I've been a guest on this forum for some months now and just opened an account to post this in order for y'all to pls help. My ordeal goes...

Just about 9months after i started my new job, this guy/man in my office will just not let me be.

This man has done all sorts to get my attention... sms's, phone calls, forming petty convo by coming to sit in my office, wanting to grab my hand whn i have to hand something to him, it even got to a point he wanted taking my picture (to look at whenever he misses me, so he said), he has even suggested me doing a certain hairstyle o... Just to mention but a few that is.

What does he want? Marriage! And to be his 2nd wife at that, imagine. Yes he is a mallam too. (Not intending 2 start a religious attack). He is married with 3 kids and asks everyday why i don't care about him and why i don't want to join his family. I have told him plainly i can not & will not join his family cos of the reasons stated above. I try to ignore him as much as possible and told him to not call except its work related.

Its really annoying cos he's so persistent it annoys me to the core. Is there any other way i havnt tried that i can ward off this man Your suggestions needed. Thanks

Tell him that you really would love to marry or have an affair with him, but you are trying to get a Cure to your HIV/Herps.. That he should be a lil more patient

be hapi dear,some pple go un-noticed - office,church & even on their street

Your picture first or it didn't happen!

Demand for something you know he can't afford (not necessarily material) but if he does reject it. Guess that should work.

Ijogz K: Tell him that you really would love to marry or have an affair with him, but you are trying to get a Cure to your HIV/Herps.. That he should be a lil more patient

very funny but thnks. And what if this said man shd begin to announce around 'i've HIV/Herps?? Thnks for ur suggestion all the same

Phranciz: Demand for something you know he can't afford (not necessarily material) but if he does reject it. Guess that should work.

Hahaa. Will try that. Gracias

You picture please, we need to know why.

keep farting in his presence

Phranciz: Demand for something you know he can't afford (not necessarily material) but if he does reject it. Guess that should work.

this is suicide!

I no dey like rude girls o, bt since u dn tell d guy "NO" nd him no gree, next time try bullshit am, just embarrase him. Since u say him b mallam, him no dey do bad thing in lookin for a 2nd wife.

passionate88: I no dey like rude girls o, bt since u dn tell d guy "NO" nd him no gree, next time try bullshit am, just embarrase him. Since u say him b mallam, him no dey do bad thing in lookin for a 2nd wife.

beta!

passionate88: I no dey like rude girls o, bt since u dn tell d guy "NO" nd him no gree, next time try bullshit am, just embarrase him. Since u say him b mallam, him no dey do bad thing in lookin for a 2nd wife.

Exactly. Didn't wana come off as being rude, but wen d man stil was persistent, i thot a clear out NO would suffice. And ure right in saying he hasn't done bad in looking 4a second wife

baralatie:
this is suicide!

Hehehe...let's see if he can survive that!

baggy4luv: keep farting in his presence

Funny. This might not be a turn off

Always invite ur boyfriend to ur office if u didn't have one arrange with a guy to act like one and be visiting u often I think he will be envy and a shamed everytime he sees u with ur guy before u do so I hope he is not ur direct boss before he vex fire u

baggy4luv: keep farting in his presence

Surefire method.

Ucheosefoh: Always invite ur boyfriend to ur office if u didn't have one arrange with a guy to act like one and be visiting u often I think he will be envy and a shamed everytime he sees u with ur guy before u do so I hope he is not ur direct boss before he vex fire u

Thanks for ur input. Thnk heavens he's not my direct or indirect boss. *whew*