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How To Be A Bad Boy In 8 Easy Steps by iamdhebuck(m): 8:20pm On Nov 30, 2013
Badboys are often considered as cocky jerks.
But, they anyway seem to be a chick magnet.
Girls love this kind of men – they are
masculine, strong, confident, they are FUN. But,
remember this – being a ‘badboy’ is not the
same as being a bad guy. It’s about respecting
yourself. How to be Badboy is simply placing
your needs above her needs!
Nice guys are focused on pleasing a girl’s
needs, doing everything she wants while
forgetting their own needs. Badboys are
focused on themselves. First they satisfy their
needs and then they reward a woman (if she
behaved according to his needs and
standards).
Nice guys give everything away too easily (their
time, their respect, body, money), but how to be
Badboy is to put more of a challenge, fun, to
be interesting, full of life, a tease… Badboys are
hard to get.
But the biggest difference between those two
is :
Nice guy needs her attention, needs her, while
Badboys DO NOT NEED HER. Badboy can walk
away any moment from her and replace her
with better girl. That’s why girls are chasing
Badboys.
this is how to be Badboy : you have to
implement this things in your Game/
Personality that will make girls call you a
“Badboy”
1. Set the Boundaries/Rules of your love life.
At the moment woman crosses the border of
what’s allowed, you walk away from them
(approach another girl in front of her eyes) or
even better, kick them out from your house/
apartment. PUNISH BAD BEHAVIOR, REWARD
GOOD BEHAVIOR should be your MANTRA.
Remember : The moment you start respecting
yourself, they will start to respect you, this is
how to be Badboy
2. Be Late
This is a 180° spin from Nice guy that will
arrive earlier and wait for her. Let them wait for
you little bit. There is an psychological effect
with being late. Creating “I need him’’ frame is
what professors on Uni do all the time, they are
late on purpose for 15 min, and therefore create
“they need me” frame. Everything goes
smoother from there.2Be Non-responsive on
her tests/shit.
To be Badboy you have to be more relaxed
than she is, more in control, and when she tries
to provoke a response from you with something
like “I have a boyfriend”, just be very slow,
non-reactive, with a smile on your face and in
a 3 second delay respond with : “cool”.
3. Have a Life!
How to be Badboy is to have your life full of
hobbies, activities, interesting things you do.
Girl has to look at you like: “wow, he’s living a
life I would like to live.” + she understands your
free time is a gift to her. She has to work to get
your time. She is just one more thing you do in
your day not a hotspot of your day.
How to be Badboy – Memoirs of a Badboy
4. Be sexually open
Badboys are not hiding their sexuality. They are
very comfortable with their sexuality. If he likes
something on his girl, he will say it, or act on it.
E.g. If she has a nice ass, he will spank her
gently and whisper “yummmmmy’ to her ear.
Badboy will express his mind, he will always
tell what’s on his dirty mind . BADBOYS ARE
DIRTY!!! Girls love this, because Badboys allow
them to fulfill their dirtiest fantasies, something
they cannot do with their “normal” boyfriends
who may judge them for it.
5. Lead, Lead, Lead…
You make decisions and do not hesitate – you
know what’s good for her (and in the end, it is).
Badboys take them to places where they feel
good, comfortable… Badboys take over control
so she ends up playing his game. That’s how
to be Badboy.
6. Take the Risk!
Badboys are a risk takers, if they have to
choose between safe route and risky one, they
will choose the risky route and that makes an
ADVENTURE (even if risks are very small). This
makes a girl feeling ALIVE. It’s totally opposite
from what Nice-guys are doing with them.
7. Be Unpredictable
They love when they can’t figure you out.
Normal guys are predictable and easy to
control because of it, but with with Badboys
they have no idea what’s next, where they’re
gonna end up, where he’s going to take her.
That makes things so much more interesting
for a woman. If she thinks you will take her for
a dinner, you take her to Zoo, and other way
around…How to be badboy is to be
unpredictable, have fun with them.
-Make her buy you things
Instead of spending money on her, flip the
table.. and make her spend money on you. Not
each time, but from time to time show up
without wallet on date ( promisse you wil pay
next time hehe), or explain her that you expect
from her to take you out somewhere
.
8. and the Most Important, Keep the Nice-guy
in you.
Every Badboy has a soft, nice side, but he’s
hiding it. She has to deserve to see it, to
experience it, its a reward.
-Focus on Yourself / be selfish
this is an core of Being an Badboy – this is
how to be Badboy Nice guys focus hardcore of
girls pleasure and make sure she is happy,
and satisfied, which girls found : Boring
So instead of trying just like any other guy
to satisfy her ass, you flip the table. Example.
You go on date where you want to go, not
where she would like to go. You wanna see
some cool movie in cinema, you take her there
to see movie YOU would like to see, not what
she would like to see! In your life
your happiness is way more important then
hers. You infront of her. Your needs infront of
hers. ( until you move to relationship) then
things will change. This is the core of how to
be Badboy. Practice it!

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Re: How To Be A Bad Boy In 8 Easy Steps by sainty2k3(m): 8:28pm On Nov 30, 2013
Good job OP, occasionally I activate the Badboy mode to achieve some things, it's been working realy cheesy wink
Re: How To Be A Bad Boy In 8 Easy Steps by iamdhebuck(m): 8:31pm On Nov 30, 2013
sainty2k3: Good job OP, occasionally I activate the Badboy mode to achieve some things, it's been working realy cheesy wink
never forget that part that says 'dont give cash away too easily'
many guys mess up in that area,if u talk to them bout it they say ure a broke niccur
Re: How To Be A Bad Boy In 8 Easy Steps by sEGXY2(m): 9:05pm On Nov 30, 2013
This is so coool! Bad boy mode activated
Re: How To Be A Bad Boy In 8 Easy Steps by Stillstan(m): 10:59pm On Nov 30, 2013
Ladies are In trouble...lol, good work op!
Re: How To Be A Bad Boy In 8 Easy Steps by Nobody: 11:01pm On Nov 30, 2013
mtcheww

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Re: How To Be A Bad Boy In 8 Easy Steps by omiata(m): 3:04am On Dec 01, 2013
^^^^^^
grin grin grin exposed... Bad market..
Re: How To Be A Bad Boy In 8 Easy Steps by iamdhebuck(m): 8:35am On Dec 01, 2013
Lol @ d lady
Re: How To Be A Bad Boy In 8 Easy Steps by Nobody: 8:44am On Dec 01, 2013
I didn't bother to read every single line but I think that some of the advice is rubbish!

Be late
If you don't come on time and don't call me, I'll wait .... one time, two times .... maybe even a third time. But my patience is not unlimited. The fourth time, make sure you have a spare date wink

Let her spend money on you but don't spend money on her?
Isn't a relationship all about giving AND taking? Am I your fada or your momma to buy you things? Do you think women are so stupid to waste their money on someone who uses them? If they are smart enough to make money, they are smart enough not to waste it. If they are stup.id, they very likely don't have money.

Last but not least,

I'm tired of this bad vs. good guy debates. Life is not only black or white, there are shades of grey too.

To conclude: You don't have to be an azz to be attractive. cool

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Re: How To Be A Bad Boy In 8 Easy Steps by kel4soft: 9:05am On Dec 01, 2013
I have thrown my nice boy altitude a long time ago.

Badboy here I come! Thank you OP.
Re: How To Be A Bad Boy In 8 Easy Steps by iamdhebuck(m): 9:06am On Dec 01, 2013
carefreewannabe: I didn't bother to read every single line but I think that some of the advice is rubbish!

Be late
If you don't come on time and don't call me, I'll wait .... one time, two times .... maybe even a third time. But my patience is not unlimited. The fourth time, make sure you have a spare date wink

Let her spend money on you but don't spend money on her?
Isn't a relationship all about giving AND taking? Am I your fada or your momma to buy you things? Do you think women are so stupid to waste their money on someone who uses them? If they are smart enough to make money, they are smart enough not to waste it. If they are stup.id, they very likely don't have money.

Last but not least,

I'm tired of this bad vs. good guy debates. Life is not only black or white, there are shades of grey too.

To conclude: You don't have to be an azz to be attractive. cool
u think its rubbish?
bad boys don't care bout anyones opinion.
Re: How To Be A Bad Boy In 8 Easy Steps by Nobody: 9:09am On Dec 01, 2013
iamdhebuck:
u think its rubbish?
bad boys don't care bout anyones opinion.

Narrow-minded people don't do either wink
Re: How To Be A Bad Boy In 8 Easy Steps by iamdhebuck(m): 9:29am On Dec 01, 2013
carefreewannabe:

Narrow-minded people don't do either wink

my mind is like broadway
Re: How To Be A Bad Boy In 8 Easy Steps by Nobody: 10:11am On Dec 01, 2013
iamdhebuck:
my mind is like broadway

smiley cheesy smiley

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Re: How To Be A Bad Boy In 8 Easy Steps by tayoxx(m): 11:17am On Dec 01, 2013
Which one I even b self....bad abi good
Re: How To Be A Bad Boy In 8 Easy Steps by iamdhebuck(m): 11:30am On Dec 01, 2013
tayo_xx: Which one I even b self....bad abi good
a monk
Re: How To Be A Bad Boy In 8 Easy Steps by Gabreal1(m): 3:00pm On Dec 01, 2013
I can't read all of dah shii, ah ah! u wicked o, u no even summarize. *spits on thread*
Re: How To Be A Bad Boy In 8 Easy Steps by Dubemkelly(m): 3:49pm On Dec 01, 2013
Just be real nd don't form...Originality keeps it going whether bad or good,just go 4 sth most convenient for u
Re: How To Be A Bad Boy In 8 Easy Steps by Nobody: 4:02pm On Dec 01, 2013
What shallowness

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