vizkiz: see question

if she feels she has too much money to keep investinq on her business then she should donate the cash to charity

the man talk say him no want your money aaarrrqqqhhhhh!!!!

cuz i don't know why a woman should stress herself on a help not needed

newReal: As a family, everyone should share responsibility. A woman can help out in finance, and a man should also help out in household chores.
Reasons why some men may not want any help from their spouse may be because they feel threatened. it may be because the woman is proud, or is not submissive enough.

Lifebender: For some days now,i've been reading posts and threads about the characteristics of a real,complete man.

But one thing i noticed is the financial aspect where they emphasied it is the responsibility of the man to take care of his family.Noted!

Then i wonder if the wife does'nt work.Some people even went as far as saying the man should not ask his wife for a little help when he is financially down.

Somebody should just tell me why he wont be financially down when he pays all the bills even his wife upkeep is his responsibility

The question is what should a woman be doing with her income if she should'nt help his husband?


Please i need to know cos the husband takes care of the children financially,what will she be doing with her money if she cant help her husband with some bills and family upkeep.

Thx as you comment

Lifebender: For some days now,i've been reading posts and threads about the characteristics of a real,complete man.

But one thing i noticed is the financial aspect where they emphasied it is the responsibility of the man to take care of his family.Noted!

Then i wonder if the wife does'nt work.Some people even went as far as saying the man should not ask his wife for a little help when he is financially down.

Somebody should just tell me why he wont be financially down when he pays all the bills even his wife upkeep is his responsibility

The question is what should a woman be doing with her income if she should'nt help his husband?


Please i need to know cos the husband takes care of the children financially,what will she be doing with her money if she cant help her husband with some bills and family upkeep.

Thx as you comment

nyt3237:

I can't understand the mentality of nigerian woman. Most believe that the only responsibility of a woman is just to satisfy the sexual urge of their hubby and to take care of their children. Is that what marriage entails?what of emotional and financial support. Their own money is only used for buying cosmetics and cloth.

Lifebender: For some days now,i've been reading posts and threads about the characteristics of a real,complete man.

But one thing i noticed is the financial aspect where they emphasied it is the responsibility of the man to take care of his family.Noted!

Then i wonder if the wife does'nt work.Some people even went as far as saying the man should not ask his wife for a little help when he is financially down.

Somebody should just tell me why he wont be financially down when he pays all the bills even his wife upkeep is his responsibility

The question is what should a woman be doing with her income if she should'nt help his husband?


Please i need to know cos the husband takes care of the children financially,what will she be doing with her money if she cant help her husband with some bills and family upkeep.

Thx as you comment

nyt3237:

I can't understand the mentality of nigerian woman. Most believe that the only responsibility of a woman is just to satisfy the sexual urge of their hubby and to take care of their children. Is that what marriage entails?what of emotional and financial support. Their own money is only used for buying cosmetics and cloth.

[CHocolaTE:
]Men are known as the head of house because they provide for the family so if the woman starts doing exactly everything the man does than why should the man still be head?
Why should every member of his family bear his name?


Nonsense and ingredients.
I laugh in swahili at foolish men that want to eat their cake and have it.

Dygeasy: There's No Argument Here. As Long As I, as a man, Can Cater For My Family's Needs, My Wife Should Hold Her Money And Use It For Whatever She Likes.


What I Will Find Highly Infuriating And Annoying Is If I'm Not Around And My Kids Need Anything Or If There's Something Urgent Is To Be Done And My Wife Delays Cos I'm Not Around. Damn! That's Uselessness At Its Peak.

Lifebender:


So u wont ask ur wife for a little help when you need one

Tallotti: Anything she bloody well pleases!
As long as her obligation to the home are not jeopardized!

Tallotti: ^^^
You trust those without man or woman for house to make noise!
Nor be NL. . .THE LAND OF THE FAKELY MARRIED WITH CHILDREN. . .WE SHALL NEVER SEE!!!

Mu cha cha cha cha cha cha

OhjayE:


she can do anytin with her income but nothing like contributing to the family expenditure,dat is the duty of the husband and not the wife

taryour: No big deal @ all,the reason a woman is working/owns a business is cause of her family and her future.

If you are still single,you can do whatever you damn well please with your income,but when you get married you are obligated to support your family no matter how little it is. Yes you can buy all your females stuff but before doing that look @ the state of your family and see how you can come in,there should be a lot of savings involved for future purposes.

No matter how rich your husband is,you still will in one way or the other add your own penny,at one point you must have gotten something for your kids/hubby or even yourself with your own money. Or even buy something for the home use,even if its something worth 10 naira. If your hubby is so rich and takes care of 100 percent of all the home front then its your duty as an income earning wife to save @ least 50 percent for future reasons. The time to use it will certainly arise and you will be glad you did.

If you decide not to contribute to the home front and spend your income lavishly,you will be a disgrace to your family cause that's the role of a wife TO SUPPORT her husband. When the trying time comes is when your savings come in and you hubby will be glad. Even if your hubby doesn't ask you directly,its your wifely duty to know when to drop,you don't have to give him the money directly, we women know how to go about it. You don't have to wait for home monthly allowance,you can get things you know your home needs on your own without being told. And please don't go telling it all out to his face that you spent your income buy things you need @ home.

If you buy things with your income and he doesn't say anything leave it.don't think he doesn't notice your support,he does cause he is not blind.

Some women even think they are doing their hubby a favour by supporting with their income,that's ruBBish. If you like no support and spend lavishly no wahala,you will definitely face the consequences when the time comes.

OhjayE:


she can do anytin with her income but nothing like contributing to the family expenditure,dat is the duty of the husband and not the wife

thehunted:

your comments always make lot of sense. The family section need more of your kind.

Dygeasy:
There's No Argument Here. As Long As I, as a man, Can Cater For My Family's Needs, My Wife Should Hold Her Money And Use It For Whatever She Likes.


What I Will Find Highly Infuriating And Annoying Is If I'm Not Around And My Kids Need Anything Or If There's Something Urgent Is To Be Done And My Wife Delays Cos I'm Not Around. Damn! That's Uselessness At Its Peak.