My fiancee's sister took a man home for introduction of her marriage,coming back to town again,she always play a cheat on they guy by going out often,though both of them are not leaving together.she uses this opportunity to be lying to her husband inview that she is coming to my place.i dont know if i did a good thing in covering her in the first place when the guy called me to know if truely she is in my place.i lied to the guy that she was around and that she has gone out to see her friend.This is the second time she into it again and the husband called me to know if she's in my place and i told the guy that i've not seen her.I told this girl that what she is doing is not right, but she responded that since the guy has not done the full marriage rite that she is free to do what she likes.
Is this good? i need your ideas and contrbution

Deception is not good!

Kufre', dont be a part of it!

Brash!:

Deception is not good!

Kufre', don't be a part of it!

standard

yeah keep lieing on her behalf, and some1 else wud lie on ur fiancee's course.
afterall they are sis.

I think i would be concerned that my fiancee may be doing the same thing with the other prospective in-law; after all, they are sisters.
Apart from that, should not be aiding and abetting such behaviour.

E NO GUD O
U GO SUFA SAME FATE AS D OFENDA.
SO QUIT WIE.

izeek:

yeah keep lieing on her behalf, and someone else would lie on your fiancee's course.
afterall they are sis.

izeek,i did not post this so that you get me irritated with dubious prayer.i know i regreted ever doing such rubbish and i prayed to God for forgivness.
so your prayer won't work out

@ post
eya too bad,
u shud have tot about that b4 u lied for her.
u know what ur babe is up too now?

i tot i was doing a good thing. but later did i realise my mistake.

Hey Man.
She can do whatever she want to do with her life;just refuse to be party to it.
Just last saturday a man refused to show up at the wedding he co-planned!
In my candid opinion:courtship as a whole is wild deception!!
Untill one is through with all the marriage rite come ritual.nothing is and should be impossible!!!
Don't men play wild cards with women?

look the thing is if u dont stop such act now u will find out that the same fate awaits u soon. its better u tell on her now than suffer the consequence later. take this advice from someone who knows.

james1:

Hey Man.
She can do whatever she want to do with her life;just refuse to be party to it.
Just last saturday a man refused to show up at the wedding he co-planned!
In my candid opinion:courtship as a whole is wild deception!!
Untill one is through with all the marriage rite come ritual.nothing is and should be impossible!!!
Don't men play wild cards with women?

you started well but ended in another way.not all men but those men that truely know what marriage is all about.

Uh. . . . . . bro u gat b man enuf

Avoid lying to the young man and tell this girl that u don't want to be part of it anymore. A girl ilke that will cover up for her SISTER. what do u think

Avoid lying to the young man and tell this girl that u don't want to be part of it anymore. A girl ilke that will cover up for her SISTER. what do u think

rightly said.

Are you super sure she is really cheating? What if your sister's fiance is just an overly jealous lover who always wants to know her whereabouts? You know, the type of person who doesnt believe you even when you say you are just hanging out with friends? And she's sick and tired of it?
Not saying its good to lie but thats just another way to look at it.

First of Introduction does not give entitlement of husband or wife. However it shows a level of commitment and agreement by both party to get married.

If I were u, I'd completely stay out of it and let her know you will not be a party to this. Next time he calls u, tell him u have no idea where she is.

If she is so darn sure she is free to do whatever she wants, she shouldn't be hiding and telling lies about where she is going to. Afterall she is "free". If she isn't interested in committing to her man, then she should back out and stop her cheating ways at least she won't have to be accountable to anyone.

yinkuso08:

First of Introduction does not give entitlement of husband or wife. However it shows a level of commitment and agreement by both party to get married.

If I were u, I'd completely stay out of it and let her know you will not be a party to this. Next time he calls u, tell him u have no idea where she is.

If she is so darn sure she is free to do whatever she wants, she shouldn't be hiding and telling lies about where she is going to. Afterall she is "free". If she isn't interested in committing to her man, then she should back out and stop her cheating ways at least she won't have to be accountable to anyone.

true dat! u shuld stay out of it o;u might loose ur fiance in return if u continue "covering-up" for her

yinkuso08:

First of Introduction does not give entitlement of husband or wife. However it shows a level of commitment and agreement by both party to get married.

Yea sure! But the moment one doofus who eats a lot of garlic and is bored of life pronounces you husband and wife, then husband and wife you are!

i am already out of it.even when i told her that what she is doing is not good.she said the guy has not done the full marriage rite.i then asked her 'why did you in 1st place took this guy home untill he bought drinks and your mum cooked food for peoples in the village to eat'? she said that one is not the problem.Eachtime her sister advises her ,she gets upset

Stop sweating yourself, you have nothing to worry about anymore. You told her fiance the truth the second time he called, keep it up, and tell the sis you no longer want to be a part of her gameplan.

Quit the game now.