Most guys want to impress a girl, but tend
to go at it from all the wrong angles.
Instead of impressing her, they end up
turning her off. There are a few tips that you can use
to get a girl to look your way more often.


Part One: Let Your Personality Shine
Impress her with your
personality . Having a great
personality and being easy to
relate to is an important part of
getting a girl to like you. Let's face
it: Girls look for different things in
guys than guys look for in girls. So
let the great parts of your
personality shine through to her,
and work on fixing the parts of
your personality that you don't
like.
Be funny. Girls love funny guys.
If you can make a girl laugh,
then you have a good shot at
making her fall in love with you.
Practice jokes on your friends
(guy-friends and girl-friends,
because there's a difference of
what they find funny) and keep
the jokes that work and throw
away the jokes that don't.
Be playful. Studies have found
that girls are attracted to guys
who are playful.1 Being playful
is attractive because it shows
youthfulness and the ability to
have fun. So find your inner
child, throw away all the ideas
about what you think you
should and shouldn't do, and
play around, especially when
you're with her.
Be interesting. Girls like guys
who have interesting lives, and
who do cool things for fun. As
long as you're passionate about
something, and you get
involved in doing that or
learning about it, you'll be more
attractive in her eyes. No girl
just wants to sit around and
watch you play video games all
day.
Be mysterious. A little mystery
goes a long way. Don't let her in
on every little thing you're
doing. Hint more than you
usually do, and downplay things
instead of being really excited.
Mystery will make you a puzzle
in her book, and she'll want to
solve you.
Be charming. Guys can turn on the
charm when girls are around and
then turn it off when they're not
around. Don't do this. Instead,
focus on being charming all the
time, and you won't have to worry
about being two different people
to guys and girls. Plus, more guys
will probably want to be friends
with you because they like your
personality.
Have great conversations with
her. You don't have to talk
about books or high-culture or
any of that stuff. All it takes is
getting an opportunity to talk
with her and running with it.
Once you have that chance to
talk to her, ask her good
questions, and listen to what
she says.
Questions you can ask her
are: "Where did you grow
up?" "What do you want to
do when you grow up?"
"What do your parents do for
a living?" "Do you have any
brothers or sisters?" or "Have
you traveled anywhere
interesting," to name a few.
Find a way to compliment her.
Don't compliment her all the
time, because it will become
obvious that you're really into
her. But try to give her at least
one nice compliment. If it's
done in the right way, it's
guaranteed that she'll
remember the compliment, and
remember you as well.
If you're really confident, give
her a compliment about her
looks, like "Your eyes are a
pretty color green," or "Your
hairstyle makes you look
really pretty."
If you're a little nervous
about complimenting her, say
something like "I really like
how you stick up for people,"
or "You're really smart;
where did you learn all of
that?"
Find out what you're smart at.
Girls like guys who are smart.
That doesn't mean you have to
be Einstein to get a girl, but it
does mean that you have to be
smart about something. Find
out what you're smart about.
Maybe it's sports, maybe it's
stock car racing, maybe it's
American History. Be proud of
what you're smart about and
don't be afraid of hiding it.
Make friends. Making friends is a
social sign that you have a lot to
offer, and that people generally
like you. If you don't have too
many friends and don't want to
make more, that's fine. But if
you're a social guy and you enjoy
the company of others, put
yourself out there and start
making friends. She'll see the
attention you're getting from
other people and wonder what
she's missing.
Make friends with cool girls,
especially. If you make friends
with other girls, that tells her
that she can trust you because
other girls trust you. Pretty
soon, you'll grow more
comfortable around them.
Making friends with girls is
especially smart because you
might hear information about
her — what she likes, what she
doesn't like, who she's
interested in — that could be
valuable later on.
Be the guy who everyone wants
to be around. Be an all-around
guy. Be able to talk to the goths,
jocks, popular kids, geeks, and
everyone else. She will feel way
more comfortable around you
knowing that you are cool with
everyone you know, instead of
being the lonely guy in the back
of the classroom.

Part Two: Pay Attention to Your Looks
Make sure you're clean and put-
together . Girls, for the most part,
like guys who are clean, smell
good, and aren't constantly
sweating. Guys, for the most part,
don't care about these things as
much. So, listen up, guys: If you
want to impress a girl, you're
going to have to pay attention to
how clean you are.
Shower every day. Make sure
you hop in the shower or take a
bath every day. If you play
sports after school, you may
want to shower in the
nighttime, after you come home
from practice. Shampoo your
hair every other day. If you're
smelling clean and natural, girls
will be more comfortable
coming close to you and even
hugging you.
Wash your face in the morning
and at night. Some guys get
acne or pimples as they get
older and their bodies start to
change. The treatment for acne
is to wash your face gently,
twice a day, and get topical
(meaning: something you put
on top of) creams that you put
on your pimples right before
going to sleep. If you start to
have serious problems with
pimples, see a doctor. But if
your face is looking nice and
spot-free, girls will see how
handsome you are without
anything distracting them.
Wear deodorant, not cologne.
Cologne is mostly for grown
ups, and cheap cologne doesn't
really smell that good. For boys,
a nice, simple deodorant will do.
You don't have to smell really
good; you just have to not smell
bad. Remember that
deodorants that have a strong
smell will start to smell different
once they mix with your sweat.
Have good style. Clothes can be
expensive, and buying them can
be a hassle. But even if you don't
have a lot of money to spend on
clothes, you can still take care to
look your best. Style isn't about
money at all. Style is about
working well with what you
already have.
Wear nice clothes. Not just
around her, but also when you
leave the house. If your clothes
have a bunch of holes in them,
or are dirty, or don't really fit
you, chances are she's going to
notice you...in a bad way. If you
can, impress her with the
clothes you wear. If you can't
afford new clothes, don't worry:
if you have a great personality
and you're really sweet to her,
this step won't matter.
Stick with basic, classic clothes
instead of flashy and fancy.
There's a time and a place for
fancy, and unless you've already
graduated college, you don't
have to worry about it yet. You
don't need to wear loud button-
up shirts that have a bunch of
logos on them to impress a girl.
Girls like classic clothes, like a
good pair of jeans, a nice, form-
fitting t-shirt, and a matching
sweater. Don't try to blow her
away with your clothes; try to
blow her away with your
charm, your humor, and your
interest in her.
Be consistent. If you're going
for a certain look, be consistent
about it. It's not wrong to wear
really preppy clothes one day
and punk clothes the next, but
it's jarring, and you're sending
mixed messages. Stick to one
style and own it.

Though what you said is true I think the cliche of BE YOURSELF is colossal. If I cant impress being myself then I can't being what am not and if you are obsessed with her you stand the risk of her faking her love cos of what she stands to gain...what is yours will always be yours even if you dont care but what is not yours can NEVER be yours no matter how hard you try.

I don't believe in impressing a lady!

Part Three: Get Close to Her
Start talking with her and being around
her . In order for this special girl to be
impressed by you, she has to notice you. Your
connection with her doesn't have to happen
right away, so don't do anything really dramatic
like fight someone just to get her attention. It
will probably take some time for her to get
really comfortable around you, so put your head
down and don't get sad if you don't see
immediate results.
Make eye contact with her. Eye contact is
really important. Don't look away while
talking to her, because it shows that
you're not confident. Look into her eyes at
the right moment and keep them there for
a little while. Don't be afraid to show her
that she makes you want to look at her. If
you find her looking at you in class, try not
to be the one who looks away first.
Stick up for her. If she's getting teased by
another girl, or she happens to be in a
fight, come to her side. Even if it's just
another person badmouthing her while
she's not there, stick up for her. When she
sees that you're there to stick up for her,
or when she hears that you've defended
her, her heart will go out to you. Don't make
her guess whether you're on her side;
show her you're on her side.
Have natural conversations with her.
Talking to her will give her a chance to see
all of what you offer: how charming you
are, how funny you are, how well you
listen, how good you look up close, and
how warm of a person you are. Show her
all of these qualities.
Try not to be nervous when you talk to
her. If you're nervous, remember a time in
the past when you were nervous about
something, and think, "Am I nervous about
that now?" You're probably not. And if
you're not nervous about that thing now,
you're probably not going to be nervous
about talking to her in the future. So why
should you be nervous now?
Do fun things together. Even if it's not 1-
on-1, being with her in a fun environment will
help you bond closer together. If you don't think
she's comfortable doing stuff with just you,
then get a group together and invite her along.
Make sure you two share some great moments
together; at the very least, it will give you
something to talk about with her.
Try do to something exciting, scary, or
completely new with her. Doing something
that raises your heart-rate (something
scary or exciting) is known to release a
chemical in people's brain that helps bond
them together. That's why haunted
houses, roller coasters, and scary movies
are such great ideas for a date.
Summer is a great opportunity to get close
to her. Popular things to do in the summer
include: going to the beach, going to outdoor
movies, going to amusement parks, going on
camping trips, and simply hanging out with
friends. You don't really need an excuse to
just hang out during summer. Ask your
friend to plan a pool party and invite her,
or schedule a 4th of July party and ask
your parents permission to invite friends.
Find out what you both have in common. A
great way to find out whether you two
have stuff in common is just to ask her
what she likes, or what she likes doing. If
you're not comfortable asking her, try to
find out from friends what she enjoys
doing. Maybe you both like going
wakeboarding, and you're the only people
in your class who know how to
wakeboard. Well, that would be an
awesome opportunity for you to get
closer to you because you'd have a good
excuse..

E.M.Ezzy:
Though what you said is true I think the cliche of BE YOURSELF is colossal. If I cant impress being myself then I can't being what am not and if you are obsessed with her you stand the risk of her faking her love cos of what she stands to gain...what is yours will always be yours even if you dont care but what is not yours can NEVER be yours no matter how hard you try.

Yeah. Most importantly, you must be yourself.



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Tolexander: I don't believe in impressing a lady!

Every gentleman must impress his lady bro.



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Part 4: Asking Her Out On A Date
Ask her out. You've finally gotten to the last
step. You've figured out a little about what she
likes, you've gotten to talk to her a little bit,
and maybe you've even impressed her by
dressing well and sticking up for her when she
needs it most. Now, all you have to do is ask
her out on a date.
You don't have to call it a "date." Lots of
guys make the mistake of specifically
asking the girl if she wants to go on a date
with them. This isn't bad, but it's not the
way to get a date. Don't ask for a date.
The wrong way to ask: "Hey,
would you want to go on a movie-date
with me next weekend?" She might be
a little put off that you're asking her
on a date.
The right way to ask: "Hey, I got
two tickets to that movie that we
were talking about last week, would
you want to go with me?" If she asks
you whether it's a date, then you can
say "yes." You'll have a lot more
success asking for a date if you don't
call it a date.
If she says she doesn't want to go, then
swallow your pride, smile, and say "I
understand," before walking away. Don't
let her see that it affects you. You can
always try to go after her again sometime
down the road. Or you can stay friends
with her and show her what she's missing.
Regardless, you want to try to stay
strong, even if you're boiling up inside.
If she says yes, then lucky you! All your
hard work has paid off. And if she's not
completely obsessed with you already,
she's probably pretty eager to get to
know you. The hardest part is over. Tell
her: "Cool. I'll call you tomorrow about the
movie," give her a quick smile and walk
away.
Play it cool on the date. So you got your
date. Maybe you're at the movies, or you're
walking down the beach with your surfboards.
Here are a few tips to make sure the date
goes exactly as planned.
Be yourself. Don't try to be someone else
when you ask her on the date, or during
the date. Be comfortable with and
confident in who you are, because it's
gotten you this far already. It's much
better to feel natural but maybe a little
nervous (nerves are OK, trust us) than it is
to feel like you're trying to impersonate
someone else. That won't feel natural.
Make her feel comfortable around you.
Don't try to pull any funny stuff or make
any moves in the beginning. Smile, be
gentlemanly, and develop good
conversation. (Ask a lot of questions!)
Savor every minute of it, because it will fly
by. Above all, be respectful of her. She'll
appreciate this a lot because not every
guy will be respectful. But you will.
When you're close to her, slowly break the
touch barrier. What this means is that you
should begin to touch her on socially
appropriate places, like her back or her
arm, in certain situations. This will help her
bond with you. Getting used to making
contact with her will help you become
more intimate with her as you continue the
beginning of the relationship.
You can touch her lightly on the back
shoulder when you're giving her a
compliment. Or when you're making a
point about her, you can lightly tap her
hand.
When you're ready, usually at the end of
the date, say "I like you." Tell her that
you've liked her for a long time, and that
she makes you feel more alive than any
other person can. Tell her how she makes
you feel, but keep it short. If she doesn't
say anything, then switch the subject. You
can ask her out again at the end of the
night to see how she feels about you. If
she explains that she doesn't like you, then
respect her decision and try to move on. If
she smiles, giggles, plays with her hair, or
says "I like you too," you know you're living
the good life!.

Atleast y'all should comment a lil" na



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Tiyazman: Atleast y'all should comment a lil" na



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Why?

Mehn long story

xynerise:
Why?

Make e no be like say I carry last



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Dannylux: Mehn long story

Read it and you will thank me later



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Bro....make e no b say me sef no comment afta readn it





U try small,who write am sef??

Tolexander: I don't believe in impressing a lady!

Why ? I'm curious. In part because I think a good impression counts but one should overpush it.

Tiyazman: Read it and you will thank me later



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*asks in Riley Freeman's voice* Nigger you gay ?

source ?

all these epistles! Mehn!! just because of kpekus!