swhiss: Man is not a machine to fullfil all these qualities, if a
girl really wants all these, then she should order a
robot.

all4naija: The good way, I think she meant, is getting her laid in a steamy way.

Okiki_Oluwa: Most of this girls don't study all these. They look out for only cash.

tintingz: She should have said that na, and am sweating to figure out her own ruffian definition but seriously I know what she meant am just poking her.

bisiopinion:


really? lol right. I think I'm done for tonight. We can agree to disagree. Yes the word ruffian is in dictionary. Yes I used the word as an oxymoron. But I would never let a man ay hands on me, I also do not like being referred to as a bitch. You are the closest thing I have encountered to a ruffian today. And this is directed to both Tintingz and VickyO.

Madam sorry o we are not fighting na biko ejo...I know what you meant by a good ruffian am just poking you, english dey vex.

A good bad guy? A good guy with bad character? Nah

A swaggalicious gentle man that knows whatsup, what's trending...? yeah that's your good ruffian right?

vickyO:


Me too...

aunty bisi don vex o

tintingz: aunty bisi don vex o

Danhumprey: Story?

vickyO:


Abi, she even called us ruffians.

She'll come around.

tintingz: abeg make she come back we are not fighting her.

But on serious note there are some girls that love dating ruffian guys that bully them I just don't know what they see in them same goes to some guys dating hoès that sleeps around

femi9naija:
I don't think so

Okiki_Oluwa: Most of this girls don't study all these. They look out for only cash.

iykenex: Number 5 is on point

sakaguchi: this long story and not even one picture?

OP, pictures or I don belivit.
Besides I doubt this study applies to naija girls they only see money.


[size=200pt] 1 thing women notice in men right away is MONEY, lots of it. [/size]

born_to_be_gr8t: Ur facts has no empirical thesis , it's legally untenable , and it's devoid of concurable evidence to instigate magnanimous sagacity in astronomical capacity of an uneven dynamic world of the male physiognomy




In a lay man's word...i mean MERRY CHRISTMAS TO Y'ALL

adezjamz:

[size=36pt]no. Its because u want a gal of higher standard[/size]

born_to_be_gr8t: Ur facts has no empirical thesis , it's legally untenable , and it's devoid of concurable evidence to instigate magnanimous sagacity in astronomical capacity of an uneven dynamic world of the male physiognomy




In a lay man's word...i mean MERRY CHRISTMAS TO Y'ALL

born_to_be_gr8t: Ur facts has no empirical thesis , it's legally untenable , and it's devoid of concurable evidence to instigate magnanimous sagacity in astronomical capacity of an uneven dynamic world of the male physiognomy




In a lay man's word...i mean MERRY CHRISTMAS TO Y'ALL

born_to_be_gr8t: Ur facts has no empirical thesis , it's legally untenable , and it's devoid of concurable evidence to instigate magnanimous sagacity in astronomical capacity of an uneven dynamic world of the male physiognomy




In a lay man's word...i mean MERRY CHRISTMAS TO Y'ALL

Flygeriansteve: Women notice all these right away?

sitasie :


my goodness! that list is all about the physique of a man that attracts a woman to fall in love with him.
Do you know even materialistic girls have someone they seriously love?
there's a difference between falling in love with someone,and falling in love with someone's wallet!

freshchuks10: First impressions may be made in moments, but they predict the course your relationships follow. So if you know what exactly about you draws in the votes, you can perfect it -- and do better with the opposite sex. So what do women notice immediately?

According to Dr Gordon Patzer, author of Looks: Why They Matter More Than You Ever Imagined, and one of the world’s leading authorities on physical attractiveness, a lot of what women notice in the first few minutes is appearance-based. “A substantial portion of the six features of a man are apparent, in terms of height, weight and overall physical attractiveness,” he says. And when appearances don’t make the cut, the door slams shut on further interactions. Here’s a list of things to keep that door open.

1. Physical stature
Yep, you knew this already: size matters. Height and weight are right on top of the list of things women notice. “Too much or too little of either immediately classifies the man as unattractive to women, and closes the door before less physically obviously features (such as confidence) can be determined,” says Dr Patzer. Take heart though, the acceptable range is influenced by the woman's own height and weight.

2. Appearances and attractiveness
Yes, beauty is skin deep, but it’s going to get women to explore what lies beneath. Attractiveness does include what you were born with, but your genes alone can't scuttle your chances. What really counts is what you do with your hair, clothes, grooming and basic hygiene. If you can't make the effort, women certainly are not going to work hard to learn more about you!

3. Smile
Once women are done assessing your overall build, women will look at your smile. “The ability to smile, particularly within the first few minutes of meeting, sends a welcoming, non-hostile signal to women,” says Dr Patzer. There is one proviso though -- the smile must show off reasonably good-looking teeth. It's never too late to fix an appointment with the dentist!

4. Humour
Another reason to show off those pearly whites! Women like men who have the ability to laugh. Even better, make the woman laugh. That instantly nets you bonus points!

5. Confidence
Women find confident men attractive. According to Dr Sameer Malhotra, head of psychiatry and psychotherapy department at Fortis Hospital in New Delhi, within the first few minutes of meeting, women will not only suss out your level of confidence, they will also interpret the vibes you give out and how you think. “Women notice how clear or decisive you are and whether you approach things positively.” Just remember, cockiness and arrogance are not the same as confidence!

6. Conversation
Men have successfully given womankind the impression of being strong and silent. So women aren't expecting you to have mad talking skills. All you've got to do hold her attention. “We know (scientifically) that the more or longer that a woman gets to know a man, the more physically attractive he becomes in her mind,” says Dr Patzer. Women are looking for someone to keep up the conversation -- so forget the one-liners, just be yourself!




http://www.menslifetoday.com/in/feature/relationships/things_women_notice/index.html#axzz2oVqspuo7

freshchuks10: First impressions may be made in moments, but they predict the course your relationships follow. So if you know what exactly about you draws in the votes, you can perfect it -- and do better with the opposite sex. So what do women notice immediately?

According to Dr Gordon Patzer, author of Looks: Why They Matter More Than You Ever Imagined, and one of the world’s leading authorities on physical attractiveness, a lot of what women notice in the first few minutes is appearance-based. “A substantial portion of the six features of a man are apparent, in terms of height, weight and overall physical attractiveness,” he says. And when appearances don’t make the cut, the door slams shut on further interactions. Here’s a list of things to keep that door open.

1. Physical stature
Yep, you knew this already: size matters. Height and weight are right on top of the list of things women notice. “Too much or too little of either immediately classifies the man as unattractive to women, and closes the door before less physically obviously features (such as confidence) can be determined,” says Dr Patzer. Take heart though, the acceptable range is influenced by the woman's own height and weight.

2. Appearances and attractiveness
Yes, beauty is skin deep, but it’s going to get women to explore what lies beneath. Attractiveness does include what you were born with, but your genes alone can't scuttle your chances. What really counts is what you do with your hair, clothes, grooming and basic hygiene. If you can't make the effort, women certainly are not going to work hard to learn more about you!

3. Smile
Once women are done assessing your overall build, women will look at your smile. “The ability to smile, particularly within the first few minutes of meeting, sends a welcoming, non-hostile signal to women,” says Dr Patzer. There is one proviso though -- the smile must show off reasonably good-looking teeth. It's never too late to fix an appointment with the dentist!

4. Humour
Another reason to show off those pearly whites! Women like men who have the ability to laugh. Even better, make the woman laugh. That instantly nets you bonus points!

5. Confidence
Women find confident men attractive. According to Dr Sameer Malhotra, head of psychiatry and psychotherapy department at Fortis Hospital in New Delhi, within the first few minutes of meeting, women will not only suss out your level of confidence, they will also interpret the vibes you give out and how you think. “Women notice how clear or decisive you are and whether you approach things positively.” Just remember, cockiness and arrogance are not the same as confidence!

6. Conversation
Men have successfully given womankind the impression of being strong and silent. So women aren't expecting you to have mad talking skills. All you've got to do hold her attention. “We know (scientifically) that the more or longer that a woman gets to know a man, the more physically attractive he becomes in her mind,” says Dr Patzer. Women are looking for someone to keep up the conversation -- so forget the one-liners, just be yourself!




http://www.menslifetoday.com/in/feature/relationships/things_women_notice/index.html#axzz2oVqspuo7