nyenyej: Most times, dis is what u get when u snatch another woman's husband.
Chime had a wife and children,
Clara a friend to Chimes daughter,
Clara slept with her friend's father, and snatched d friend's mothers husband.
Clara got married traditionally to her friends mother husband, her friends father and became d first lady!
Clara came with her sister who also wanted to b a first lady during d Chimes 2nd tenure.
Clara's sister got pregnant, had a baby boy and her bride price was also paid making her d 3rd wife.
Clara cannot bear dis, and her network trips off.
Clara is locked up and assigned a personal doctor and she cries out, imprisonment!!! Confinement!!!!!
Clara oya see freedom, she doesn't want to go again cause her statues as d first lady siezes once she leaves. The statues that brought her dis mess.
Clara has scores to settle with Chimes 1st wife and children + her own younger sister.
Isn't that enough to send her to permanently to a PHSYCIA?

jp philips:


How did you know? were you there? or you administered the pill? like i advised, help her to fix the poverty ravaging her parental home, that is the only problem im seeing here.
even in her first outcry to the public, she mentioned "upkeep money" as one of her challenges, yes, i don't wanna be deceived that is her biggest challenge.

repogirl:

Okay Mr. Wiseman, since Mr. Chime has been so gracious as to allow her all these glorious favours, why is she not allowed to meet with family, why is she not granted her request for better medical care, why isn't she given enough of an allowance to take care of herself, why hasn't he been intimate with her in four years.... Or aren't these also her rights as a human being and as his wife? Pls educate the unwise, Mr Wiseness.

jp philips:

when was the last time you had sex with a mad man? you want chime to risk the safety of his condo on a mental patient?

Lady Excellency: If Mrs Chime was desperate for Cash or Material benefits, she would have gotten that during her husbands travails (the months Chime was like vegetables in the hospital overseas).

Who told you she is poor or that she snatched Chime away forcefully? She love the husband but wants her dignity to be respected. Nothing more, nothing less.

forgive me for wasting my time on you, with the post above, i wish my path to cross yours so i can teach you the reality of life the hard way, African magic brain, imagine the nonsense coming from a supposed adult.
Abeg DBA, come show me how to operate this SAP, this upgrade don dey scatter my head, make i no use chime matter start my Monday morning . Engr, show here work don start!!

repogirl: Do you think the governor was this way before marriage? Of course not, he would have treated her like a queen, made promises to give her all she needed.....

repogirl: no marriage is perfect

repogirl: but a woman doesn't need to live in hell......be subjected to such maltreatment and disrespect.

P.S, why doesn't the governor send her abroad for treatment......

repogirl:

Okay Mr. Wiseman, since Mr. Chime has been so gracious as to allow her all these glorious favours, why is she not allowed to meet with family, why is she not granted her request for better medical care, why isn't she given enough of an allowance to take care of herself, why hasn't he been intimate with her in four years.... Or aren't these also her rights as a human being and as his wife? Pls educate the unwise, Mr Wiseness.

greggng: My question what's wrong in this woman seeking medixal care outside nigeria? I think that woman has been used as sacrifice

frankyychiji: For starters, I am not mr but mrs. You and anybody on NL can confirm this. Wt my moniker u can chk me out tru ur search engine to see my pics n identity.

So mrs chime didn't have any monies of her own? Why is this so? She didn't have any skills. She didn't develop herself. She is an airhead who tot she wd become an empress by virtue of "madam firstlady". she has access to medical facilities (may b not her choice one). She has never been denied access to her relatives wen they came around cos d first time words got out abt her situation, she said she cannot walk away fr d marriage cos her own family swore to kill her if she ever did which means she was interacting wt dem.

Now to d issue of going abroad for medical asssitance, from d way dis woman has been alledging one tin and refuting d same, it can b deduced that chime is privy to a grand plan for her to cause a mega embarassment if she is let out just like that.

She cd even claim asylum like somebody pointed out here just to gravely embarass d governor.

Now y wd she want to embarass d gov? D motive is there. D governor was d first to gravely embarass her wen he impregnated her sister. She is on a revenge mission bt she wants to eat her cake n hv it too.

Y do I have dis feeling that she is fr a wayward family? Pls wot manner of sister sleeps wt d sister's husband, got pregnant and keeps same?

In all, I don't think mrs chime has lived a good life on her part n so d evil sister did not mind coming to take her share from d loot that belongs to nobody!

As for not being intimate wt her, that itself was enuf reason for her to hv walked out a long time ago as its obvious d man does not love any more. And dnt be telling me ibo women dnt subscribe to divorce sh*it.

But she won't walk out cos she can't fend for herself. She is solely dependant on d hand-outs dt come wt being wt chime. She has no skills. She has no savings. And her ATM is threatening to go out of service.

My lady, u are a sentimental feminist wtout ideology!!!!

Lady Excellency: If Mrs Chime was desperate for Cash or Material benefits, she would have gotten that during her husbands travails (the months Chime was like vegetables in the hospital overseas).

Who told you she is poor or that she snatched Chime away forcefully? She loves the husband but wants her dignity to be respected. Nothing more, nothing less.

strangest: Lol... She dont want to leave again... Greed will kill some people... She's not even talking about divorce, she wants to come back and stay with the same man that she claims has confined her to a house... Na wa o

CyberG: You should always marry in a place where you will be treated like a human being and much better than what you are currently facing now. If for some reason, you lose your life now be sure no one will even worry much as the Chime bagger marries another woman! A woman is not supposed to be sold as a property due to a high bride price, but your partner!

frankyychiji: For starters, I am not mr but mrs. You and anybody on NL can confirm this. Wt my moniker u can chk me out tru ur search engine to see my pics n identity.

So mrs chime didn't have any monies of her own? Why is this so? She didn't have any skills. She didn't develop herself. She is an airhead who tot she wd become an empress by virtue of "madam firstlady". she has access to medical facilities (may b not her choice one). She has never been denied access to her relatives wen they came around cos d first time words got out abt her situation, she said she cannot walk away fr d marriage cos her own family swore to kill her if she ever did which means she was interacting wt dem.

Now to d issue of going abroad for medical asssitance, from d way dis woman has been alledging one tin and refuting d same, it can b deduced that chime is privy to a grand plan for her to cause a mega embarassment if she is let out just like that.

She cd even claim asylum like somebody pointed out here just to gravely embarass d governor.

Now y wd she want to embarass d gov? D motive is there. D governor was d first to gravely embarass her wen he impregnated her sister. She is on a revenge mission bt she wants to eat her cake n hv it too.

Y do I have dis feeling that she is fr a wayward family? Pls wot manner of sister sleeps wt d sister's husband, got pregnant and keeps same?

In all, I don't think mrs chime has lived a good life on her part n so d evil sister did not mind coming to take her share from d loot that belongs to nobody!

As for not being intimate wt her, that itself was enuf reason for her to hv walked out a long time ago as its obvious d man does not love any more. And dnt be telling me ibo women dnt subscribe to divorce sh*it.

But she won't walk out cos she can't fend for herself. She is solely dependant on d hand-outs dt come wt being wt chime. She has no skills. She has no savings. And her ATM is threatening to go out of service.

My lady, u are a sentimental feminist wtout ideology!!!!

clun:

Shut shut shut UP.
What of if she loved him but not knowing that he is not in love with her( but he will be confessing love to her)

If you were in her shoes won't you be happy you married a governor.
Make sure I marry a begger.

Let me tell you. Some beggers are worse the the governor. So pray U don't marry a bad man whether rich or poor.

jp philips:

when was the last time you had sex with a mad man? you want chime to risk the safety of his condo on a mental patient?, all these allowance nonsense is pissing me off, during peter odili's reign as the Gov. of rivers state, Mary odili rose to the rank of a supreme court judge and is still there till date, do you know how many years it takes in judiciary to attain that feat? you think say na beans?

Atiku Abubakar's wife fati abubakar, rose to the rank of an appeal court judge even before her husband became a vice president, what about olorogu Ibru's wife? the fact that your husband is a governor, does not tie your destiny to petty hand outs, is she without a career?
even your president's wife was selling ice cream in ph before her hubby became a governor, today she is a perm sec. is Mrs Chime a daft that cannot even think of using her hubby's apparatchik to better her life?

At her age and status she is still living off handouts and petty allowance like a student, shame on both of you, lazy animals.

If Mr chime was living off allowance, where Enugu state Govt house for come meet am? #spits#

frankyychiji: My lady u are fast running out words to say. Pls quit dis forum now and allow peo who have somthing meaningful to say air their views. To me, like a typical feminist wtout ideology, u are begining to loose d steam u started ur arguements wt in so short a period and dis is typical.

However, I respect u for holding ur own up to d point wen u stopped making sense.

Lady Excellency: Stop all these assumptions and trying to imply your reasoning were they are not applicable.

Mrs Chime and his husband are equal partner in this marriage and every argument should be discussed from that view point.

For once let's acknowledged the embarrassment this episode is generating as a consequence of failed leadership in the family on the part of Gov. Chime and advice him as intellectuals.

frankyychiji: I won't go into rhetorics with u cos its obvious that's wot u want to reduce this discourse to. You made sense initially cos u held ur own but u are tired now. U did ur best.

santity100: Why are we all trading blames with this Chime and Clara Issue ?

Firstly, the woman complained to the public that she is locked up by her husband. Femi Falana and the human rights org started investigating.

The Governor did a press briefing where he has accepted that she was locked up due to her health status (Mental) as recommended by her doctors. He also said she was taken to different countries for treatment and a UK doctor is monitoring her condition.

Still yet the public is still blaming him for locking up the woman.

He then sent the woman to her parent due to public outcry.

The woman is having mental issues.

How is he at fault ? How is he cruel ?

From her parent house, she can start divorce process, if she wants to.

I tire o

yinchar: I cant just hide my anger at the way some people are spewing rubbish here, come to think of it, we are talking about wife he married and claimed to love whole-heatedly, when chime was sick, was he locked inside the government house, the woman is sick for crying out loud the best he could do as the husband is to allow this woman to go to UK and be treated in a world class hospital, he has the money for GOD sake, I dont know the kind of love that exist in that part of the country , the mother of your children for crying out loud, am even thinking, only God knows maybe he's (Chime) the one behind this woman travails, people can do anything so get power at all cost (including jazz)...

repogirl: Frankychiji, your post is too long, lemm
e summarize, there is much more going on here than meets the eye....its not for me or you to deduce... I see you making assumptions and speaking on behalf of them..... How did you come about all these baseless assumptions, do you live with the couple?..... Oh I'm sorry, it must be from your vast pool of ideologies, I base my own theories from facts I've read.....not hearsay and rumours.

Fact is her rights are being infringed upon, do you expect a mentally unstable person hold a job, more so when she is under lock and key? Its not about being an airhead or anything, a man should cater to his wife's need not lock her up and neglect her, more so a sick one.

The only point I agree with is she should leave (as i stated in my first post) I guess she's scared to be alone, sick, with no money, plus other threats from the husband we wouldn't know about.

I'm no feminist, I just don't get the workings of some men's brains.... Mrs chime might not be a saint but no woman should be treated unjustly.

ashley dav: .....

santity100: How is she being treated unjustly ?

She is having mental problems, don't you understand the meaning of mental ni ? She was lock up in a room with doctors monitoring her OR do you want him to take her to Psycho home ?

He granted a press briefing and told us his reasons, still people like you were still ranting..

And he sent her to her parent ..

What do you want him to do ?

They should be living together so that one night, she will strangle him to death abi ?

Na madness we dey talk o, no be typhoid or hiv or malaria ..

I wonder what you would have done if you were Chime ...

santity100: How is she being treated unjustly ?

She is having mental problems, don't you understand the meaning of mental ni ? She was lock up in a room with doctors monitoring her OR do you want him to take her to Psycho home ?

He granted a press briefing and told us his reasons, still people like you were still ranting..

And he sent her to her parent ..

What do you want him to do ?

They should be living together so that one night, she will strangle him to death abi ?

Na madness we dey talk o, no be typhoid or hiv or malaria ..

I wonder what you would have done if you were Chime ...