A friend of mine,he has a good job and he's comfortable infact he has good career prospects. I discovered that he's so rough and doesn't care about his looks and appearances.
How do you tell a guy his teeth is turning yellow,or tell him he looks dirty on a monday morning and every other day of the week. I believe a guy should get a clean shave every weekend or two but this guy doesn't shave.
When someone appears on a monday morning looking muffled up,the shirt isn't matching the trousers and the tie isn't done properly or the shirt is looking dirty with creases and stains.
I need honest opinions pls, how do I help him

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Haba, this is a reasonable post with a genuine concern. If he has a girlfriend or sister tell them to talk to him. It depends on your level of closeness you can hint him jokingly, use somebody else as example but stylishly point out his own issues.

You can tell him nicely. Am sure he will appreciate it afterwards.

'Niggah you stink! Get a shave!', he will thank you later and maybe even propose. Lol

Just tell him to do as my mornikar says.

It's easy,just tell him,best done over lunch,with smiles to make him comfortable.



Remembered during a beauty pageant,one of the girls really had armpit odour.It was really bad,as other contestants secretly made fun of her.I felt bad because she is beautiful.I called her privately,told her like me,she perspires a lot under the armpit and it sure smells bad.I opened my box,introduced and gave her one of my Roll-ons.I watch in delight as her face turned from shame to delight and relief.

start advising him on this issues, only one thing at a time. no insult pls.

It's better to mind your business. There are no easy ways to tell him. He'd still take it personal.


Tell his males friends to relate it to him instead of doing it yourself.

Thru anonymous text.

Please leave the guy alone..,dirty guy. That Guy is one of the Apc thugs.,dirty party..ur advice won't change him,he is a tout.,he works for buhari and Tinubu

Ur concern for him is very appreciative i must commend.he needs someone who can play the role of the gentle loving mum he had or never had.it is going to be task u can do for him as a special friend.the concept is all about ego massing an act capable of turning a lion to a dovelike being.every human being like to appreciated wether for bad or good action.u need to first appreciate him for who he is now,be proudly of him always nd insert in him the motion that their is room for improvement not change.list all ur dislike about him in a pad then proceed to verify the reasons why he behaves like that.factors like mind complex,lack of a mother,anger range,strong defensive mechanism about other peoples perception about him,environment and his friends.people care about u when show them how much u care for them.after checking these then brace up for the complimentary attack,a situation where u do some of the changes u what from him by doing it urself.an illustrative epitome where u iron some of his clothe for him by laying the emphasis on how he looks smart in an ironed clothe.the shaving aspect lol tell him how u dream on shaving him up with a defiant tease that he cannot do it better than u.an arousal is to be except if not case complex die.

OP, why are u taking paracetamol on another man's headache Let his girlfriend/wife do that now.

@op are u referring to or husband

@OP Na wa o. Where to start. This one na full time project.

Ask ur mutual friends to help point these things out to him whenever they run across him.

'Bros, you and barber dey fight?'
'Na wa for this your shirt. Na from dustbin u carry am put for body?'
'Your color combo na die. So you dey go clown competition you no invite me'

If u try to do it alone, and his other friends dont give him the same feedback, he'll end up resenting you. I dont envy you sha

Odikwa very risky..Ur concern towards dis ur frnd is highly commendable but....