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Re: Fornication:is It A 'necessary' Sin? by InesQor(m): 10:26am On Dec 17, 2013 |
@alwaysTrue: Good points. I have some questions if you please. Do you accept that it is possible for someone to be legally married and yet God does not approve of their marriage? If so, is sex within that marriage then a defilement of the marriage bed? If so, how do we know which marriages are approved by God? |
Re: Fornication:is It A 'necessary' Sin? by Alwaystrue(f): 10:33am On Dec 17, 2013 |
InesQor: @alwaysTrue: Good points. I have some questions if you please. I will ask a question regarding the 'God approval' part....how do you know God, who respects (note I said respects) convenants, does not approve of that marriage? What are the proofs of non-approval you know of? 1 Like |
Re: Fornication:is It A 'necessary' Sin? by InesQor(m): 10:39am On Dec 17, 2013 |
Alwaystrue:God respects covenants that are done in pure motives that align with his own precepts. I believe God will not respect an agreement just because it is an agreement. For instance it is rather absurd to imagine that God will respect a covenant that contradicts his own plans or covenants, or say a covenant that is instituted by the devil. Those are just two examples, but generally speaking yes of course it is very possible that people get married and God does not honour their agreement. The same way people do business and God does not honour the agreement, or nations have war covenants or peace treaties and God does not respect it! |
Re: Fornication:is It A 'necessary' Sin? by InesQor(m): 10:45am On Dec 17, 2013 |
Alwaystrue: God clearly gave instructions AGAINST marrying from some races in the OT and he punished people who intermarried with them anyway. What other proof do you need that God does not approve of ALL marriages? |
Re: Fornication:is It A 'necessary' Sin? by Alwaystrue(f): 10:46am On Dec 17, 2013 |
InesQor:You are yet to give me practical proofs of a 'non-approved' marriage. Also check the highlighted about CONTRADICTS. I like that and that will go a long way in answering your question. What marriages CONTRADICT the laid-down convenant or agreement by God which God does not approve? I believe you have answers to this since you asked so state which ones you had in mind thst brought about the question? |
Re: Fornication:is It A 'necessary' Sin? by Nahum777(m): 10:50am On Dec 17, 2013 |
Alwaystrue:you are wrong, that verse said widow and its not applicable to both but the woman alone, read the bible as it is, stop adding to it jare. All you said up there are your own opinion, you give us a verse and then you explain it to us? Let the verse speak for itself. 1 Like |
Re: Fornication:is It A 'necessary' Sin? by InesQor(m): 10:52am On Dec 17, 2013 |
Alwaystrue: If you are an honest person, you know that the sample space of marriages in the Bible is not THAT LARGE that I will have "practical proofs" of marriages that God did not approve of. It is not as if the Bible is a book on marriages, what we mostly have are precepts and principles. We can't find practical examples for all of them in the Bible! And if I give real-life examples they will be deemed anecdotal. Thankfully I do have one instance. In Numbers 25, God praised Phineas for punishing an Israelite prince. And what was the prince's offence? He married a Midianite woman, this was at a time when Midianites were in exile and their women were seeking refuge. So will you answer my question now? |
Re: Fornication:is It A 'necessary' Sin? by InesQor(m): 10:54am On Dec 17, 2013 |
@Alwaystrue: And again, in case you missed this: InesQor: |
Re: Fornication:is It A 'necessary' Sin? by Alwaystrue(f): 10:55am On Dec 17, 2013 |
InesQor:So it is still applicable today, isn't it? What fellowship does light have with darkness, can two walk together except they agree, believers and unbelievers (not races) do not mix but Paul still has something to say about that. In the OT the Israelites were like today's believers while other races (gentiles) were unbelievers. Very clear. So the onus lies on the believer not to mix with the unbeliever, if he or she goes ahead, he/she has already CONTRADICTED God's word (as you said) on that and will bear the consequences. But still that is not grounds for divorce (that is what I meant by 'respect') as Paul said in 1 Corinthians 7:12-16. 1 Like |
Re: Fornication:is It A 'necessary' Sin? by Nahum777(m): 10:56am On Dec 17, 2013 |
InesQor:i bet she cant answer that. Sex is marriage, that is what it is. All those white weddings e.t.c is a man made tradition. 3 Likes |
Re: Fornication:is It A 'necessary' Sin? by InesQor(m): 10:58am On Dec 17, 2013 |
Alwaystrue: To make sure I understand you clearly, are you saying that you believe ALL marriages between two Christians are deemed acceptable by God, but those between a believer and an unbeliever are unacceptable? |
Re: Fornication:is It A 'necessary' Sin? by Nahum777(m): 10:58am On Dec 17, 2013 |
Alwaystrue:still your own opinion. Nothing like Unbelievers in the old testament, it was races. This is from the verse you posted in ur previous post. Leviticus 21:14 A widow, or a divorced woman, or a woman who has been defiled, or a prostitute, these he shall not marry. But he shall take as his wife a virgin of his own people, of his own people, nothing like unbelievers. |
Re: Fornication:is It A 'necessary' Sin? by InesQor(m): 10:59am On Dec 17, 2013 |
All this beating round the bush wears me out. Why can't people answer questions directly? |
Re: Fornication:is It A 'necessary' Sin? by Alwaystrue(f): 11:01am On Dec 17, 2013 |
InesQor:If you are patient enough, you will have noted I was online obviously posting or what do you mean by 'If I am an honest person', if you want to go that route there is no point discussing. I think I have provided enough answers so far, as I can see all you need is someone to answer your every question. 1 Like |
Re: Fornication:is It A 'necessary' Sin? by InesQor(m): 11:02am On Dec 17, 2013 |
Nahum777: still your own opinion. Nothing like Unbelievers in the old testament, it was races.Word. After all there were people like Job in the East who served God diligently and yet was not in the racial line of Abraham. There were people all of the world serving and worshipping God so being a non-Israelite did not DEFINITELY mean you were an unbeliever. Nuances again. 1 Like |
Re: Fornication:is It A 'necessary' Sin? by Alwaystrue(f): 11:02am On Dec 17, 2013 |
Nahum777: still your own opinion. Nothing like Unbelievers in the old testament, it was races.They were called heathen. Not hard to figure. 1 Like |
Re: Fornication:is It A 'necessary' Sin? by Nahum777(m): 11:05am On Dec 17, 2013 |
Alwaystrue:Heathens yes, unbelievers? No. 2 Likes |
Re: Fornication:is It A 'necessary' Sin? by InesQor(m): 11:05am On Dec 17, 2013 |
Alwaystrue:No offence. I have never discussed with you before. There are some Nairalanders that I have realized are intellectually dishonest i.e. their mode of discussion is very mercurial. Yet others are honest and I enjoy discussing with them. What made me raise that flag is that here you are asking me for practical examples of something that I believe it is clear that the Bible would usually not give "examples" on. Like me asking for practical examples of where God said you should not beat your wife. Will I be able to produce such a verse? No. What I can show you are precepts and principles. If you are no longer interested in discussing this, that's fine. Once again, no offence intended. 4 Likes |
Re: Fornication:is It A 'necessary' Sin? by Nahum777(m): 11:06am On Dec 17, 2013 |
InesQor:Nah Nah Nah, until the death of Christ all gentiles were heathens, they are still heathens though. I cant type much my battery is down. Off i go, i can see Obadiah viewing this thread. Okay now he will throw more light for sure. |
Re: Fornication:is It A 'necessary' Sin? by InesQor(m): 11:09am On Dec 17, 2013 |
Nahum777: Nah Nah Nah, until the death of Christ all gentiles were heathens.Where does your timeline place Job then? What about Melchizedek, Jethro, Rahab and Ruth? These were all non-Hebrew believers so what is your point, sir? |
Re: Fornication:is It A 'necessary' Sin? by Alwaystrue(f): 11:10am On Dec 17, 2013 |
Nahum777: Heathens yes, unbelievers? No.It was obvious you did not read my post then but jumped in mid way: What I was trying to bring out was the link between the races then (demarcated by God's people and Other nations) and believers /unbelievers today....it is not about races but about believing God (Jew or gentile). 2 Likes |
Re: Fornication:is It A 'necessary' Sin? by Nahum777(m): 11:16am On Dec 17, 2013 |
InesQor:All Israelite. I dont know where you got the non-Hebrew stuff from. All the books and Prophets of the bible were all Israelites "Be it known therefore unto you, that the salvation of God is sent unto the Gentiles, and that they will hear it." (Acts 28:28). "I say then, Have they stumbled that they should fall? God forbid: but rather through their fall salvation is come unto the Gentiles, for to provoke them to jealousy." (Romans 11:11). After the death of Christ, they were heathens till after the death of Christ, they were not worshipping God. You are wrong. I will reply your posts later. Low ba3 |
Re: Fornication:is It A 'necessary' Sin? by Nahum777(m): 11:18am On Dec 17, 2013 |
Alwaystrue:It is still about races. Maybe you should read your bible with an open mind. Its all about Jacob and Esau and other nations. Thats what the bible is all about, nothing like unbelievers and believers e.t.c. |
Re: Fornication:is It A 'necessary' Sin? by InesQor(m): 11:20am On Dec 17, 2013 |
Nahum777: All Israelite. I dont know where you got the non-Hebrew stuff from. All the books and Prophets of the bible were all IsraelitesIf Job, Melchizedek, Jethro, Rahab and Ruth were Israelites then obviously you are not speaking of a geographical Israel. I guess I can understand that your personal religious persuasion allows for a non-geographical worldview on what Israel is or was. But here we are talking about WORLD RACES so I am talking about a geographical Israel. So, all respect to your religious views but your response detracts from the point I was making. |
Re: Fornication:is It A 'necessary' Sin? by Nahum777(m): 11:22am On Dec 17, 2013 |
InesQor:Israel is a race, it is a nation. And yes Job was a nation of Israel. |
Re: Fornication:is It A 'necessary' Sin? by InesQor(m): 11:30am On Dec 17, 2013 |
Nahum777: Israel is a race, it is a nation. And yes Job was a nation of Israel.I see. You have to back this up though. - What tribe in Israel was he from? - And where in Israel was called the land of Uz, Job's hometown? We thankfully know these about the land of Uz; it was attacked by Sabeans and Chaldeans (Job 1:15,17), and one of Job's friends, Eliphaz, came from Teman (Job 4:1), which is in Idumea (also called Edom) thus Uz was most likely in Arabia or in Bashan south of the Damascus. I'll love to see you place it in Israel. - What about Melchizedek, Jethro, Rahab and Ruth? Conveniently ignored in your response? 1 Like |
Re: Fornication:is It A 'necessary' Sin? by Nahum777(m): 11:47am On Dec 17, 2013 |
InesQor:"James, a servant of God and of the Lord Jesus Christ, to the twelve tribes which are scattered abroad, greeting." (James 1:1). The Israelites were scattered abroad sir, they still are. God only deals with His people, Israel. |
Re: Fornication:is It A 'necessary' Sin? by kambo(m): 11:56am On Dec 17, 2013 |
Marraige in the NT is to be btw light and light (two believers) not light and darkness (darkness = unbelievers) but even then, this is d general will of God its broad. In individual cases God could have a more specific will,but it will never violate his general will. E.g among christian suitors God may tell a lady tht her intended choice is not His will for her. She can ignore God's voice and go ahead but she'll regret in d long run. Y? She chose d wrong man. Yes,he was a christian or claimed to b but GOD knows the future and knows the BEST man for her . But God doesnt force his will on ppl. If the christian goes ahead and disobeys God's leadg God will only be able to bless use and prosper them only to a limited extent but not to the fullest extent tht wud hav been d case if the christian was fully and completely in His will. Some blessgs God has ar directly attached to His will and plan 4 d person in question so if d person fails to reach that level he wont enjoy the rewards. E.g if God told abraham to marry sarah as a young man and abraham went 4 a fertility test and discovered sarah was barren and reasoned tht he wouldnt be a grandpa at age x etc and did the "wise" thing , ditched d barren damsel for another contender, he cud hav acheived his goal and God wud hav blessed him as much as He cud but abraham wud never hav been as blessed and prosperous (i dnt mean riches per se) as he cud be outside God's will for his wife: sarah. He wudnt b d father of many nations,he wudnt b a patrairch, he wudnt b the father of isreal, he wudnt b d iconic example of faith, God wudntve established his covenant with him but wud hav to go in search of some1 else. etc. He cudve been rich and had many children and thts it. The wrst of all is abraham wudnt know wat he's lost by not obeyg God's will for a partner. In summary there's a general will and a specific will of God. The specific is always in harmony with d general but is prtculr to d indvidual in question. Both are needed to enter into d perfect will of God where d best of his blessings are and it applies to marraige too. Anoda example, isaac was in a barren land, egypt was thrivg economically, coomon sense and reason suggested tht isaac relocate "abroad". Isaac was about to until God spoke to him. God's suggestion looked and sounded foolish - to d rational mind - but Isaac foolishly obeyed God, this obedience ushered Isaac into God's perfect will for his business location, and as a result of Isaac being in d perfect will of God for his business site He reaped supernormal profit. He sowed in the land and in one year reaped a hundred fold. Not one fold or two fold or ten but a hundred . Two fold wudve been a hundred percent returns, one fold wudve been a break even zero returns so a hundred fold return is 10 000 percent returns on initial investment. Cud isaac hav achieved this in egypt ? No. He cudve made some money and been better of thn he was in d barren land but he wudnt be as blessed as he cudve been if he were in d perfect will of God. In egypt he also cudve encountered avoidable difficulties: armed assassins,law suites, accidents etc. |
Re: Fornication:is It A 'necessary' Sin? by Nobody: 1:35pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
InesQor:Lovely! Long time no see, my good brother. How market nau? |
Re: Fornication:is It A 'necessary' Sin? by okeyxyz(m): 1:48pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
The truth is that a lot of church dictates regarding sexual relationships today has nothing to do with the original christian doctrines. Most of what we have today(definitions of fornication, prohibition of polygamy, etc) are derived from traditions, through the roman catholic institutions after it officially absorbed christianity. No where does the original; christian doctrine say that sex without marriage was a sin. It does stipulate faithfulness in marriage for people who choose to marry. Regarding those who choose not to marry, why should they be bound by the marriage law?? The choice not to marry does not in any way translate to the choice not to have sex. Celibacy has absolutely nothing to do with christianity, it is a pagan practice perpetuated by the roman catholic institution under the guise of christianity. Fornication simply means: either unnatural sex or unlawful(without consent) sex. Simples!! No more, no less. |
Re: Fornication:is It A 'necessary' Sin? by kambo(m): 2:04pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
okeyxyz: The truth is that a lot of church dictates regarding sexual relationships today has nothing to do with the original christian doctrines. Most of what we have today are derived from traditions, through the roman catholic institutions after it officially absorbed christianity. where did u get ur definition of forncation from. And in light of ur relaxed view, if the bible were in this light,how then cud it define sexual immorality and lasciviousness and uncleanness and debauchery which it condemns. Y does d bible say the christians body houses the Holy spirit and stipulates stiff penalty for its defilement (which many believe includes pre marital sex) .. If christians want to sleep around and ar tired of d restraint they re free but not try to justify it with the wrd. Mayb fornication means zoophilia, mayb God didnt mean men couldnt marry and the verse against gays needs to b read in context or in latin mayb mayb too many maybes. Its mayb tht made eve pluck the forbidden fruit. 1 Like |
Re: Fornication:is It A 'necessary' Sin? by PrinceGashon: 3:45pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
No sin is necessary |
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