agaba123:

Acid never said so. Just asked you how old because an 18 year old who have not had sex should be commended but it is not very uncommon. If you are 25 and never did, then na de koko.

Well people dee do all sorts apart from penetration and they are still virgin ooo.

Abeg no vex lol

Truly questionable. maybe with the folk you hang around but i know alot of virgins who are 25 and over.

never

onyinye2:

Truly questionable. maybe with the folk you hang around but i know alot of virgins who are 25 and over.

never said there are none? I said na de koko. But presently there are not many. We still have 30 years old virgins

agaba123:

Acid never said so. Just asked you how old because an 18 year old who have not had sex should be commended but it is not very uncommon. If you are 25 and never did, then na de koko.

Well people dee do all sorts apart from penetration and they are still virgin ooo.

Abeg no vex lol

oohhhh okay thanks . It's a big deal for some but for others it isn't.

onyinye2:

Truly questionable. maybe with the folk you hang around but i know alot of virgins who are 25 and over.

Truly questionable. Unless you mean you know a lot of people that are employed at virgin nigeria. I was told those people are called virgins too.

Ruby_Pearl:

lol

@ibk
no mind me. I just wanted to torture someone this noon

lool

HCH3COO:

Truly questionable. Unless you mean you know a lot of people that are employed at virgin nigeria. I was told those people are called virgins too.

hahaha

HCH3COO:

Truly questionable.  Unless you mean you know a lot of people that are employed at virgin nigeria.  I was told those people are called virgins too.

It is true. i know people who are 25 and over who are still virgins. as hard as that is to believe. i guess people who have morals is becoming an extinct group.

ibkaye:

hahaha

rotflmfpao

onyinye2:

It is true. i know people who are 25 and over who are still virgins. has hard is that to believe. i guess people who have morals is becoming an extinct group.

. Quite frankly, I know there are people out there who are . . .just didn't think you knew that many who are actually virgins at 25(as in they're outspoken about it). Most of the people around me have probably done it, but it's their cup of tea.

Can someone remind me how this topic got to virginity?

ppl don miss road, I see!

Fast track: You are very sensitive on this subject. How come?

@ Topic

If my girlfriend tells me that she has been raped before, well there is no big deal. SHIT happens.

I'll simply make sure she isnt still carrying any baggage from the event, if she still is then I'll suggest counselling. Basically walk her through it. Its not as if anybody ever plans to get raped.
If you really love her, then rape is not an issue, unless she born pikin from the experience, then hmm!! yawa don gas be that.

Maybe he knows someone who has experienced it  

Everyone seems to have it twisted here.

Being raped is not having had sex with someone other than your man. Being raped is a violation of your body, mind and spirit. If I actually had been raped, the idea of another human being violaing my body, be it violently or just overagressively, It would be extremely difficult to tell anybody. Police, parents, man, sister, friend, but to prove my self worth, I would find it in me to speak up. And if he dosn't want to know, or can't deal with it, then he can step.

How does having a kid from rape = to yawa?

Okija_juju:

@ Topic
unless she born pikin from the experience, then hmm!! yawa don gas be that.

That one go hard o.  Then imagine being in a relationship with her and not even knowing about it          

iyaade:

Everyone seems to have it twisted here.

Being raped is not having had sex with someone other than your man. Being raped is a violation of your body, mind and spirit. If I actually had been raped, the idea of another human being violaing my body, be it violently or just overagressively, It would be extremely difficult to tell anybody. Police, parents, man, sister, friend, but to prove my self worth, I would find it in me to speak up. And if he dosn't want to know, or can't deal with it, then he can step.

Gbosa! You don land finish

Which one is yawa sef?

i wonder o

When people talk about rape in naija, nobody send spiritual rape and mind rape o! Na the physical penetration of the koko without the consent od the kokolet we dey talk about.
A rape child is more than most people can handle, victim included, even moi. How I wan manage look the pikin for face knowing the full details of his existence.
My dear, that is major yawa. I no wan even think about the way I go use discharge.

God dey sha!

NubianQ:

yes i would tell only after i have killed the perverted idiot who did it. on the other hand why tell a man when he only would use it against you when it suits him?

uve said it all


but wait ooooo,there wont be peace until u say it

yawa =gbese=trouble=nsogbu=wahala

ohhhhhhhhhhh

yawa don gas be say epon ti fo
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rape ko, i will never be raped, will not allow such


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as long as no lasting damage was done to the area, i might carry on

but for being brave enough to tell me something of that magnitude, RESPECT!!!!!

i wont live my girl/wife because she got raped. But i will ask 4 Lab test. Woe unto any man that rapes a woman.

ibkaye:

rape ko, i will never be raped, will not allow such


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if you could allow it, it wouldn't be called rape.

kugaba:

i wont live my girl/wife because she got raped even if proven that she w, ted it or perhaps en, ed it. But i will ask 4 Lab test.

If you could even doubt her sincerity, then she'd be right to leave you, Just like I would. You're just like the rest of those people that believe rape victims somehow "looked for it".

What about incest?

How would you feel if your girl/wife told you she was raped at a young age by a relative?

Would that change how you feel about her or see her?

Is that something she should keep to herself?

sistawoman:

What about incest?

How would you feel if your girl/wife told you she was raped at a young age by a relative?

Would that change how you feel about her or see her?

Is that something she should keep to herself?

That was before she got married naa. Everybody has his or her own past .

sistawoman:

What about incest?

How would you feel if your girl/wife told you she was raped at a young age by a relative?

Would that change how you feel about her or see her?

Is that something she should keep to herself?

Incest!!

Chineke Nnam e! Nwa Joseph.

That is beyond yawa o!! that is abormination!! TUFIAKWA!! _{Obulu ogu ya le}!!

Incest qua!! Nne that one is now spiritual o!! It has the ability to appear later in your family tree.

I will vanish. Not before I collect a refund on the bride price and other expenditures plus compensation for inconvieniece and deciet.

Okija_juju:


Incest!!

Chineke Nnam e! Nwa Joseph.

That is beyond yawa o!! that is abormination!! TUFIAKWA!! _{Obulu ogu ya le}!!

Incest qua!! Nne that one is now spiritual o!! It has the ability to appear later in your family tree.

I will vanish. Not before I collect a refund on the bride price and other expenditures plus compensation for inconvieniece and deciet.

Hmmmmm,