What should a man do, knowing fully well that his girlfriend is not the brain storming, decision making, future thinking, and challenging type. What should a man do, if she as everything he needs in a woman,''physically'',but mentally she is so childish, mentally lazy, and dependant, not in financial demands, but in channeling for the future. What should a man do went you are at a cross road and he ask his very beautiful lady, about her opinion on a matter arising, and all she can do is, signs, and say ''use ur instincts'', and the was all. What should a man do when his girlfriend has never told him for once, ''lets pray''. He, knowing, he is a type of person that puts 100% to his work, so therefore,needs a lady to rub mind with for the future,and help for the future, advise for the future. Should the relationship continue with all the pit holes? Can person really change another person's character, knowing fully well they grew up with this character? You cant teach the old, a new dance step.

Nope

I don't understand

Have you talked about these problems before? How did she react/respond? The truth is you can't "change" a full grown individual.

Sorry but for me I think that the relationship has no future!

Still_stan: Sorry but for me I think that the relationship has no future!

Wow........ shocker
i tout so my self.

buttercream: Have you talked about these problems before? How did she react/respond? The truth is you can't "change" a full grown individual.

i talked to her , she is said , she is willing to change,that i should put her tru, but i dont seems to understand how, i really would have had it quit with her but i had a rethink, that what if someone drops me for my weakness how will i feel. Then again enduring this relationship is where i find myself.

Dyt: I don't understand

simply put: My relationship is the incompartable one, what should i do? Quiting because of her weakness, is what i find hard to do. So whats your advise

Gab-real:
Nope

hmmmm.....

ebuetor:

simply put: My relationship is the incompartable one, what should i do? Quiting because of her weakness, is what i find hard to do. So whats your advise

U jst said u nt compartible
U wanna keep goin in a relationship that will only lead in tears? Tell her so she won't have hopes in u
Stop pitying her, its worse

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Dyt:

U jst said u nt compartible
U wanna keep goin in a relationship that will only lead in tears? Tell her so she won't have hopes in u
Stop pitying her, its worse

i will, i will have the discussion with her. Choosing my word properly not to break her heart. Thanks

ebuetor:

i talked to her , she is said , she is willing to change,that i should put her tru, but i dont seems to understand how, i really would have had it quit with her but i had a rethink, that what if someone drops me for my weakness how will i feel. Then again enduring this relationship is where i find myself.

Since she said she's willing to change, tell her in plain words what u do not like about her...talk to her about the things you aren't cool with...it's never fair to remain with someone out of pity.

buttercream:

Since she said she's willing to change, tell her in plain words what u do not like about her...talk to her about the things you aren't cool with...it's never fair to remain with someone out of pity.

Thankyou am greatful. Thankyou.

ebuetor:
Thankyou am greatful. Thankyou.

you welcome.

ebuetor: What should a man do, knowing fully well that his girlfriend is not the brain storming, decision making, future thinking, and challenging type. What should a man do, if she as everything he needs in a woman,''physically'',but mentally she is so childish, mentally lazy, and dependant, not in financial demands, but in channeling for the future. What should a man do went you are at a cross road and he ask his very beautiful lady, about her opinion on a matter arising, and all she can do is, signs, and say ''use ur instincts'', and the was all. What should a man do when his girlfriend has never told him for once, ''lets pray''. He, knowing, he is a type of person that puts 100% to his work, so therefore,needs a lady to rub mind with for the future,and help for the future, advise for the future. Should the relationship continue with all the pit holes? Can person really change another person's character, knowing fully well they grew up with this character? You cant teach the old, a new dance step.

You can groom her patiently and upgrade her to resonate on same frequency as you without her even knowing. Pure psychology. Do it for a lady you love cos it takes a lot of energy,tact, discipline and compromise to achieve. Your Ego must be a necessary sacrifice and you stepping down from your high ground relate and then take her to any level you desire. Magic happens when you get to this level with her. Don't be surprised probably when you think all is det and done and she suddenly realised oneday that you never helped her to paint her nails and premise the breakup on that. That's ladies for you.

You can invest in someones life without money cos money is never the be all. Allbeit, necessary. Do it and enjoy the magic of real relationship.

Chubhie: You can groom her patiently and upgrade her to resonate on same frequency as you without her even knowing. Pure psychology. Do it for a lady you love cos it takes a lot of energy,tact, discipline and compromise to achieve. Your Ego must be a necessary sacrifice and you stepping down from your high ground relate and then take her to any level you desire. Magic happens when you get to this level with her. Don't be surprised probably when you think all is det and done and she suddenly realised oneday that you never helped her to paint her nails and premise the breakup on that. That's ladies for you.

You can invest in someones life without money cos money is never the be all. Allbeit, necessary. Do it and enjoy the magic of real relationship.

hmmmm.... Wisdom, thats wisdom. ......Brother respect.