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6 Ways To Tell Your Parents About Him. by simdam500(m): 8:02am On Nov 28, 2013 |
It is not always an easy task to tell your parents about the person you are seeing. And introducing him to your parents can be nerve wrecking for more than one reason. Before you even go into introducing him, you need to settle the conflict within you to see if he is serious about you that he’d be ok being introduced. And more importantly you need to ask yourself if you think he is that important in your life that you would want him to be part of your family. And when you do introduce him finally after much deliberation you would keep wondering nervously and hoping that your parents would like him. It is always difficult to choose between your parents and your boyfriend, so it’s important that the way you introduce him is good and goes on smoothly. Here are a few ways you can tell your parents about him. 1. Take him home for dinner and make the introductions This is the most simple and the most straightforward way. There is a chance that this may backfire as they may not like him, but it is also a great way as you can get it over with instead of thinking too much about it. 2. You can pass along the message through your siblings You can either ask your siblings to do it for you or if they are not that type, you just tell them about your guy. They will surely let your parents know the next time they see them that you are going out with someone. 3. Telling them when they are in a good mood Catch them in a good mood or when they are doing something that they really like. They wouldn’t want to spoil their fun so they would at the least listen to what you have to say and even agree to see him immediately. 4. Drop a few hints Drop a few hints to let them know that you do other things apart from your routine. Like when they call you can tell them that you are with a friend instead of mentioning him by name. create the mystery factor so that they won’t be too shocked when you tell them that you are seeing him. 5. Tell your grandparents No matter how old they are, your parents would still listen to your grandparents. And if you are close to your grandparents, you can pass it along to your parents through them. 6. Write to them If you are shy or scared to tell your parents, go the old fashioned way and write a letter or send an email to let them know that there is someone in your life. The truth is that it works for the best when you do it directly. When you have decided that he is the one who you are serious about, you should have the guts to take him home and introduce him to your parents. You stand by what you believe in and tell them straight away that you are seeing him. http://www.magforwomen.com/ways-to-tell-your-parents-about-him/ 2 Likes |
Re: 6 Ways To Tell Your Parents About Him. by braine(m): 8:32am On Nov 28, 2013 |
I don't think its that easy |
Re: 6 Ways To Tell Your Parents About Him. by simdam500(m): 9:22am On Nov 30, 2013 |
braine: I don't think its that easyreally? It just depend on our parent... Some are actually harsh dat dere children cant share wat they're goin through with dem |
Re: 6 Ways To Tell Your Parents About Him. by Uniquexty(f): 10:07am On Nov 30, 2013 |
I think i will tell grandma |
Re: 6 Ways To Tell Your Parents About Him. by simdam500(m): 11:07pm On Nov 30, 2013 |
Uniquexty: I think i will tell grandmaand i think dat anoda cool step to take... Did u spend ur childhood wit ur grandma |
Re: 6 Ways To Tell Your Parents About Him. by Uniquexty(f): 12:59am On Dec 01, 2013 |
simdam500: and i think dat anoda cool step to take...nah buh i am her girl. we rub minds |
Re: 6 Ways To Tell Your Parents About Him. by simdam500(m): 12:22am On Dec 02, 2013 |
Wel wel |
Re: 6 Ways To Tell Your Parents About Him. by Gugwana(f): 12:56am On Dec 02, 2013 |
Thats not an easy one 1st dey knew hs name but they only got to see hm when i was in my 1st trimester of pregnancy cos dey wantd t c da guy dat made m preg lol so dey askd m t bring hm home n i dd since then everythn went fine |
Re: 6 Ways To Tell Your Parents About Him. by simdam500(m): 1:15am On Dec 02, 2013 |
Gugwana: Thats not an easy one 1st dey knew hs name but they only got to see hm when i was in my 1st trimester of pregnancy cos dey wantd t c da guy dat made m preg lol so dey askd m t bring hm home n i dd since then everythn went finewow lucky u... And was it a happily ever married after Less i 4got wat u doin up dis late hour *as if am not 2b asked d same question too |
Re: 6 Ways To Tell Your Parents About Him. by Gugwana(f): 4:38pm On Dec 02, 2013 |
He paid da brides money will gt have a proper weddn afrt cos im heavily pregnant nw as hs due dis month so da rest will follow wen our bby is 3mnts old |
Re: 6 Ways To Tell Your Parents About Him. by Faith93: 5:18pm On Dec 02, 2013 |
[quote author=Gugwana]He paid da brides money will gt have a proper weddn afrt cos im heavily pregnant nw as hs due dis month so da rest will follow wen our bby is 3mnts old [/quote)oga fun e! |
Re: 6 Ways To Tell Your Parents About Him. by Jokkybabe(f): 6:23pm On Dec 02, 2013 |
Uhm...nyc idea! I tink telling grandma will do d magic 4 me. |
Re: 6 Ways To Tell Your Parents About Him. by simdam500(m): 6:46pm On Dec 02, 2013 |
these ladies and #teamtellgrandma arrgh... Jokky u self believe in grandma magic |
Re: 6 Ways To Tell Your Parents About Him. by Jokkybabe(f): 7:23pm On Dec 02, 2013 |
simdam500: these ladies and #teamtellgrandma Yes o. Na grandma magic sure pass 4 me *winkz* |
Re: 6 Ways To Tell Your Parents About Him. by simdam500(m): 10:45pm On Dec 02, 2013 |
As a big boy... I prefer d drop a few hint option |
Re: 6 Ways To Tell Your Parents About Him. by ebonysesy: 6:53pm On Dec 18, 2013 |
na wao wat of dose of us dat dt hv grandparents anymore. should we remain unmarried? |
Re: 6 Ways To Tell Your Parents About Him. by simdam500(m): 8:50pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
ebonysesy: na wao wat of dose of us dat dt hv grandparents anymore. should we remain unmarried? lady try 4 |
Re: 6 Ways To Tell Your Parents About Him. by Destinygrl(f): 9:45pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
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Re: 6 Ways To Tell Your Parents About Him. by simdam500(m): 12:13pm On Dec 31, 2013 |
Destinygrl : oh! are u in the 5. Tell your grandparentsclan too |
Re: 6 Ways To Tell Your Parents About Him. by Olugbenger(m): 1:35pm On Dec 31, 2013 |
Is it that hard? |
Re: 6 Ways To Tell Your Parents About Him. by simdam500(m): 2:29pm On Dec 31, 2013 |
Olugbenger: Is it that hard? GUy i tire o!!! Olugbenger: Is it that hard? |
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