leatherman: This is an over-flogged topic on NL lately, but I don't mind taking some time to comment because, THE TRUTH CANNOT BE OVER-EMPHASIZED.

Sex MUST wait till after marriage. Don't ask me why!

You either take the truth or leave it. Neither is anyone forcing you to take it!

There are countless reasons why sex should wait. Inappropriate sex is one of the biggest and deepest reasons why Nigeria and the world at large is an unsafe place to be now.

People try to allow it so they are not criticized for other wrong doings. One thing is sure:

Whether you bend, break, bury or bypass the truth, YOU CAN'T KILL IT.

Even if you succeed at killing it, IT WILL RESURRECT.

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Ngokafor: Hmmm @op nice and balanced analysis there...to be honest,I believe sex outside marriage should be discouraged especially amongst teenagers most of whom are ignorant of the risks involved.
...young females should be extra cautious because apart from the religious aspect, diseases,pregnancy and the accompanied abortion/child-out-of-wedlock involved,there's this strong emotional attachment most females have for a guy/man they sleep with,reasons why some cant break out of bad relationships or feel so bitter and 'used' when dumped..thereby giving undeserving males so much power over them..
..am guilty of this sex before marriage as well *shame-faced*.,i really tried to hold out but my boo was such a sweet caring and ermm wait for it..generous guy!..lol!,his being attractive (which i fought so hard to resist) didnt help matters either
..but in all these,my fate was sealed(so to speak) the day the deed was done,i just couldnt resist him anymore and knew i was in trouble .I was glad that his kind of work at that time entailed him being away from me at least two weeks in a month so that 'seeing finish' will not set in.. luckily for me,the feeling was/is mutual on his part and we are getting married soon.I actually shed tears of joy and relief the day he proposed,leaving him asking with a slightly worried look on his face if that was a yes!...
...sadly,many females have been left feeling used and bitter after a failed relationship filled with bedmatics that should be between married couples,with perhaps one or two abortions and STDs in the mix...Men/guys may not understand the emotional attachment that comes with sex for females,but it's there and is real..
...therefore to be on the safe side,females in particular should delay sleeping with a guy they are not married to for as long as possible cos it's almost a no-win situation for us..i know am the wrong person to preach this but the truth needs to be told...

Ngokafor:
..am guilty of this sex before marriage as well *shame-faced*.,i really tried to hold out but my boo was such a sweet caring and ermm wait for it..generous guy!..lol!,his being attractive (which i fought so hard to resist) didnt help matters either
..but in all these,my fate was sealed(so to speak) the day the deed was done,i just couldnt resist him anymore and knew i was in trouble .I was glad that his kind of work at that time entailed him being away from me at least two weeks in a month so that 'seeing finish' will not set in.. luckily for me,the feeling was/is mutual on his part and we are getting married soon.I actually shed tears of joy and relief the day he proposed,leaving him asking with a slightly worried look on his face if that was a yes!...
...sadly,many females have been left feeling used and bitter after a failed relationship filled with bedmatics that should be between married couples,with perhaps one or two abortions and STDs in the mix...Men/guys may not understand the emotional attachment that comes with sex for females,but it's there and is real..
...therefore to be on the safe side,females in particular should delay sleeping with a guy they are not married to for as long as possible cos it's almost a no-win situation for us..i know am the wrong person to preach this but the truth needs to be told...

Ngokafor: Hmmm @op nice and balanced analysis there...to be honest,I believe sex outside marriage should be discouraged especially amongst teenagers most of whom are ignorant of the risks involved.
...young females should be extra cautious because apart from the religious aspect, diseases,pregnancy and the accompanied abortion/child-out-of-wedlock involved,there's this strong emotional attachment most females have for a guy/man they sleep with,reasons why some cant break out of bad relationships or feel so bitter and 'used' when dumped..thereby giving undeserving males so much power over them..
..am guilty of this sex before marriage as well *shame-faced*.,i really tried to hold out but my boo was such a sweet caring and ermm wait for it..generous guy!..lol!,his being attractive (which i fought so hard to resist) didnt help matters either
..but in all these,my fate was sealed(so to speak) the day the deed was done,i just couldnt resist him anymore and knew i was in trouble .I was glad that his kind of work at that time entailed him being away from me at least two weeks in a month so that 'seeing finish' will not set in.. luckily for me,the feeling was/is mutual on his part and we are getting married soon.I actually shed tears of joy and relief the day he proposed,leaving him asking with a slightly worried look on his face if that was a yes!...
...sadly,many females have been left feeling used and bitter after a failed relationship filled with bedmatics that should be between married couples,with perhaps one or two abortions and STDs in the mix...Men/guys may not understand the emotional attachment that comes with sex for females,but it's there and is real..
...therefore to be on the safe side,females in particular should delay sleeping with a guy they are not married to for as long as possible cos it's almost a no-win situation for us..i know am the wrong person to preach this but the truth needs to be told...

uba okeke:

He dat has no sin cast the first stone!!!! So ansa me! Are u a Virgin??

slap1: I know a fellowship sister in school that was engaged with a brother. The agreement was 'no sex', naturally. I don't know if the guy kept his part of the agreement fully, but a guy in my hostel was 'knacking' the girl regularly...

That said, I also advocate no sex. But if we have to cheat to achieve it, we better 'knack' it on. 'Tenk' (in Yuzedo's voice).

lomaxx:


In other words, you don chop clean mouth finish. Therefore, others should not chop. Congrats!! You try

leatherman:

Oh, you think "she chop clean mouth?"....A man's food is another man's poison, but some things are poisonous to all men when done outside boundaries.

In case you don't know, even water can be poisonous!

naijathings: [size=28pt]HELL NO![/size]

s3x is not everything but it is going to be one of the reasons why I love my wife and even say I DO in the first place.

everybody will buy whatever pleases him or her in the market.. so i will chill with a babe who wants the same thing
like i want. not someone that will come and start conditioning my life then later make me find out that she is
lazy or terrible or novice or have some stupid disease that makes sex scare her.. eeeew.

Besides, NO SEX before marriage is one of the dirtiest scams in the Nigeria right now.. and I am not falling for that shieet

as a sharpp guy, the 177th commandment of the street says, if you not hitting that pussieyy, then someone else will do it for u. don't believe those lies those girls tell you.

lomaxx:

So what is this boundary that defines the safety margin of sex?

lomaxx:


Without allusion to religious sentiments, what quality/feature makes this boundary sufficient and satisfactory to all parties involved in the practice of sex?

ayo84: Sexual incompatibilty is a big issue nowadays, ladies who have tasted it from married men and professionals, don't want a male virgin with no idea of how to last long in bed.

And most experienced men, don't want a rigid, unexpereinced woman, if you have two virgins, its cool, if they go into it together.


But when you have one partner who has explored all kinds of fantasies and the other partner , a novice, then there would be problems, a case where a lady who has warmed the beds of so many men, decides to settle down with an innocent, young, virgin dude , that's going to be disastrous.

leatherman:
Oh, you think "she chop clean mouth?"....A man's food is another man's poison, but some things are poisonous to all men when done outside boundaries.
In case you don't know, even water can be poisonous!

tensor77:
Confused man confusing others. What is it about the statement No to "fornication" you don't get. Yet you are applauding someone who learnt the hard way. Get a life man.

ayo84: E go shock some guys, that while d babe dey form innonence and holier than thou, and trying to woo you into marrying her, and potraying to the whole world that she's a saint, there is one bad guy, who is hitting it so hard,

There are some ladies who have lived very horrendous sex lives, but they chabge location, come to a new town and hook up with an innocent brother.

leatherman:

It's not my fault that you don't understand what I wrote. God help you.

I maintain my stance as a NO to fornication. Cheers