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|5 Reasons Why Beautiful Women Are Unhappy In their Relationships and Love Life. by chudy144(m): 8:54am On Jan 02, 2014|
[size=26pt]5 Reasons Why Beautiful Women Are Unhappy
Causes of unhappiness are numerous, and some women are happy, but the focus of this article is on why beautiful women -in particular- are usually not happy.
It is a fact that most pretty women- worldwide- are unhappy, and this is because of many reasons. The reasons are:
being pretty, the woman expects more care & attention from her male partner. Sometimes the partner gives her some attention, but to her that is not enough, at least not enough according to her high standards.
some beautiful women have reasons to think that they are superior to their partner, particularly if he is not handsome or rich or caring. They develop the feeling that he is not worthy of their beauty and that they should start looking for another partner.
3-Too Much Attention:
it is common for a beautiful woman to get more attention, and normally men would look at her more than usual. In the beginning, she may like the attention, but as it gets more and more, she begins to feel it as an emotional pressure. Wherever she goes, whether to shopping malls, cinemas, coffee shops… etc., as more men (and even women) stare at her, she starts to hate going outdoor because of this pressure.
These causes are nuisance and can become irritating, but some women can cope and deal with them. However, the main cause of unhappiness among beautiful women is sexual abuse.
During childhood or early adulthood, pretty girls suffer from sexual harassment or sexual abuse, usually and sadly, by… a relative. They grow with that negative experience and become unhappy beautiful mature women. Why Unhappy?
They tend to develop negative associations with life. Firstly, they may hate men, fear men, hate sex, and even worse develop a negative attitude towards life. They develop limiting beliefs like: men are monsters, men want only to use their body, they can not live happily, they are a prey… etc. Then they start to develop the notion of being a victim in life. They see all circumstances happening to them as if to victimise them, even positive events. They become hostile in their personality. Some of them as they grow, they think that they forgot the experience and that they do not remember it, at least on a daily basis, which is true. However, the unconscious mind which stored that experience makes her behave as if she remembers it very well. The unconscious mind may block – partially or completely- remembering the experience, but that does not mean it is gone. It is still very much in her system, emotional and mental system. Some women of that experience can succeed in finding a man and even marry him, but the relationship is far from happy or “natural”. Why? Because she unconsciously is still defensive towards the man -husband in this case – and she is feeling insecure inside. This defensive attitude will make any relationship hard for both partners and especially for her.
The combination of these 4 causes mentioned here can make the beautiful woman feel as if her beauty is a curse on her. She wish that she were ugly. She becomes very unsatisfied with her life.
|Re: 5 Reasons Why Beautiful Women Are Unhappy In their Relationships and Love Life. by forkinsonlolo(m): 11:28am On Jan 03, 2014|
hmmmmmm God is great
|Re: 5 Reasons Why Beautiful Women Are Unhappy In their Relationships and Love Life. by sweetestguy(m): 11:39am On Jan 03, 2014|
No .2,,dats y pretty ladies shud marry handsome guys
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