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6 Things Women Notice In Men Right Away by freshchuks10(m): 8:39am On Dec 25, 2013 |
First impressions may be made in moments, but they predict the course your relationships follow. So if you know what exactly about you draws in the votes, you can perfect it -- and do better with the opposite sex. So what do women notice immediately? According to Dr Gordon Patzer, author of Looks: Why They Matter More Than You Ever Imagined, and one of the world’s leading authorities on physical attractiveness, a lot of what women notice in the first few minutes is appearance-based. “A substantial portion of the six features of a man are apparent, in terms of height, weight and overall physical attractiveness,” he says. And when appearances don’t make the cut, the door slams shut on further interactions. Here’s a list of things to keep that door open. 1. Physical stature Yep, you knew this already: size matters. Height and weight are right on top of the list of things women notice. “Too much or too little of either immediately classifies the man as unattractive to women, and closes the door before less physically obviously features (such as confidence) can be determined,” says Dr Patzer. Take heart though, the acceptable range is influenced by the woman's own height and weight. 2. Appearances and attractiveness Yes, beauty is skin deep, but it’s going to get women to explore what lies beneath. Attractiveness does include what you were born with, but your genes alone can't scuttle your chances. What really counts is what you do with your hair, clothes, grooming and basic hygiene. If you can't make the effort, women certainly are not going to work hard to learn more about you! 3. Smile Once women are done assessing your overall build, women will look at your smile. “The ability to smile, particularly within the first few minutes of meeting, sends a welcoming, non-hostile signal to women,” says Dr Patzer. There is one proviso though -- the smile must show off reasonably good-looking teeth. It's never too late to fix an appointment with the dentist! 4. Humour Another reason to show off those pearly whites! Women like men who have the ability to laugh. Even better, make the woman laugh. That instantly nets you bonus points! 5. Confidence Women find confident men attractive. According to Dr Sameer Malhotra, head of psychiatry and psychotherapy department at Fortis Hospital in New Delhi, within the first few minutes of meeting, women will not only suss out your level of confidence, they will also interpret the vibes you give out and how you think. “Women notice how clear or decisive you are and whether you approach things positively.” Just remember, cockiness and arrogance are not the same as confidence! 6. Conversation Men have successfully given womankind the impression of being strong and silent. So women aren't expecting you to have mad talking skills. All you've got to do hold her attention. “We know (scientifically) that the more or longer that a woman gets to know a man, the more physically attractive he becomes in her mind,” says Dr Patzer. Women are looking for someone to keep up the conversation -- so forget the one-liners, just be yourself! http://www.menslifetoday.com/in/feature/relationships/things_women_notice/index.html#axzz2oVqspuo7 9 Likes |
Re: 6 Things Women Notice In Men Right Away by iykenex(m): 8:49am On Dec 25, 2013 |
Number 5 is on point 5 Likes |
Re: 6 Things Women Notice In Men Right Away by tsleazy(m): 8:51am On Dec 25, 2013 |
noted. |
Re: 6 Things Women Notice In Men Right Away by segzicres(m): 8:52am On Dec 25, 2013 |
We have too many captain obvious on nl 5 Likes |
Re: 6 Things Women Notice In Men Right Away by borntobegr8t(m): 9:04am On Dec 25, 2013 |
Ur facts has no empirical thesis , it's legally untenable , and it's devoid of concurable evidence to instigate magnanimous sagacity in astronomical capacity of an uneven dynamic world of the male physiognomy In a lay man's word...i mean MERRY CHRISTMAS TO Y'ALL 79 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 6 Things Women Notice In Men Right Away by bigfree: 9:12am On Dec 25, 2013 |
okay@op well done. I know someone that is not too good-looking, infact an average joe, but he manages to score with hot chicks. Why is that so? I have come to understand that points of attraction women look out for are hard to rationalize, they are aesthetic like a mona lisa painting. You ask your self sometimes, why is she with that guy? You don't understand. Ask her, why do you love that guy? She doesn't really know attraction for women is embedded in the irrational or intuitive part of the brain which has been passed from mother to daughter for generations. That is the selection of the most suitable male mate with. I don't women go about with a checklist in their purse to select a male. If she digs you, she digs you. 30 Likes |
Re: 6 Things Women Notice In Men Right Away by LarrySun(m): 9:12am On Dec 25, 2013 |
born_to_be_gr8t: Ur facts has no empirical thesis , it's legally untenable , and it's devoid of concurable evidence to instigate magnanimous sagacity in astronomical capacity of an uneven dynamic world of the male physiognomyLOL! Guy, you just made my Christmas. 4 Likes |
Re: 6 Things Women Notice In Men Right Away by Danhumprey: 10:30am On Dec 25, 2013 |
Story? 2 Likes |
Re: 6 Things Women Notice In Men Right Away by OkikiOluwa1(m): 10:38am On Dec 25, 2013 |
Most of these girls don't study all these. They look out for only cash. Last Bullet: This is the truth of our society. 28 Likes |
Re: 6 Things Women Notice In Men Right Away by DrAbbey1(m): 10:50am On Dec 25, 2013 |
born_to_be_gr8t: Ur facts has no empirical thesis , it's legally untenable , and it's devoid of concurable evidence to instigate magnanimous sagacity in astronomical capacity of an uneven dynamic world of the male physiognomyhaha.funny u |
Re: 6 Things Women Notice In Men Right Away by ayabdul: 10:55am On Dec 25, 2013 |
Okiki_Oluwa: Most of this girls don't study all these. They look out for only cash.my brother u hit d hammer on d nail 4 Likes |
Re: 6 Things Women Notice In Men Right Away by Ishilove: 10:56am On Dec 25, 2013 |
freshchuks10:On point. I'm on the big side so I can't be having me a big man. The skinnier the berra freshchuks10:True that. No woman will take a ruffian looking fellow seriously. freshchuks10:Na lie. Some niggas are better off NOT smiling cos of their 'disaster zone' teeth freshchuks10:I00% correct!! freshchuks10:Very true. The bolded are complete turnoffs freshchuks10:It is however not a license to talk the woman half to death 6 Likes |
Re: 6 Things Women Notice In Men Right Away by Gabreal1(m): 11:38am On Dec 25, 2013 |
No 4 is key! 1 Like |
Re: 6 Things Women Notice In Men Right Away by yfo: 11:41am On Dec 25, 2013 |
Ishilove: Thanks for the female perspective on this...imma take your word as a 12unit course! By the way, merry xmas to u |
Re: 6 Things Women Notice In Men Right Away by Flygeriansteve: 11:42am On Dec 25, 2013 |
Women notice all these right away? 4 Likes |
Re: 6 Things Women Notice In Men Right Away by Iaz93: 11:44am On Dec 25, 2013 |
Re: 6 Things Women Notice In Men Right Away by Nobody: 1:21pm On Dec 25, 2013 |
born_to_be_gr8t: Ur facts has no empirical thesis , it's legally untenable , and it's devoid of concurable evidence to instigate magnanimous sagacity in astronomical capacity of an uneven dynamic world of the male physiognomywow! Wole soyinka must be a learner then. 2 Likes |
Re: 6 Things Women Notice In Men Right Away by rigarmortis: 2:17pm On Dec 25, 2013 |
7. size of his wallet. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 6 Things Women Notice In Men Right Away by sakaguchi(m): 3:50pm On Dec 25, 2013 |
this long story and not even one picture? OP, pictures or I don belivit. Besides I doubt this study applies to naija girls they only see money. [size=200pt] 1 thing women notice in men right away is MONEY, lots of it. [/size] 9 Likes |
Re: 6 Things Women Notice In Men Right Away by nairacodedcom(m): 5:31pm On Dec 25, 2013 |
born_to_be_gr8t: Ur facts has no empirical thesis , it's legally untenable , and it's devoid of concurable evidence to instigate magnanimous sagacity in astronomical capacity of an uneven dynamic world of the male physiognomyLol...let me get my dictionary. |
Re: 6 Things Women Notice In Men Right Away by nairacodedcom(m): 5:40pm On Dec 25, 2013 |
rigarmortis: 7. size of his wallet.I am surprised the OP didn't mention Having a FAT wallet. For some gals, dat its numba 1 1 Like |
Re: 6 Things Women Notice In Men Right Away by ichidodo: 7:33pm On Dec 25, 2013 |
Am so stuffed with Chow and drinks that i just don't know what to comment........ 1 Like |
Re: 6 Things Women Notice In Men Right Away by zuma4k(m): 7:38pm On Dec 25, 2013 |
I doubt... |
Re: 6 Things Women Notice In Men Right Away by swhiss: 7:41pm On Dec 25, 2013 |
Man is not a machine to fullfil all these qualities, if a girl really wants all these, then she should order a robot. 6 Likes |
Re: 6 Things Women Notice In Men Right Away by jnrbayano(m): 7:42pm On Dec 25, 2013 |
That's their opinion I mean Dr Gordon Patzer n Dr Sameer Malhotra....here in Nigeria we know what works well for us. Not bad a write up though... 1 Like |
Re: 6 Things Women Notice In Men Right Away by slap1(m): 7:43pm On Dec 25, 2013 |
Ok. I have 90% of what's listed above. Why am I still single? (Because I never buy Range Rover Sport) 4 Likes |
Re: 6 Things Women Notice In Men Right Away by chubysoft1(m): 7:45pm On Dec 25, 2013 |
right ni away ko. bros just pray make baba God bless you wella, you go see as girls go dey pursue you up and down. 1 Like |
Re: 6 Things Women Notice In Men Right Away by alotofgrace(m): 7:48pm On Dec 25, 2013 |
copied.......but wia is that single thing that answereth all things |
Re: 6 Things Women Notice In Men Right Away by daryoor(m): 7:53pm On Dec 25, 2013 |
a guy with a cool ride is popular on campus regardless of all these 1 Like |
Re: 6 Things Women Notice In Men Right Away by Nobody: 7:55pm On Dec 25, 2013 |
Okiki_Oluwa: Most of this girls don't study all these. They look out for only cash. You sound hurt. You are what you attract. 5 Likes |
Re: 6 Things Women Notice In Men Right Away by checkdate(m): 7:55pm On Dec 25, 2013 |
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Re: 6 Things Women Notice In Men Right Away by duni04(m): 7:56pm On Dec 25, 2013 |
Ishilove:U wan kill am? 6 Likes |
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