Dear House, please I am in a dilemma, I need advise because I do not want to hurt somebody.


Last week while I was coming home from work, this girl sat beside me in Lagbus, when the bus moved I initiated a conversation, before long we'd exchanged contacts with me promising to pay her a visit the coming week.

We continued the convo on BBM and pretty soon we became cool friends, I suggested we take the friendship to the next level she was ecstatic.


This lady visited me yesterday, physically she is hot, nothing wrong with her, but strangely I have lost all the initial zest I had for her, I don't know how to break this to her. I promised to call her but even till this minute I haven't had the courage to pick or return her calls.

You started this bro ... You just gotta end this bro ... God be with you bro ...

Your story is not complete. How you go about it will to a large extent depend on whether you have "done it "with her.

sure bro

Ladies abeg make una use this as an example to make the chasing a bit difficult for guys. Guys derive more joy in the chasing and the wooing with all the attendant emotions involved in the chase. Now why deny a brother such adventure

Bro you got the game on a platter of gold hence the sudden lost of interest. You acclaimed that the babe hot too.

You have a good heart for being honest with your true feelings as it stands. You may elect to pull the plug slowly since you havnt eaten the forbidden fruit. You would have been an hypocrite if you had eaten the forbidden fruit then lost interest.

I haven't "DONE" it with her, the most physical i have gotten with her is her holding onto me while we walked. I will not "do" it with her!

Chubhie: Ladies abeg make una use this as an example to make the chasing a bit difficult for guys. Guys derive more joy in the chasing and the wooing with all the attendant emotions involved in the chase. Now why deny a brother such adventure

Bro you got the game on a platter of gold hence the sudden lost of interest. You acclaimed that the babe hot too.

You have a good heart for being honest with your true feelings as it stands. You may elect to pull the plug slowly since you havnt eaten the forbidden fruit. You would have been an hypocrite if you had eaten the forbidden fruit then lost interest.

I dnt fink so.. So ai shld b forming hard to Get esp if I rily like the dude .. Ai dnt do dt Shit.

okay, you chop ladyfish, e come hang you for throat. If you wan to remove am there are two things involve: you drink plenty water or you swallow big eba use push am comot.
Interpretation: you continue 2 see the lady until e tire una two or you find one big girlfriend use pursue the girl
i hope i was of help

You don't want to hurt her or I would have suggested you just tell her the truth politely. But you should know something about her personality that should help you with how to tell her. Like for me, I would get the hint if you ignore me.

bigfree: okay, you chop ladyfish, e come hang you for throat. If you wan to remove am there are two things involve: you drink plenty water or you swallow big eba use push am comot.
Interpretation: you continue 2 see the lady until e tire una two or you find one big girlfriend use pursue the girl
i hope i was of help

i dont know u if u guys have tasted the forbiden fruit down below,if u guys are yet then it makes it very simple.pick her call and tell her u r sorry that u will not be able to continue with the relationship for reason best know to u.

Ravenwolf: I haven't "DONE" it with her, the most physical i have gotten with her is her holding onto me while we walked. I will not "do" it with her!

Is it that bad

The truth is shez not appealing to you in some way. Maybe shez shallow or could be just something else. Either way, you aren't telling us the whole truth.
Since you aren't interested, ignore and move on. You don't have to like every hot chick that comes your way

Nonsense. u na dbanj abi? oya go read ur book.

chymystique:




I dnt fink so.. So ai shld b forming hard to Get esp if I rily like the dude .. Ai dnt do dt Shit.

Pay attention lady. I. Said A BIT difficult. A bit means a small portion.. You may also elect to easily yield to any guy. Your body your call.

https://www.nairaland.com/1492023/there-ever-proper-way-end

This might help...

Call her and tell her to f.uck off.

Chubhie: Pay attention lady. I. Said A BIT difficult. A bit means a small portion.. You may also elect to easily yield to any guy. Your body your call.

Am nt talkin of havin intimate intercourse wif him.. I meant generally if a guy ask me out and I rily feel somfyn for him, am not gonna form.