner
how much you care. Instead of
finding fault in their flaws you
find strength. When your partner
is talking you keep aside
everything you were doing to a
halt and listen with rapt
attention. You laugh whenever
your partner tells a joke even
though it's not funny. When your
partner is in problem your don't
say "what can i do?" you think of
something appopriate and do it.
You can't let a day pass you by
without hearing his/her voice.
When a guy abandons a crucial
football match just to see his
lover then such dude is in love.
When a girl pauses an interesting
scene from a noolywood movie
just to text back her lover then
such lady is definately in love. But
often time we tend to mistake
love with lust. These are two
different words entirely. An
epitome of lust is love at first
sight. Another example is
distance relationship. How can
you just love somebody the very
first time you set your eyes on
em? How silly could some people
be. I was listening to a radio love
programme sometime ago and a
dude calls and says he's been
dating a girl on facebook for
over three years. I was like WTF?
Which village did that guy hails
from. The worst part is that he
had been sending the lady
recharge card since the onset of
their so-called internet dating but
now he's trying to meet with the
girl and she started giving him
excuses. It is incontrovertibly
obvious that dude had been a
potential mugu all this while. As a
lady, you barely knew a guy
for a month and you guys had
started having sex, please know
that you're not in love. It's either
you're a side-chick or you're his
sex-machine. And the painful
part is that immediately he's
done, you're gone. They say love
is blind and to some extent i
disagree to agree. Some people
are blinded by what they see, feel
and imagine. You know that a
man has a wife and children at
home and you're secretly dating
him because of his money. Only if
you know the damage you're
causing to somebody's home,
because of you a man is refusing
to sleep with his wife, eat her
food, keep late night, beat and
verbally abuse his wife and also care
less about his family. If you're
that lady out there you should be
ashamed of yourself. And if
you're that guy out there that
has been proposing love to a girl
but she turned you down all the
time, and as a result of payback
you resorted to r'aping her then
you're worst than an infidel. It's
not by force for someone to love
you, if everybody is turning
down your request then it means
you need to check yourself
because something is definately
wrong with you. But my advice
to everyone out there is to love
the right way, if somebody
turned down your request then
let them be, there are several
fishes in the sea. Just keep on
searching and hopefully you'll
find that someone that'll love you
for who you are. That someone
that knows the song in your
heart even without singing it out.
Find that someone and let love
lead.