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Why does the 'we need to talk' always coming from the woman? Its something we tend to ignore but after a serious investigation i foud it to be true. Does it mean we guys aint serious or rather insensitive ?

When your lady tells you that- Omg! 'you are in for some bad news- It's never an Harbinger of sort anyway......

Very important stuff needs to be discussed then.

Most times, they are seeking attention as usual

What of a stuation whereby she admits to love but afraid to commit. And now she needs to talk?

Eberex: What of a stuation whereby she admits to love but afraid to commit. And now she needs to talk?

Emotional blackmail. She just wants assurance that you dont intend to do "hit and run"

[quote author=Mynd_44]Emotional blackmail. She just wants assurance that you dont intend to do "hit and run"[/quote]boy that was a bull's eye! How did you know? That was the actual word she used one time!

Eberex: boy that was a bull's eye! How did you know? That was the actual word she used one time!

E no hard na.

[quote author=Mynd_44]E no hard na.[/quote]Dr Phil

Most people that say this word are people that want the relationship to be worked on. It can either be the guy or the lady.

I respect that word than just nagging without a room for explanation

Dat word can mek u tink of all d bad tins uve done,esp if ure a player

sweetestguy: Dat word can mek u tink of all d bad tins uve done,esp if ure a player

lmao!

sweetestguy: Dat word can mek u tink of all d bad tins uve done,esp if ure a player

does it mean they are the most reliable in a relationship? I believe the girl is at a point where she has made a decision to have a commitment but at the sametime not wanting to sound eager.

[quote author=uj_sizzle]Very important stuff needs to be discussed then.[/quote]You are definitely right there but let me ask you as a lady, If you have pass through break-ups and now find yourself in love again. Would you do the same? and what should he expect from you after telling him ''we need to talk''.

[quote author=Mynd_44]E no hard na.[/quote]dude forget it

i know that feeling

you feel superhuman righr now







what do i know?

Eberex: You are definitely right there but let me ask you as a lady, If you have pass through break-ups and now find yourself in love again. Would you do the same? and what should he expect from you after telling him ''we need to talk''.

He can expect we'll talk about our relationship.

[quote author=uj_sizzle]He can expect we'll talk about our relationship.[/quote]Bla bla bla.

Attention seeking.

For some reasons, i hate that statement....

. . . . . . .
Girl : We Need To Talk. . .
Boy : (With a Shallow Tone) Alrite Dear
Girl : hmmmmmmmm
Boy : Alrite. . . Am Listening
Girl : my PERIOD don lost. . . .
Girl : and them no dey ABORT for our family line
Boy : lobatan. . . . . . .

Means time 4 sum serious talking

Eberex: does it mean they are the most reliable in a relationship? I believe the girl is at a point where she has made a decision to have a commitment but at the sametime not wanting to sound eager.

they ar d most reliable? Hw do u mean,dnt get

sweetestguy: they ar d most reliable? Hw do u mean,dnt get

i mean, are they the ones who wants the relationship to always work? Seems they think guys dont give a sh**t what happens.

She is afraid of commitment. Due to past disappointments she doesnt want to take chances again. That was her 'we need to talk' tale. Should i still push on or just let her go? Until she is ready to commit?