Na wa ooh!

Just when I though I have enough issues of my own to handle,
one of my childhood friend surely blew ♍¥ mind away by his own tale.


He said that having sex with his wife is a "monitoring project" (what ever that means )
Sha, the koko is that,
she often dictates when they should have sex, with little or no input frm him.



So, no matter how hor'ny he feels, he would have to stifle it ( come to think of it, that's painful ).


Hence, whenever dey get back 4m work and she says 'dear, get ready',
he said he'll be up and doing, washing plates for her, cooking, cleaning and making sure all the house chores are done without her doing anything.., and with joy!

(I visited him on one of those days, you won't believe the son-of- ..., drove me away!)





Sha, I just want to ask, is this proper. I.e is it excusable?

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is it about what is right or about what works for you? If it works for him good, if it cant work for you no wahala, stick to what you like chikena!

Mind your own business. When you have your own wife, you can determine what happens in your own home and what is proper or not.
What is it with all these yeye men discussing their sex lives with their wives to friends sef! Abi OP are you a shrink? #rollingEyes

Mtsheeeew.

lockedOut: is it about what is right or about what works for you? If it works for him good, if it cant work for you no wahala, stick to what you like chikena!

Don't you get it ? The guy is helpless.

nat138: Mind your own business. When you have your own wife, you can determine what happens in your own home and what is proper or not.
What is it with all these yeye men discussing their sex lives with their wives to friends sef! Abi OP are you a shrink? #rollingEyes

Mtsheeeew.

I'm sorry..,




But I thought I was in Family section of NL ?!












And by the way bro, I'm married

Since the guy is complaining, its obviously not working for him, she needs counselling. I bet she is feeling in charge, she needs to realize they are actually married and not dating.

maishot: Na wa ooh!

Just when I though I have enough issues of my own to handle,
one of my childhood friend surely blew ♍¥ mind away by his own tale.


He said that having sex with his wife is a "monitoring project" (what ever that means )
Sha, the koko is that,
she often dictates when they should have sex, with little or no input frm him.



So, no matter how hor'ny he feels, he would have to stifle it ( come to think of it, that's painful ).


Hence, whenever dey get back 4m work and she says 'dear, get ready',
he said he'll be up and doing, washing plates for her, cooking, cleaning and making sure all the house chores are done without her doing anything.., and with joy!

(I visited him on one of those days, you won't believe the son-of- ..., drove me away!)





Sha, I just want to ask, is this proper. I.e is it excusable?

I laughed so hard at the highlighted I got dizzy.

Tell your friend to man up and own that pussy. What the hell! He probably doesn't even do it right. If he did, HE would be in control. *smh

fresh_dude: Tell your friend to man up and own that pussy. What the hell! He probably doesn't even do it right. If he did, HE would be in control. *smh

I feel you bro!



But how dem dey talk A̶̲̥̅♏ sef..,

















Easier said than done

First, find out if its a change of attitude from better to this worse. If yes, find out the point at which this occurred may be after birth, after getting a job or after a major incident. From that point sit your wife down and discuss the issue with her and how its affecting you.
Secondly if its not a change of attitude and perhaps she has been like this and you condoned it then, it takes the grace of God to change her. Be patient about the persuation