Yes. All things are workable.

Events control your conscience, you truly cannot manipulate it. Make hay while the sun shines!!!!!

I don't even have an elder brother, so be rest assured you are coming under my scrutiny first. Wink

And personally I don't like shit, if I see you are one, TO THE LEFT!!!! Wink Wink

I expect my brother to do the same for me, if I find myself in such an entrapment.

Is it me you are referring as an "entrapment"?

@RedHot
abeg help me as them o
wetin den dey use d money for

redhotchick,its best you allow them grow and discover things by them selves, so that way they dont blame you for any mistakes later. thats what i do sha, i even encourage every move they make by acting dumb.

RedHotChic:

Is it me you are referring as an "entrapment"?

Who else was I talking to?

redhotchick,its best you allow them grow and discover things by them selves, so that way they don't blame you for any mistakes later. thats what i do sha, i even encourage every move they make by acting dumb.

You can do that with boys but allowing a girl that is that careless may ruin her life. She may get knocked up 5 times before she learns from her mistake.

RedHotChic:

Ladies:
You have a younger or elder brother that cannot hold a chic, he's a dork and most women tend to use and dump him. What do you do? Meddle in his business by scrutinizing the ladies that come into his life? coach him on how to deal with fellow women or allow him to wallow in self pity?

OR

He just can't get a woman for himself. Will you help him trap a sister or coach him on how to trap one?
Guys:

Your sister tend to be a national cake for guys(so you heard). She's always heart broken and has been knocked up once. What do you do next time you see her hanging around another  "Hanniballike" man or any man at all? Will you become overbearing even when she made it clear to you to mind your business or will you help her sort out the ship from the wolves?

lmao. Some of these guys don see stars for your pen hand.

I almost fell off my chair laughing at the pickup lines thread. That stuff you posted should have been in the literature section, for real. lol.

I will help my siblings o, advise them and push them in the right way

RedHotChic:

Events control your conscience, you truly cannot manipulate it. Make hay while the sun shines!!!!!

You can control those events that control your conscience.  I must admit, I was a bit hesitant about it at first.  Later on I realized just how much of an abundant blessing it can be to have a woman shower you with such riches.
Psp , ps3, clothes, iphone, ipod, ah ahn i no fit talk.

Maybe she just appreciates what you're doing for her and it's her way of paying you back.  

RedHotChic:

You can do that with boys but allowing a girl that is that careless may ruin her life. She may get knocked up 5 times before she learns from her mistake.

you can do all the scrutinizing and match making,and she still gets knocked 5 times and gets dump, i just think it takes a reasonable girl to avoid somthing like that. and know the moment you start interfering too much, they hide things from u and thats how they get into more trouble with the wrong guys.

and i dnt agree that guys are exempted fron all the pains and heartaches, they are as much victims as the girls.

I will help my siblings o, advise them and push them in the right way

What is this right way sef? can you tell me how you'll advise your brother towards the right way if he had 5 girlfriends already in 2008 alone and they end up dumping him after weeks of spending his money on shopping trips to tinapa and abroad?

Also, how will you lead your sister thr right way if guys keep sleeping with her and running away after she falls in love with them? Tell her to close her legs permanently? That may also scare some guys away from her.


What if you discover later that your sister is the one doing the hit and run while thinking it's fun?

@RedHot
abeg help me as them o
wetin den dey use d money for?

Don't mind them. Pataki and Co wants women to be paying for their viagra. I think the problem is that men nowadays are no more ashamed of themselves? What happened to their ego? During our fathers era, it was an abomination for a man to take any financial favor from a woman and that's why men those days worked harder than these loose canons we have lying around our couches these days.

RedHotChic:

What is this right way sef? can you tell me how you'll advise your brother towards the right way if he had 5 girlfriends already in 2008 alone and they end up dumping him after weeks of spending his money on shopping trips to tinapa and abroad?

Also, how will you lead your sister thr right way if guys keep sleeping with her and running away after she falls in love with them? Tell her to close her legs permanently? That may also scare some guys away from her.

My brother? I would tell him that not all girls are like that and to keep his head up, tell him to take a break for some time untill he gets into another relationship and that he will surely find the right girl one day

My sister? CHEII, my sister o, i will first tell her that it would have been right for her to have waited for marriage to have sex, I will then also tell her to watch out for certain men etc although they are not all the same, she should also keep her head as she will also find the right guy one day

Sex before marriage? Jeeeeez  

RedHotChic:

Don't mind them. Pataki and Co wants women to be paying for their viagra. I think the problem is that men nowadays are no more ashamed of themselves? What happened to their ego? During our fathers era, it was an abomination for a man to take any financial favor from a woman and that's why men those days worked harder than these loose canons we have lying around our couches these days.

Pataki ask women for money? Are you drunk?

Just because your boo ask for pecuniary assistance from you to buy viagra to service you every weekend, does not mean every other guy is like that. And by the way, what makes it morally right for a woman to ask a man for money? I find it disgusting when women behave in such manner.

In the meanwhile, are you still interested in my old laptop? I am thinking of flushing it off on e-bay

Thank goodness all my siblings are very well ok not come sitting at the lap of one silly boy or girl asking for one thing or the other.

Absolute rubbish.

Pataki ask women for money? Huh Are you drunk?

Don't deny it abeg. Ask and you shall receive, Hannibal and Eldee your pals do it all the time. I wonder why they say that birds of the same plumage flock together and you are here denying the fact that it's only Hannibal, Eldee and sly that collect money from women to buy viagra.

My sister? CHEII, my sister o, i will first tell her that it would have been right for her to have waited for marriage to have sex[b], I will then also tell her to watch out for certain men etc although they are not all the same, she should also keep her head as she will also find the right guy one[/b] day

Do you really think that if you see hannibal or Eldee, they'll write loser on their forehead? assuming your sister is weak and falls for guys with old tired lines, don't you think it's time to use physical force and emanicipate her from those men unless you crave for another niece or nephew?

I hate people sticking their eyes in my business and i personally won't like to do thesame.
However,in this case,i will just talk to him and try to see what the problem is and how i can help provided he wants my help.I won't go about chasing his/her partners away cuz they might not be the problem.

Yes. I will. Simple as that.

i can only interfere when i see him treating her bad. for example my younger sister had this controling boyfriend who always wanted to know where she was and if she was cheating on him. i remember one day we went shopping for xmas gift for my dad and we were in a men suit store when her bf called and she told him where she was, he was shouting at her saying she is buying a gift for another man, i collected the phone and told him not to call my sister again and hung up. i will hate for my sister to end up with a controlling man. but anyway i talked my sister into dumping him, which she did and has now found someone better, but her ex keeps calling her.

but anyway i talked my sister into dumping him, which she did and has now found someone better, but her ex keeps calling her

Can your sister also talk you into dumping your bobo? What about your brother/s? Will you talk him into dumping a girlfriend that is sucking him dry like a leech both sexually and materially?