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An Open Letter To Everyone Who Needs Love by Clemzy16(m): 8:25pm On Nov 09, 2013 |
LOVE and RELATIONSHIP are two words that has been intertwined since like forever. Now i'm not perfect in love but i do know a thing or two. When you love someone you can literally do anything to show your partner how much you care. Instead of finding fault in their flaws you find strength. When your partner is talking you keep aside everything you were doing to a halt and listen with rapt attention. You laugh whenever your partner tells a joke even though it's not funny. When your partner is in problem your don't say "what can i do?" you think of something appopriate and do it. You can't let a day pass you by without hearing his/her voice. When a guy abandons a crucial football match just to see his lover then such dude is in love. When a girl pauses an interesting scene from a noolywood movie just to text back her lover then such lady is definately in love. But often time we tend to mistake love with lust. These are two different words entirely. An epitome of lust is love at first sight. Another example is distance relationship. How can you just love somebody the very first time you set your eyes on em? How silly could some people be. I was listening to a radio love programme sometime ago and a dude calls and says he's been dating a girl on facebook for over three years. I was like WTF? Which village did that guy hails from. The worst part is that he had been sending the lady recharge card since the onset of their so-called internet dating but now he's trying to meet with the girl and she started giving him excuses. It is incontrovertibly obvious that dude had been a potential mugu all this while. As a lady, you barely knew a guy for a month and you guys had started having sex, please know that you're not in love. It's either you're a side-chick or you're his sex-machine. And the painful part is that immediately he's done, you're gone. They say love is blind and to some extent i disagree to agree. Some people are blinded by what they see, feel and imagine. You know that a man has a wife and children at home and you're secretly dating him because of his money. Only if you know the damage you're causing to somebody's home, because of you a man is refusing to sleep with his wife, eat her food, keep late night, beat and verbally abuse his wife and also care less about his family. If you're that lady out there you should be ashamed of yourself. And if you're that guy out there that has been proposing love to a girl but she turned you down all the time, and as a result of payback you resorted to r'aping her then you're worst than an infidel. It's not by force for someone to love you, if everybody is turning down your request then it means you need to check yourself because something is definately wrong with you. But my advice to everyone out there is to love the right way, if somebody turned down your request then let them be, there are several fishes in the sea. Just keep on searching and hopefully you'll find that someone that'll love you for who you are. That someone that knows the song in your heart even without singing it out. Find that someone and let love lead. 1 Like |
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