I was never really interested in sex until I heard men can be prey too.
I was wondering how rare this type of man is.
Are you a male who likes to be loved instead of doing the loving?
Or do you like the idea of a woman doing most of the loving even if you aren't decidedly 100% submissive?
After some reading, I read that submissive or slightly submissive men aren't usually at bars or parties. (not sure if that's true) So if you're a submissive type, where are you most likely to be found? What are your interests? What kind of job do you have? How do you act around girls, or people in general? What is your most distinctive quality? What are some things you like being done to you in bed?

Notes:
-By "submissive" I don't mean sexual tastes that include sadism, masochism, punishment, painful or restrictive bondage, or abuse. Because that's really excessive, and doesn't reflect an emotional relationship based on affection. By the term, I mean a person would like to receive emotional and sexual pleasure, not pain, from their partner.
-Although I guess there is some degree of torment from being on the recipient end. Waiting while being stimulated and not immediately having your way involves restraint.
-By "loving" i mean pre-intimacy, i.e. playing with/stroking hair, handling/caressing/kissing the ears, neck, chest, nipples, stomach, inner thighs and so on.

what is he sayinq

benkings: what is he sayinq

may be you should read again.

benkings: what is he sayinq

Rubbish

BS

Uttercrap!

Hmmm, u be gay right? And you are looking for ur he-gurl?

zelexotunla: Hmmm, u be gay right? And you are looking for ur he-gurl?

You're the first person that really understand this topic. But for real, i'm not gay. I only notice our ladies(including all the ladies i've been with) don't play the lead role when it comes to intimacy so i wonder if i am the one that is not sexually submissive as a man.

But u're right...i'm really talking about a he-girl here.

I wonder why others are saying this is crap...Must one post in pidgin english for nairalanders to undertsnad?