I had issues with my gf so I gave my friend her number to talk to her, after we settled our issues he saved her number and started making advances at her, he even went ahead to ask her out on a date, my gf told me I wasn't happy with my friend when I confronted him he said he is sorry, now each time I mention my best friend's name my gf becomes angry and claim I don't love her since I don't get jealous each time I see her with someone else. I can't stop my friendship with my friend cuz he's my childhood friend, also I don't want to lose her am in a dilemma what do I do?

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Donalð Genes:

wait for me

lol say something jor

Donalð Genes:

wait for me

*pulls out her heels,and runs after them screaming,"wait for me,you guys left me behind"

lynpetra: *pulls out her heels,and runs after them screaming,"wait for me,you guys left me behind"

wetin you qo see, no shout out

Emeralddeee: lol say something jor

You really want my honest opinion, i think if i were you, pretend like you don't kiaaaa what they both doing, believe me, she will see her mistakes, just do your normal thing, ignore her flirtatious advances with your best friend......it won't last longer..that's what i do to some of my ex. anyway not like this, some of them can't even think of flirting behind my back..they know me well, if i wanna break up, i simple stop calling evevn for many months, years, that's me

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U forgot ur boxer

Donalð Genes:

You really want my honest opinion, i think if i were you, pretend like you don't kiaaaa what they both doing, believe me, she will see her mistakes, just do your normal thing, ignore her flirtatious advances with your best friend......it won't last longer..that's what i do to some of my ex. anyway not like this, some of them can't even think of flirting behind my back..they know me well, if i wanna break up, i simple stop calling evevn for many months, years, that's me

thanks bro. But that's not the issue the issue here is that when he asked her out she declined, but she thinks he is not a good friend and she feels I should have taken action when I heard what my friend did.

Donalð Genes:

You really want my honest opinion, i think if i were you, pretend like you don't kiaaaa what they both doing, believe me, she will see her mistakes, just do your normal thing, ignore her flirtatious advances with your best friend......it won't last longer..that's what i do to some of my ex. anyway not like this, some of them can't even think of flirting behind my back..they know me well, if i wanna break up, i simple stop calling evevn for many months, years, that's me

so now d girl is to be blamed? wat made u fink d girl was flirtin wit his bestfrnd for him to av asked her out. read d op's post again abeg

Emeralddeee: thanks bro. But that's not the issue the issue here is that when he asked her out she declined, but she thinks he is not a good friend and she feels I should have taken action when I heard what my friend did.

Girls will always come and go but a very good friend would outlive a relationship ....all left to you to decide if your friend can really be classified as a 'very' good friend and if your relationship is worth sacrificing to still keep such friendship.

My opinion here is that a 'very good friend' would not attempt going out with his/her friend's girl or boy ...do the math here!

Emeralddeee: thanks bro. But that's not the issue the issue here is that when he asked her out she declined, but she thinks he is not a good friend and she feels I should have taken action when I heard what my friend did.

Exactly....my question is which action did u take wen she told u?

Dat ur friend fit straff ur wife.

Pweedylipsmoi:
Exactly....my question is which action did u take wen she told u?

I confronted him he admitted it and apologised.

bigtt76:

Girls will always come and go but a very good friend would outlive a relationship ....all left to you to decide if your friend can really be classified as a 'very' good friend and if your relationship is worth sacrificing to still keep such friendship.

My opinion here is that a 'very good friend' would not attempt going out with his/her friend's girl or boy ...do the math here!

we've been through a lot together so I don't want to lose her I don't know what she expects me to do, he is my good friend his only weakness are ladies.

Emeralddeee: I confronted him he admitted it and apologised.

To me, any frnd who can ask ur gf out ain't a good or worthy frnd.....well, since u cant let go of one for the other, i think u should sit both of them down nd tell dem how u feel, we all know communication is d key in relationships nd make ur gf feel she is worthy enuf, of course most girls wants a guy dat will fight 4 her and get jealous or worked up￴ wen anoda guy admires her or askes her out.

why not? the Op is capable of asking his pregnant friend's wife to bed....cos birds of a feather flock together! So why bother about a mere asking his gf out?

Pweedylipsmoi:
to me, any frnd who can ask ur gf out ain't a good or worthy frnd.....well, since

Mehn Op seriously you are screwed, if that's your best friend i don't want to imagine who your enemy is .

Pweedylipsmoi:
To me, any frnd who can ask ur gf out ain't a good or worthy frnd.....well, since u cant let go of one for the other, i think u should sit both of them down nd tell dem how u feel, we all know communication is d key in relationships nd make ur gf feel she is worthy enuf, of course most girls wants a guy dat will fight 4 her and get jealous or worked up￴ wen anoda guy admires her or askes her out.

you see that's the problem I hardly get jealous it has been an issue between us, she feels cuz I hardly get jealous am not so into her.

bigtt76:
Girls will always come and go but a very good friend would outlive a relationship ....all left to you to decide if your friend can really be classified as a 'very' good friend and if your relationship is worth sacrificing to still keep such friendship.

My opinion here is that a 'very good friend' would not attempt going out with his/her friend's girl or boy ...do the math here!

I don't think the Op can't do the maths on his own. That's why he's asking us.
Last Bullet:
Op, a friend that once asked your gf out has lost a larger % of his credibility.
Talk to your gf that she should forgive him & move on with your relationship. But that friend of yours, beware of him. He may backbite u in biz or with your gf/wife in future.

Emeralddeee: you see that's the problem I hardly get jealous it has been an issue between us, she feels cuz I hardly get jealous am not so into her.

I don't either but I fake it,not because I don't care too much issues on my head to be jealous about someone. I feel ya but just act it.

njuwo: U forgot ur boxer

shabi na him own,how e take affect yu...

pc guru:
I don't either but I fake it,not because I don't care too much issues on my head to be jealous about someone. I feel ya but just act it.

alright thanks buddy

Emeralddeee: I had issues with my gf so I gave my friend her number to talk to her, after we settled our issues he saved her number and started making advances at her, he even went ahead to ask her out on a date, my gf told me I wasn't happy with my friend when I confronted him he said he is sorry, now each time I mention my best friend's name my gf becomes angry and claim I don't love her since I don't get jealous each time I see her with someone else. I can't stop my friendship with my friend cuz he's my childhood friend, also I don't want to lose her am in a dilemma what do I do?

Dude ets no biggie.. Et has happened to me before.. Jst pray dt ur gf is wise enuf to ignore his advances and dt she doesn't dump ur ass for him.. I dnt blame ur bestfrnd though (I feel he wants to c if he could get lucky wif ur babe) .. Most guys r guilty of this crime shikena!

Say wat??!!!!!!!!......so guys nw fake jealousy.......d world is cuming 2 an end I swear

iamyet: Say wat??!!!!!!!!......so guys nw fake jealousy.......d world is cuming 2 an end I swear

lol, in a situation where you have a gf who thinks you don't love her cuz you ain't jealous what do you do

what is there?
Me and one of my friend been dey nak one akpako together until him travel go obodo oyibo,
even if we go club na one babe two of us they carry go house, i just dey miss those days
Op dont allow any girl to come between you and your guy, cos when the chips are down she will dump your sorry ass for another guy.

iamyet: Say wat??!!!!!!!!......so guys nw fake jealousy.......d world is cuming 2 an end I swear

its your world that is coming to an end not mine

I personally think you should demote that best friend of ur's to just friend and then subsequently make him a stranger cause he is no good to you.

Op,u are dead already!! Keep dat ur friend.... fast forward to future, ur so called childhood friend will sleep with ur wife...use ur brain and flee frm him....pls....

Tritte: shabi na him own,how e take affect yu...

U wan make dem rape am?